Divorce Stories

Evie: I wanted more for myself.

In this episode of Divorce Stories, I speak with Evie, a mother and immigrant from Guatemala, who shares her personal journey through divorce. Evelyn reflects on the beauty of her marriage, the challenges of parenting, and the struggles of feeling unsupported by her partner. She discusses the turning point that led her to file for divorce, the emotional toll it took on her and her children, and the importance of finding independence and support. Evelyn emphasizes the need for self-healing and offers advice to women in similar situations, highlighting the strength and resilience required to navigate life after divorce. If you have a story to share or want to chat about how I can help in your divorce, find all my stuff here. [https://www.betsykellycoaching.com/links] You've got this.

Jessica: Parallel Parenting and Finding New Love

In this conversation, Betsy Kelly speaks with Jessica Dietrich about her journey through divorce, parallel parenting, and the challenges and joys of dating after separation. Jessica shares her experiences of realizing she needed to leave her marriage, the process of co-parenting with her ex-husband, and how she navigated the dating scene while raising her children. The discussion highlights the importance of self-discovery, emotional healing, and the positive impact of introducing a new partner into family dynamics. If you are experiencing conflict in your co-parenting relationship and want to learn more about Parallel Parenting check out my blog post [https://www.betsykellycoaching.com/post/what-if-we-can-t-get-along] on the topic. If you have a story to share or want to chat about how I can help in your divorce, find all my stuff here. [https://www.betsykellycoaching.com/links] You've got this.

Dominique: 2 Divorces and an Expansive Life

In this conversation, Dominique Laundry shares her personal journey through two divorces, the challenges of co-parenting, and the importance of self-love and independence. She reflects on the lessons learned from her relationships, the impact of choosing partners intentionally, and how to navigate divorce with clarity and purpose. Dominique emphasizes the significance of modeling an extraordinary life for her children and offers valuable advice for those facing similar challenges. 1. To learn more about Dominique's work as a Heart-centered Divorce Strategist, check out her WEBSITE [https://www.dominiquelaundry.com/]. 2. If you're contemplating divorce and need professionals to help, check out my resource for understanding the types of divorce professionals out there [https://www.betsykellycoaching.com/general-1].

Henrik: One Man’s Perspective- How Therapy Led to Divorce

In this conversation, Henrik Bennetsen shares his personal journey through divorce, exploring themes of vulnerability, masculinity, and the emotional challenges faced by men. He discusses the impact of therapy on his decision to end his marriage, the fears surrounding his children's well-being, and the lessons learned about love and relationships. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of community support and the need for men to embrace their emotions in order to foster healthier relationships. Henrik mentions a few books that have shaped his journey and that might be helpful during yours: 1.  The Will to Change; Men, Masculinity, and Love- [https://bellhooksbooks.com/product/the-will-to-change/]- An exploration of how the patriarchy impacts men's ability to love 2. Conscious Uncoupling; 5 steps to Happily Even After [https://www.consciousuncoupling.com/book/]-- A book about how to have a better breakup. 3. The Stepfamily Handbook; From Dating, to Getting Serious, to forming a "Blended Family" [https://stepfamilyrelationships.com/the-stepfamily-handbook/]. -- A roadmap for making your new love a part of your kids' lives. If you enjoyed my conversation with Henrik and want to talk to me yourself, either to share your story or get help with your divorce, book an intro call here. [https://calendly.com/betsy-betsykellycoaching/30min]

Kristin: A One-year-old Son and an Unexpected Divorce

If you have young children and are contemplating or experiencing divorce, or if you’re working to integrate a new step-parent, this episode is for you. Kristin Little, Author of No More Us: Navigating a Divorce or Separation You Didn't Want [https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/54745233-no-more-us], was still breastfeeding her son when she learned that her husband wanted to divorce. In this conversation, she shares what it felt like to divorce with such a young child and the things that worked and didn’t in establishing a coparenting relationship.  She reflects on the experience of her coparent bringing a new partner into their dynamic, and the impact of divorce on her son.  She discusses the emotional challenges of divorce and the importance of communication. Kris emphasizes the need for respect and boundaries in co-parenting relationships, especially when new partners are involved. She also highlights the benefits of collaborative divorce and offers advice for parents facing similar situations. * If you want to learn more about Kristin's work as a therapist, author, and coparenting coach, find her website here! [https://www.kristinlittlecounseling.com/] * If you're starting your divorce journey and need help deciding what professionals to bring onto your team, find my Cheatsheet of Divorce Professionals HERE. [https://www.betsykellycoaching.com/general-1]