Listening for God: Spiritual Direction and Ministry with Kelly Erickson
In this episode, we welcome spiritual director Kelly Erickson to explore spiritual direction and its vital role in sustaining the pastoral and ministry calling. We discuss how spiritual direction creates a sacred space of listening, silence, and attentiveness to God, especially for those carrying the pressures and expectations of leadership. We reflect on how practices like solitude, silence, Sabbath, and retreat help pastors resist malformation, address the dark side of ministry, and reclaim their belovedness in Christ. Together, we consider how spiritual direction differs from mentoring or friendship and how it invites ministry to flow from a deep, grounded life with God.
Kelly Erickson’s spiritual direction practice website with many additional resources: Hills & Valleys [https://www.hillsvalleys.org/].
Christ-Centered Spiritual Direction Association: https://www.graftedlife.org/csda/home/ [https://www.graftedlife.org/csda/home/].
The Transforming Center’s spiritual direction resource: https://directory.transformingcenter.org [https://directory.transformingcenter.org].
We mentioned the following books:
Peter Scazzero, Emotionally Healthy Spirituality [https://faithgateway.com/products/emotionally-healthy-spirituality-its-impossible-to-be-spiritually-mature-while-remaining-emotionally-immature?variant=33623012507784]
Henri Nouwen, Life of the Beloved [https://crossroadpublishing.com/product/life-of-the-beloved/]
Teresa of Avila, The Life of St. Teresa of Avila by Herself [https://www.amazon.com/Saint-Teresa-Herself-Penguin-Classics/dp/0140440739/ref=sr_1_6?crid=2KKN1MPKXYS7&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.RhZ78bP60jV3gHJqq8INYqoknh_oDNPk6m6zZ6LC22jXq2BFs07gwII8x1iYRDwknhhcspbEwJMg6UaX_JHEsAZOf3hdTjguElgTgM74-dDbpNNQyGOwcoh_NcUFsFIGTLWhoz6YlXm_LCaYfCiKxSgkjMKN-e5bQX4CgsCPhyr2ST4KRNJZhCYAmR3J_Z6Ope6_yzVVq1vDmgqKL9H68McTkS-TscHfmCinSj-ppMkl6EhJsSaDNnQNCH6yHGwp9N48tTFvQ7h1pqYtmhsVBJ2u4uXJO9WQ9dVvNetu3gM.WISQ3UsVpU_ehyePt6fpMlUbX011LmABqWcKuxH7CsM&dib_tag=se&keywords=teresa+of+avila&qid=1763413143&sprefix=teresa+of+avil,aps,144&sr=8-6]
Bernard of Clairvaux, Selected Works [https://www.amazon.com/Bernard-Clairvaux-Selected-Classics-Spirituality/dp/0809129175/ref=sr_1_1?crid=LA8YAFF9EJSF&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9._RPGe8DE3ok5SZUtNUgfr6shlzgtcdl5TuT0k4jW1l7On4Vw5_aWX_E6aup-CGiaz0FFXzmzHCB0mTwl_RQG02UFKk0fH4kwWXvdwSq_ImwdmGyjnV7D-iCVEysP1vJZ9-UobZh_RlwMuV6BCDNi9JN-kRAfK6uHimuxDJvYqDteqP-X3XIOmtgh2YzTph8aDisrtHOmLs_GMJVWbfORC89U6NFyjIw-R0KEP9RI7YlHsQwsSKaktIGodl2kv4LBRQfSzYXmVnASBCX7w1dPJLOQLKYPqM5oSa1CmOjkITY.abVO_tFCi62RsYvXTFFUjEFVTZor23WX1rdSAqkoo_k&dib_tag=se&keywords=bernard+of+clairvaux&qid=1763412984&sprefix=bernard+of+clairvaux,aps,131&sr=8-1]
Julian of Norwich, Showings [https://www.amazon.com/Julian-Norwich-Showings-Edmund-Colledge/dp/B007CWSFZ6/ref=sr_1_8?crid=SEKS17EVZT7Z&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.8jEptLCoG7KM3Ca9vN0cg0GVp-ODB04RrjXOjOjq6fUYzGo9SLHpjZEysCkMbtMMtA_ueHfvpCJgJtXQ16fvZ97rZEoNkpJfpueWXX4cimTSMG38IkQo3uumBbnSK8FpgaTJqSRyAqfzqkm1UX8RxhnN0MwTrOqbqq7TuVyM-eVfHyBrAfjiyjAEeD57NiwzeUT_FVWt7kvK_sB5xkv2toRUMRrlH5jLVN_tgUNveKOatfeX1jTuOc15XMihyvq4wYgnlPYTuMZRMwD3fv8cnj1ZzOQjhgVfqJOtxZU7c2Y.qdup5hySKNUPo_x5F1baJ1XNBE-YfMj7sL2a_ba2E04&dib_tag=se&keywords=julian+of+norwich&qid=1763475495&sprefix=julian+of+norwic,aps,189&sr=8-8]
Thomas Merton, The Seven Storey Mountain [https://www.amazon.com/Seven-Storey-Mountain-Thomas-Merton/dp/0156010860/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1SVDFMCL0DY5I&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.EwYRu3ube3sNIoLLSQe0aGQUhJvy-9hgd0u_uxo8Eo1Z_IP4YwbwLKebpxZErALiMlUkEWn9sZu0nrUGt2VhPZs57szcbIcsGJTFjR_0uK6HFmS9DmNBCF7GW3NwXQsrd5HIJ97EoGBrFEyLJZucGbOl6LELHtVZ78KhyyioQHxIWKSALTf1bZrwx61qUo6uDTLFKYOOftAUH62fcxbAqPxYsWoj_V5TRFJ1Dn4HryU.Obyds5u49x_ifxp_JFdFCsUnY5MQFGGEtEHBND4v8Io&dib_tag=se&keywords=seven+storey+mountain&qid=1763413030&sprefix=seven+storey+mountai,aps,126&sr=8-1]
Eugene Peterson, Working the Angles: The Shape of Pastoral Integrity [https://www.eerdmans.com/9780802802651/working-the-angles/]
Lyle Dorsett, Seeking the Secret Place: The Spiritual Formation of C. S. Lewis [https://bakerpublishinggroup.com/products/9781587431227_seeking-the-secret-place]
Gary L. McIntosh and Samuel D. Rima, Overcoming the Dark Side of Leadership [https://bakerpublishinggroup.com/products/9780801068355_overcoming-the-dark-side-of-leadership]
Pre-order Matt’s book, The Pastor as Gardener: A Renewed Vision for Ministry [https://www.eerdmans.com/9780802884145/the-pastor-as-gardener/], and then visit his blog to sign-up for pre-order incentives: www.mwerickson.com [http://www.mwerickson.com].