Honestly Tho...Podcast

How To Avoid A Situationship Ft. Oliver Luke & Mioshi

This week we’re rejoined by host and vibes curated Oliver Luke, and aspiring creative director, Mioshi for a very insightful conversation around situationships and commitment. We unpack if it is possible to mourn the ending of a situationship the same way as the ending of a committed relationship, how to avoid situations that lack commitment, and much more. We also discuss how people end up in situationships and what can be done to avoid unwanted situationships, as sometimes one person wants a relationship and the other person does not. What advice would you give to avoid ending up in a situationship? Do people prefer situationships because they fear commitment all around? We unpack the fear of commitment in a relationship and how this fear may mirror in other areas of our lives. Oliver has an epiphany and is transparent with us about his reasoning for his fear of commitment. Do you fear commitment? Let us know in the comments. Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!

How Long Is Too Long To Make Your Partner Wait For Sex?

This week the trio reunites to keep it short and sweet as we discuss the notion of things we should outgrow by a certain age and role gender plays in this. We also discuss the reality of being in a sexless relationship after giving birth, and how long is too long to go without sex while married or in a relationship. While we understand hormonal changes and other factors that may affect a woman after having a child, we discuss some ways in which both partners can help rekindle the passion in their relationship. Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!

Does Unconditional Love Exist? FT. Billy From the 25andoverclub

This week we’re rejoined by our podcast cousin Billy from 25&OverClub to talk all things from main character energy being harmful to those around you to if it’s possible to love unconditionally, and so much more. While a lot of people encourage main character energy, can it be detrimental to your friends or family who feed into it? Often times when you are the main one being celebrated or who hold the spotlight, it’s easy to treat those who are around you like they’re replaceable. What are your thoughts? Do you have main character energy? We also pose the question of if adult love should be unconditional or not. Can you truly love someone without conditions and can you unconditionally love someone who conditionally loves you? This one had us speechless, so let us know your thoughts in the comments below. We close out with a reaction to Letoya Luckett saying she will put her kids before her man in her next marriage. Ladies and gents, what are your thoughts on this? Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!

Work It Out Or Leave For Good? Plus: Testing Your Partner FT. Billy from 25andoverclub

This week we’re joined by our podcast cousin Billy from The 25&Over Club Podcast and boy did he flip the script on us! We talk all things from balancing relationships, work, and life to dating after 30, and if one should disclose all details about their past relationships to current suitors. Amidst that, Billy flips the script on us and inquired about Bri’s relationship status. Is Bri single or taken, tune in to find out 👀 While discussing disclosing details of past relationships to current suitors, we discuss if the “less is more” approach is the better way to go to avoid certain behavior like love bombing, manipulation, etc. If we make it known why our past relationship failed or what we tolerated in that relationship, does it make the current suitor think you will also tolerate that behavior from them? Are you giving away cheat codes by disclosing too much? Let’s talk it! Also, is the dating pool really that bad? While Bri has avoided dating for most of her adult life, Zee has a different experience with dating and thinks it’s easier when you know exactly what you want. What are your thoughts on the dating pool? Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!

Men Don’t Have A Safe Space To Be Vulnerable

This week we sit down with artist and designer Grafh to talk all things from his lack of financial literacy when he first began making money to qualities that make a good wife, to being the “go to” person to his partner and much more. We discuss if we are comfortable with going to our partners about any and everything and while Grafh wants to be that person for his significant other, he isn’t comfortable having the roles reversed. He opens up about his lack of trust and vulnerability growing up, and how this may have hindered his trust and vulnerability in adult relationships. We also dive into his artistry and how music has influenced him and “saved him.” Symphony makes a correlation between his lyrics where he references accomplishments not hitting the same when certain people aren’t here to celebrate with you. Grafh gets candid about his relationship with his parents, his upbringing, and why he makes the music he makes. Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!