Divorce Dividends

What Was it Like to Move Out During Divorce? | Sharing a Moment - a Divorce Dividends SideCast - with Matty & Valeska

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2453677/fan_mail/new] In this episode, Valeska and Matty get raw and real about one of the toughest phases of divorce — the actual separation and move. From awkward apartment arrangements to the emotional weight of empty rooms and new beginnings, they share what “moving out” really looks like when your life, heart, and furniture are all being divided at once. In this episode: * The emotional rollercoaster of separating homes and lives * Why “fresh starts” aren’t always empowering — and when they are * How family, friends, and unexpected support can make all the difference * The hidden grief of letting go — even of furniture and rugs * Finding healing (and maybe a blue leather sofa) in the process Moving out after divorce isn’t just about packing boxes — it’s about unpacking who you are now. This honest conversation reminds listeners that the road to rebuilding often starts with the messy, painful, and ultimately freeing act of letting go. Please ✅Subscribe [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/divorce-dividends/id1823819015]... 🤲🏻Share [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/divorce-dividends/id1823819015], and… ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️Review the show! Where to Find Valeska: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/valeskabacon/], Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/valeska.bacon] & Divorce Prep - Divorce Assistance when pulling your financial information together seems overwhelming. www.Divorce-Prep.com [https://www.divorce-prep.com] I am here solely for your entertainment & to share educational & informational resources. I am not a lawyer, accountant, or mental health expert. None of this information should be construed as or substituted for the professional advice of a physician, mental health expert, lawyer, accountant, tax preparation expert, or other qualified professional. Remember that your ultimate success or failure rests in the result of your own efforts & those of your personally hired professionals, your particular situation, & other circumstances beyond my knowledge & control.  #DivorcePrep #Divorce #DivorcePodcast #DivorceDividends ©2025 Divorce Prep LLC

Moving On: Navigating Real Estate In Divorce | Tara Tatum, CDRE

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2453677/fan_mail/new] In this episode, Tara Tatum shares a deeply personal journey of professional and personal reinvention post-divorce. After finalizing a second divorce, she embarked on a career shift, initially training as a life and divorce coach before finding her niche in Certified Divorce Real Estate (CDRE). She discusses the challenges she faced, the serendipitous opportunities that arose, and the eventual development of her landscaping business. The conversation covers essential topics such as the emotional and financial complexities of selling a marital home, the importance of consulting specialized professionals, and practical advice for others navigating similar transitions. Anecdotes highlight the importance of resilience, the benefits of creating a new life post-divorce, and the need for professional guidance during such times. Insights provided include understanding the intersection of family law and real estate, the emotional advantages of moving on, and practical steps for protecting one's financial future. Where to Find Tara Tatum, Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert™ | Realtor®   Website [http://www.charlestondivorcerealestate.com], LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/taragtatum/], Instagram [http://linkedin.com/in/taragtatum] Please ✅Subscribe [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/divorce-dividends/id1823819015]... 🤲🏻Share [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/divorce-dividends/id1823819015], and… ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️Review the show! Where to Find Valeska: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/valeskabacon/], Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/valeska.bacon] & Divorce Prep - Divorce Assistance when pulling your financial information together seems overwhelming. www.Divorce-Prep.com [https://www.divorce-prep.com] I am here solely for your entertainment & to share educational & informational resources. I am not a lawyer, accountant, or mental health expert. None of this information should be construed as or substituted for the professional advice of a physician, mental health expert, lawyer, accountant, tax preparation expert, or other qualified professional. Remember that your ultimate success or failure rests in the result of your own efforts & those of your personally hired professionals, your particular situation, & other circumstances beyond my knowledge & control.  #DivorcePrep #Divorce #DivorcePodcast #DivorceDividends ©2025 Divorce Prep LLC

Navigating The Holidays Through Divorce | Sharing a Moment - a Divorce Dividends SideCast - with Matty & Valeska... & Findel

