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Why Midlife Feels Lonely Even When You Have Friends

1 h 3 min · 1. juni 2026
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You did everything "right"—built a life you love, raised the kids, made the big changes, maybe even reinvented yourself. So why does midlife still feel lonely sometimes? Karen and Lisa dive into the surprising difference between friendship and community, and why so many women over 40 find themselves craving deeper connection after divorce, empty nesting, relocation, career shifts, or simply outgrowing old roles. Through candid stories about rebuilding community, navigating loneliness, and pushing beyond comfort zones, they explore what it really takes to find your people in this season of life. If you've ever wondered why making friends after 50 feels harder than it should, or found yourself asking, "Where do I belong now?" this conversation will leave you feeling seen, understood, and inspired to create meaningful connection on your own terms. _____________________________________________________________ 👉Join the Podsquad here! [https://lisacorricello.activehosted.com/f/41] Subscribe for show notes & episode goodies, delivered weekly, spam free! 🍸☕ What We Were Drinking: Simply Pop Pineapple Mango Soda [https://www.coca-cola.com/us/en/brands/simply/products/pop] - listener supplied! (Shot of vodka was not ☺️) Arbonne Mango Peach Energy Fizz Lisa’s Affiliate Link with Arbonne - Pure, Safe, Beneficial nutrition, skincare, body care, and make-up free from 2000 banned chemicals https://www.arbonne.com/us/en/arb/LisaCorricelloMcdowell/?login=true [https://www.arbonne.com/us/en/arb/LisaCorricelloMcdowell/?login=true] Email me for 35-45% off here. ____________________________________________________________________ 💬 Takeaways — What Do YOU Think? We want to hear from you! Drop your thoughts in the comments, or send us an email at drinkswiththegirlspodcast@gmail.com [drinkswiththegirlspodcast@gmail.com]. Whether it's a story, a laugh, or a “yep, been there”—we love hearing how our episodes land with you.  📲 Stay Connected Follow, like, and join the conversation: Instagram: @drinkswiththegirlspod [https://www.instagram.com/] Facebook: Drinks With the Girls Podcast [https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61562302816308] Pinterest: Drinks With the Girls Podcast [https://www.pinterest.com/drinkswiththegirlspodcast/] YouTube: Drinks With the Girls Channel [https://www.youtube.com/@DrinksWiththeGirls] Website: www.drinkswiththegirlspodcast.com [http://www.drinkswiththegirlspodcast.com] 💌 Reach Out Got a question, idea, or just want to say hi? We’re all ears. Email us anytime: drinkswiththegirlspodcast@gmail.com [drinkswiththegirlspodcast@gmail.com] Connect with your hosts: ✨ Karen Shatafian – www.karenshatafian.com [http://www.karenshatafian.com] ✨ Lisa Corricello-McDowell – www.nextlevellifewithlisa.com [http://www.nextlevellifewithlisa.com]

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episode Why Midlife Feels Lonely Even When You Have Friends artwork

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