Finding My Sparkle

Putting Myself First Changed Everything

10 min · 25. feb. 2026
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I almost didn’t post this episode. It feels a little unfiltered, a little all over the place — but it’s honest. And that’s what this journey is about. In this episode, I share my definition of self-love and how, for most of my life, I didn’t put myself first. I was the friend who dropped everything, the person who prioritized everyone else’s happiness before my own — and then questioned my worth when that energy wasn’t returned. I talk about the shift that changed everything: realizing that putting myself first isn’t selfish… it’s necessary. This is a reflection on people-pleasing, healing, choosing yourself, and learning that the love you’ve been searching for has to start within. And at the end, I share a simple tool to help you start putting yourself first, too.🤍

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Putting Myself First Changed Everything

I almost didn’t post this episode. It feels a little unfiltered, a little all over the place — but it’s honest. And that’s what this journey is about. In this episode, I share my definition of self-love and how, for most of my life, I didn’t put myself first. I was the friend who dropped everything, the person who prioritized everyone else’s happiness before my own — and then questioned my worth when that energy wasn’t returned. I talk about the shift that changed everything: realizing that putting myself first isn’t selfish… it’s necessary. This is a reflection on people-pleasing, healing, choosing yourself, and learning that the love you’ve been searching for has to start within. And at the end, I share a simple tool to help you start putting yourself first, too.🤍

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