God Can't Use You the Way He Wants To — Until You Do This One Thing

Rejected On Earth, Rewarded In Heaven

What if the very thing people have been using against you is the exact thing Jesus calls you blessed for? Buddy opens the Sermon on the Mount today — Matthew 5:10–12 — and breaks down rejection in a way that's hard to unhear. Most people spend their whole life trying to be understood, accepted, celebrated. But Jesus never promised that. He said blessed are you when you don't conform to the pattern of this world — and that the people who reject you for it are doing exactly what was prophesied of every prophet before you. This isn't about being persecuted for being difficult, prideful, or "too religious." It's about what happens when truth — which is Jesus — starts to live through you, and darkness reacts to the light. Buddy breaks down why the devil's only real weapon left is attacking your identity, because he can no longer condemn what's already been made righteous through the blood. There's a long game and a short game. The short game is the offense, the rejection, the need to be understood right now. The long game is the reward — and the peace that comes from knowing who you are doesn't shift with what people think of you, or even what you think of yourself. Buddy also shares a personal revelation from VousCon week — on two and a half hours of sleep, reading John 14:6, and understanding for the first time why Jesus is called "the truth" before He's called good, faithful, or just. Truth is the standard underneath all of it. "Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me. Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven." — Matthew 5:11–12 🔔 Subscribe and hit the bell — new devotional every weekday morning. 📖 Co-ed Bible study Saturday at BOXR Miami. DM "Bible study" for the link. 📌 Join the Mentorship: 👉 https://www.buddybrand.fitness/mentor [https://www.buddybrand.fitness/mentor]... 📲 DM me on Instagram — I answer every message: 👉 / buddybrandfitness

God Can't Use You the Way He Wants To — Until You Do This One Thing

You keep asking God what your purpose is. The answer has been in 2 Timothy 2:21 the whole time — and it's simpler than you think. Buddy opens 2 Timothy 2:19–21 today — Paul writing to his mentee Timothy — and breaks down the one thing that determines whether God can use you as an instrument for special purposes or not. It's not your gifting. It's not your calling. It's not how long you've been walking with God. It's whether you're standing on truth or stumbling on lies. In a large house there are articles of gold, silver, wood, and clay. Some for special purposes, some for common use. But the key isn't what you're made of. It's whether you've cleansed yourself from the latter — the sin, the compromise, the garbage that weighs the spirit down. Do that, and the verse says you will be made holy, useful to the master, and prepared to do any good work. That's it. That's the whole thing. Buddy also names the lie that keeps men searching for purpose their whole lives without finding it: follow your heart, heal yourself, love yourself. If you could have done that, you would have done it already. The Word is the only thing that's actually true — and standing on that truth is the only foundation that doesn't shift. Paul mentored Timothy. Buddy mentors his community. Every man who thinks he doesn't need a mentor is standing in spiritual pride — and spiritual pride is the reason you can't see what God is trying to show you. "Those who cleanse themselves from the latter will be instruments for special purposes, made holy, useful to the master, and prepared to do any good work." — 2 Timothy 2:21 🔔 Subscribe and hit the bell — new devotional every weekday morning. 📖 Men's Bible study tonight 8PM EST. Co-ed Saturday 3:30PM EST at BOXR Miami + online 7PM EST. DM "Bible study" for the link. 0:00 How Do We Continue to Allow God to Use Us? 1:00 VousCon Recap — Most Powerful Week of His Life 1:24 Walking in Love Ministry Now Planted in Miami at BOXR 2:15 Writer/Reader Context — Paul Writing to Timothy 3:00 Everyone Needs a Mentor — Spiritual Pride Says Otherwise 3:45 False Teachers and How to Stay in Truth 4:15 Reading 2 Timothy 2:19–21 5:09 When Buddy First Read This — "I Was Made For Something Like This" 5:50 Why Do We Fall For the Lie That We Have to Find Purpose Alone? 6:00 Verse 19 — God's Solid Foundation Stands Firm 6:17 God Is Truth — Standing in His Nature Is How You Stand Firm 7:15 Why We Get Lost — Stumbling on Lies Instead of Standing on Truth 7:40 Verse 20 — Gold, Silver, Wood, and Clay 8:02 All Are Used — But Not All Are Cleansed 8:29 Verse 21 — Cleanse Yourself and Become an Instrument for Special Purposes 9:05 That Is Literally All You Have To Do 9:30 The Most Powerful Week of Revelation in Buddy's Life 10:38 Follow Your Heart, Heal Yourself, Love Yourself — Why That Doesn't Work 11:12 The Word of God Is the Only Thing That Is Actually True 11:30 Bible Study Is Where This Gets Applied to Real Life 12:00 Closing Prayer 12:17 Final CTA — DM "Bible Study" Now building the story brief.

