Episode 164: Dark Family Secrets - The Murder of Sara Raras
In Elkridge, Maryland, a quiet suburb between Baltimore and Washington, D.C., people move there for the peaceful neighborhoods, hiking trails, and family life. But in November of 1998, that illusion shattered. Thirty-five-year-old Sara Raras was a brilliant and kind woman who worked as a statistician for the NSA. She was also a deeply devoted mother to her one-year-old son, the type of person who would do anything for the people she loved. But behind closed doors, her marriage was falling apart. A bitter divorce. A custody battle. Allegations of abuse. Then one Sunday night, police entered Sara’s home after a worried friend hadn’t heard from her. Inside, investigators found one of the most horrific crime scenes Howard County had ever seen, the definition of overkill. Suspicion first fell upon Sara’s estranged husband, Lorenzo. But there wasn’t any evidence to prove it. For months, the case went nowhere. It wasn’t until 7 months after when a jailed nineteen-year-old began bragging about murdering a woman, describing details only the killer could know. What detectives uncovered next would expose a murder-for-hire plot fueled by resentment, family conflict, and betrayal from someone shockingly close to Sara herself. This case reminds us evil is truly everywhere, even inside those no one would suspect.
Sources:
“Woman, 35, Found Slain in her Home” in The Baltimore Sun on November 17, 1998
“Court Hears Jailhouse Tape in '98 Slaying” by Raja Mishra in The Washington Post on January 7, 2000 (https://www.washingtonpost.com/archive/local/2000/01/07/court-hears-jailhouse-tape-in-98-slaying/b2e869bd-14e1-48b4-b423-106435c37a2f/ [https://www.washingtonpost.com/archive/local/2000/01/07/court-hears-jailhouse-tape-in-98-slaying/b2e869bd-14e1-48b4-b423-106435c37a2f/])
“Slain Elkridge Woman Described as Dedicated Mother, Employee” by Del Quentin Wilber in The Baltimore Sun on November 18, 1998
“'Showing Disrespect To A Mother Is Death,' Grandma Says After Arranging Daughter-In-Law’s ‘Brutal’ Murder” by Sharon Lynn Pruitt on Oxygen True Crime on March 12, 2021 (https://www.oxygen.com/an-unexpected-killer/crime-news/emilia-raras-has-daughter-in-law-sara-killed-over-disrespect [https://www.oxygen.com/an-unexpected-killer/crime-news/emilia-raras-has-daughter-in-law-sara-killed-over-disrespect])
“Team of Detectives Work to Solve Slaying” by Del Quentin Wilber in The Baltimore Sun on November 19, 1998
“Sara Raras Murder: Where Are Ardale Tickles and Emilia Raras Now?” by Shraman Mitra on TheCinemaholic on July 22, 2022 (https://thecinemaholic.com/sara-raras-murder-where-are-ardale-tickles-and-emilia-raras-now/ [https://thecinemaholic.com/sara-raras-murder-where-are-ardale-tickles-and-emilia-raras-now/])
“Slain Howard Woman Eulogized as Earthly Angel” by Del Quentin Wilber in The Baltimore Sun on November 24, 1998
“Family, Friends Haunted by Killing of Woman” by Del Quentin Wilber in The Baltimore Sun on July 9, 1999
“Jail Inmate and Victim’s Mother-in-Law are Charged in Killing of Elkridge Woman” by Nancy A. Youssef in The Baltimore Sun on August 25, 1999
http://visithowardcounty.com/neighborhoods/elkridge/ [http://visithowardcounty.com/neighborhoods/elkridge/]
https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/21234481/sara_jane-raras [https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/21234481/sara_jane-raras]
“Deadly Disrespect” on An Unexpected Killer, Season 2, Episode 9 on Peacock