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2453677/fan_mail/new] In this episode, the Matty, Valeska & Findel discuss the challenges and experiences of handling holidays through and after divorce. They reflect on their personal stories, including the difficult decisions and emotional turmoil faced during these times. The conversation touches on the importance of boundaries, the process of reducing people-pleasing behaviors, and the inception of new holiday traditions as a form of self-care and growth. The hosts highlight the benefits of volunteering and choosing meaningful activities over traditional celebrations, providing listeners with ideas for creating a fulfilling holiday experience despite personal challenges. Please ✅Subscribe [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/divorce-dividends/id1823819015]... 🤲🏻Share [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/divorce-dividends/id1823819015], and… ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️Review the show! Where to Find Valeska: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/valeskabacon/], Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/valeska.bacon] & Divorce Prep - Divorce Assistance when pulling your financial information together seems overwhelming. www.Divorce-Prep.com [https://www.divorce-prep.com] I am here solely for your entertainment & to share educational & informational resources. I am not a lawyer, accountant, or mental health expert. None of this information should be construed as or substituted for the professional advice of a physician, mental health expert, lawyer, accountant, tax preparation expert, or other qualified professional. Remember that your ultimate success or failure rests in the result of your own efforts & those of your personally hired professionals, your particular situation, & other circumstances beyond my knowledge & control.  #DivorcePrep #Divorce #DivorcePodcast #DivorceDividends ©2025 Divorce Prep LLC

Does your divorce include Coercive Control, Narcissism, or Both? | Kim Korven

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2453677/fan_mail/new] Valeska welcomes Kim Korven [https://kimkorven.com/pages/about] to talk about her life experiences and those of her clients related to coercive control. This episode delves into the emotional complexities of divorce and the common pitfalls people face during conventional legal processes. We discuss the importance of rituals in achieving closure and preventing the victim mentality that can trap individuals in negative cycles. Through personal anecdotes, they highlight the significance of transparency with children during divorce and the necessity of self-care. The conversation also touches on the benefits of constructive co-parenting, maintaining healthy bonds despite separation, and approaching divorce with a focus on mutual respect and shared memories. Practical tips for communicating with children about divorce and managing the emotional turmoil involved are shared, advocating for strategies that foster emotional well-being and resilience. Please ✅Subscribe [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/divorce-dividends/id1823819015]... 🤲🏻Share [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/divorce-dividends/id1823819015], and… ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️Review the show! Where to Find Valeska: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/valeskabacon/], Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/valeska.bacon] & Divorce Prep - Divorce Assistance when pulling your financial information together seems overwhelming. www.Divorce-Prep.com [https://www.divorce-prep.com] I am here solely for your entertainment & to share educational & informational resources. I am not a lawyer, accountant, or mental health expert. None of this information should be construed as or substituted for the professional advice of a physician, mental health expert, lawyer, accountant, tax preparation expert, or other qualified professional. Remember that your ultimate success or failure rests in the result of your own efforts & those of your personally hired professionals, your particular situation, & other circumstances beyond my knowledge & control.  #DivorcePrep #Divorce #DivorcePodcast #DivorceDividends ©2025 Divorce Prep LLC

How to Find Closure in Divorce: A Divorce Ritual! | Kim Korven

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2453677/fan_mail/new] In this episode, the discussion centers around the creation and significance of a 'divorce ritual' as a means for healing and proper closure. Originating from an innovative idea inspired by ancient human rituals, Kim Korven developed this practice designed to help individuals process the emotional and psychological shifts accompanying a divorce. The conversation delves into the importance of having constructive rituals for significant life changes, contrasting traditional divorce procedures with a more human-centric approach. Kim and Valeska share personal anecdotes, the emotional turmoil of divorce, its historical context, and the impact on children. Additionally, they provide insights into creating a peaceful co-parenting environment and the psychological benefits of addressing emotions directly. The episode also touches on the advantages of mediation over traditional court battles and practical strategies for navigating post-divorce life. Please ✅Subscribe [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/divorce-dividends/id1823819015]... 🤲🏻Share [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/divorce-dividends/id1823819015], and… ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️Review the show! Where to Find Valeska: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/valeskabacon/], Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/valeska.bacon] & Divorce Prep - Divorce Assistance when pulling your financial information together seems overwhelming. www.Divorce-Prep.com [https://www.divorce-prep.com] I am here solely for your entertainment & to share educational & informational resources. I am not a lawyer, accountant, or mental health expert. None of this information should be construed as or substituted for the professional advice of a physician, mental health expert, lawyer, accountant, tax preparation expert, or other qualified professional. Remember that your ultimate success or failure rests in the result of your own efforts & those of your personally hired professionals, your particular situation, & other circumstances beyond my knowledge & control.  #DivorcePrep #Divorce #DivorcePodcast #DivorceDividends ©2025 Divorce Prep LLC