We Baptized 17 People and Watched a Man With Brain Damage Sleep Through the Night: Post VousCon

We baptized 17 people. A man with brain damage who hadn't slept more than four hours a night slept through the whole night after. And I almost missed all of it because I believed I wasn't good enough for community. Buddy comes back from VousCon Miami — five days with 75 people from around the world, demons manifesting and being prayed through, physical healing, and the most transformative week of his life — and opens 1 Thessalonians 5 to answer one question: how do you keep the fire from going out when the moment is over and you go back home? The answer isn't a formula. Paul gives it in three lines: rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances. Not because things are good. Because God is always good — and the moment you stop, you're out of the Spirit and back in the flesh. Those two cannot operate at the same time. Buddy also breaks down the word that's been sitting in his life unanswered — and shows why the next word from God isn't always a new one. Sometimes God is just waiting for you to go back and do the last thing He told you. The men's Bible study at BOXR started because Buddy stopped asking for a new word and went back to the last one. And the lie that almost kept him from all of it: I wasn't good enough for community. I was too much of a sinner. No one could relate to me. That's not conviction. That's the devil keeping you away from your deliverance. "Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances — for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus." — 1 Thessalonians 5:16–18 🔔 Subscribe and hit the bell — new devotional every weekday morning. 📖 Women's Bible study tonight 8PM EST. Men's tomorrow 8PM EST. DM "Bible study" for the link. You don't have to turn your camera on. Just come.

My Dad Just Went to Prison Again. Here's How I Still Honor Him

My dad just went to prison again a few weeks ago. And I still honor him. Here's why — and why it's the heaviest thing you'll ever do in the kingdom. Buddy opens Romans 12 today and flips the way you understand honor completely. Most people read "honor one another above yourselves" as a nice sentiment — a call to be polite, to get along, to treat people well when they deserve it. Buddy breaks down why that reading misses the entire weight of what Paul is saying. Honor isn't agreement. It's not enabling. It's not pretending someone is mature when they're not. It's recognizing that every single person — including the ones who have done you the dirtiest — is made perfect in the image of God. And when you dishonor them, you make light of what God placed inside them. You don't just dismiss them. You dismiss the image of God in them. That's the kingdom perspective that freed Buddy to walk in purpose. Not therapy. Not time. Not distance. The understanding that honoring his mom and dad — even when they were still falling, still doing wrong, his dad still going back to prison — was the only reason he was able to steward the community standing in front of him right now. Romans 12:1–2 isn't just about personal transformation. It's the foundation: offer your body as a living sacrifice, renew your mind, and only then can you test and approve what God's will actually is. You want purpose? It's already in that verse. But you can't access it from a posture of judgment. The heaviest thing in the kingdom isn't your unforgiveness. It isn't your bitterness. It isn't your need to be right. It's honor — because honor carries the substance of who God is. "Honor one another above yourselves." — Romans 12:10 🔔 Subscribe and hit the bell — new devotional every weekday morning. 📖 Co-ed Bible study — DM "Bible study" for the link. VousCon Miami is live this week. Stay tuned.

God Doesn't See You As Less Chosen Than the Famous Christians

You've been told "many are called, few are chosen" — and quietly wondered if you're one of the few. You're not reading that right.Buddy opens 1 Corinthians 12 today and goes directly at the lie that some believers are more chosen, more gifted, more important to God than others. It's a lie that keeps men on the sidelines of their own purpose — watching people like Buddy, or the most famous Christians they can name, and assuming God uses them differently than He'd use someone like you.He doesn't. The blood paid the same price for every single one of us. God saw the purpose He put inside of you before the foundations of the world were ever laid — 2 Timothy 1:9. That purpose was not assigned based on how you feel, what you've done, or how your life looks right now. The sea is powerful, unpredictable, and shifting. The truth of who God says you are doesn't move.1 Corinthians 12 is about the body — and every part matters. When one part is sick, the whole body is sick. When one part is sidelined, something in the body doesn't work right. That part is you. The body needs you functioning, not watching from the outside wondering if you made the cut. You made the cut. The blood settled it."For we were all baptized by one Spirit so as to form one body — whether Jews or Gentiles, slave or free — and we were all given the one Spirit to drink." — 1 Corinthians 12:13 🔔 Subscribe and hit the bell — new devotional every weekday morning. 📖 Co-ed Bible study tonight 8PM EST — DM "Bible study" to get the link. In-person at BOXR Miami. VousCon this week — over 100 people. Come through.