Activate Your Destiny

Why You Know What To Do But Still Won't Start

You know what you are supposed to do. You have known for a while. So why are you still not moving? In this episode we are talking about why the full plan is not coming before you take the first step and what it actually looks like to stop stalling and start somewhere. Not step one. Step one A. The smallest first piece of the thing you already know you are supposed to do. If you are a mom who keeps waiting for the right moment this episode is going to hit different. What we get into: * Why waiting for the full plan is just delayed obedience in disguise * How a webinar registration Des almost scrolled past completely changed her life * What step one A looks like * How to find yours right now Why small acts of obedience are still obedience Your next step is at the link below. guide.destinyfaithmckoy.com/starthere [http://guide.destinyfaithmckoy.com/starthere]

You've Been Resting Wrong | The 7 Types of Rest Called Moms Actually Need

Did you know there are seven types of rest. Physical. Mental. Spiritual. Emotional. Social. Sensory. And creative. Most people only ever hand you one definition. Stop moving. Take a nap. But what if that is not what you actually need right now. In this episode of the Activate Your Destiny podcast I break down all seven types of rest and help you figure out which one the ambitious called mom actually needs in this season. We talk about why redefining rest is not giving up on your assignment. It is actually what sustains it. This episode almost did not happen. The original recording would not upload. So we went live instead. Because someone needed this message today. Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith wrote a book called Sacred Rest that breaks down these seven types in depth. Worth adding to your reading list. Inspired by a conversation featuring Hayley Mulenda. Instagram @hayleymulenda. Join the free Reset Challenge: guide.destinyfaithmckoy.com/resetchallenge [http://guide.destinyfaithmckoy.com/resetchallenge] Start Here: guide.destinyfaithmckoy.com/starthere [http://guide.destinyfaithmckoy.com/starthere] Watch and subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@destinyfaithmckoy [https://www.youtube.com/@destinyfaithmckoy] New episodes every Wednesday.

How Moms Lose the Ability to Say What They Want and How to Get It Back

It starts with dinner. But it was never really about dinner. If you are a mom who struggles to say what you want this episode is for you. In this episode of the Activate Your Destiny podcast I share a real moment from my birthday where my husband asked me what I wanted and my response was almost always the answer that I thought either he needed, that my children needed, or that somebody else needed. It was very rarely the truth about what I actually wanted. We talk about what Isaiah 54:2 says about the space you are allowed to take up. God said enlarge it, stretch it, do not hold back. And yet we keep shrinking and folding ourselves into whatever space is left. We get into what boundaries actually are and why they show people how to love you. Making room does not just look like saying no. Your schedule should be built around what matters and everything else fits within that. I also share a real story from a Mom School quarterly planning session where we went through one mom's full weekly schedule and found everything she was doing out of guilt that had nothing to do with what actually served her family. The first thing we put aside is the only thing that directly impacts us. That ends today. Podcast referenced on boundaries: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RJNEX0v31t4 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RJNEX0v31t4] Ready for your next step: guide.destinyfaithmckoy.com/starthere [http://guide.destinyfaithmckoy.com/starthere] Join the free Reset Challenge: guide.destinyfaithmckoy.com/resetchallenge [http://guide.destinyfaithmckoy.com/resetchallenge] Watch and subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@destinyfaithmckoy [https://www.youtube.com/@destinyfaithmckoy] New episodes every Wednesday.

When God Asks You What YOU Want And You Do Not Know How to Answer

Have you ever had a moment where God asked you what you wanted and you just sat there? In this episode I share what happened when I sat down to write my vision and why so many called moms struggle to name what they actually desire. We talk about guilt, fear, finances, and why admiring what you want is not the same as pursuing it. Your assignment is waiting. Let's get activated. If this episode is already speaking to something in you take 10 to 15 minutes tonight. Sit in silence away from every distraction. Write down what you want. Not a goal list. Not a vision board. What do you actually desire. Do not worry about how it will happen or what you can afford right now. Just write it down and take it before God. Let Him speak to you. Let Him highlight what He wants to do for you now. Write the vision and make it plain. Habakkuk 2:2. If you are ready for a next step the free 31 Day Reset Challenge and Mom School are both waiting for you. Start here: https://guide.destinyfaithmckoy.com/starthere [https://guide.destinyfaithmckoy.com/starthere] New episodes every Wednesday.

When Mom Heals Her Whole Family Thrives

This week’s episode is a special bonus message originally shared at the Healing Takes a Village Summit hosted by Aaliyah Burgess and The Very Intentional Mama. In this message, I’m sharing why a mother’s healing impacts more than just her. It impacts her children, her relationships, her confidence, and the atmosphere of her home. When mom begins to heal, the whole family can begin to thrive. We talk about identity, community, confidence, healing, and why you were never meant to carry everything alone. If you’ve been in a season of reassessing, feeling stretched, or realizing something needs to shift, I pray this message encourages you. If you’re ready to take your next step, start here: https://guide.destinyfaithmckoy.com/home [https://guide.destinyfaithmckoy.com/home] #Motherhood #HealingJourney #ChristianPodcast #MomLife #PersonalGrowth #IdentityInChrist #CommunitySupport #EmotionalHealing