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How To Get Wet When You're Dry

Podcast by Anna Wolfe

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About How To Get Wet When You're Dry

Love and lust without the liquor. A show for people navigating recovery and relationships. Host Anna Wolfe, a journalist and several years into recovery from alcohol and an eating disorder, is joined by special guests and experts to unpick, unlearn and better understand the turbulent nature of addiction, and how it affects our relationships. Anna probes those in the know to show that we can all have it better, however dark things have been in the past. Anna’s not a therapist, a guru, or an expert - just a woman who thought it would be nice to share these things and now deeply regrets it.

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20 episodes

episode Russell & Lindsey Kane: I made her coat into a muff artwork

Russell & Lindsey Kane: I made her coat into a muff

On a mission to tackle Britain's intimacy crisis, Russell and Lindsey Kane are helping couples find their spark, rekindle desire, and revive their sex lives. In short, they're here to get Britain banging again. They sit down with Anna to talk about love, lust, and life as a couple. From the moment they met while Russell was using Lindsey’s jacket on stage to fake-wax his fanny, to Lindsey's long-standing crush on Rita Ora, to where they find themselves 12 years later.  This is a candid, funny, and horny AF convo. P.S. We also talk about serious stuff like ADHD and alcohol, the manosphere and sex education. Keep us wet when we’re dry by donating to our⁠ ⁠Collectiv⁠⁠ [https://pay.collctiv.com/how-to-get-wet-when-youre-dry-65564] pot. All proceeds go toward making the show.  From our guests: * JOLT: https://www.joltmyworld.com/ [https://www.joltmyworld.com/] * Catch Russell in Romeo and Juliet: https://www.newvictheatre.org.uk/productions/romeo-juliet/ [https://www.newvictheatre.org.uk/productions/romeo-juliet/] * Get Russell's new book When Brian Met Terry (out now!) here [https://www.amazon.co.uk/When-Brian-Terry-Russell-Kane/dp/1836006527/ref=sr_1_1?crid=14AUTAM2LIX5D&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.82zDKkjFCjUJrRibFglsiYjm44d5Gc4XBunI4eTyafQ.zqPFJeq9LmJV7BJIAvLiJlIGaRDUKiBHprE-l50zf60&dib_tag=se&keywords=when+brian+met+terry+russell+kane&qid=1776504977&sprefix=when+brian+met+twrry+russell+kane+%2Caps%2C271&sr=8-1] Looking for support? Alcoholics Anonymous [https://www.alcoholics-anonymous.org.uk/helpline/contact/] 0800 917 7650  Narcotics Anonymous [https://ukna.org/] (UKNA) Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous [https://slaauk.org/] (S.L.A.A.) Al-Anon [https://al-anonuk.org.uk/] - support for families and friends Campaign Against Living Miserably (CALM) [https://www.thecalmzone.net/] 0800 58 58 58 (5pm-midnight) BEAT eating disorders  [https://www.beateatingdisorders.org.uk/get-information-and-support/get-help-for-myself/i-need-support-now/helplines/] The Mix [https://www.themix.org.uk/]  Mind UK  [https://www.mind.org.uk/need-urgent-help/using-this-tool/] Text SHOUT [https://www.giveusashout.org/] to 85258 —-- Produced by Ollie Peart at Rethink Audio [https://www.rethinkaudio.com/] Video production from Podcast Discovery [https://www.podcastdiscovery.com/]

13 May 2026 - 55 min
episode Q&A: Everything my partner does drives me mad artwork

Q&A: Everything my partner does drives me mad

In this question and answer episode, Anna and Sally sit down to ponder the ups and downs of dating a normie, the fear of a partner’s relapse and how you can choose self-respect over a dopamine hit.  If you’ve a question for Sally and Anna about sobriety, dating and love, please get them through our instagram @wetwhendrypod  You can find Sally at sallyosullivan.com [http://sallyosullivan.com]. Keep us wet when we’re dry by donating to our ⁠Collectiv⁠ [https://pay.collctiv.com/how-to-get-wet-when-youre-dry-65564] pot. All proceeds go toward making the show.  Looking for support? Alcoholics Anonymous [https://www.alcoholics-anonymous.org.uk/helpline/contact/] 0800 917 7650  Narcotics Anonymous [https://ukna.org/] (UKNA) Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous [https://slaauk.org/] (S.L.A.A.) Al-Anon [https://al-anonuk.org.uk/] - support for families and friends Campaign Against Living Miserably (CALM) [https://www.thecalmzone.net/] 0800 58 58 58 (5pm-midnight) BEAT eating disorders  [https://www.beateatingdisorders.org.uk/get-information-and-support/get-help-for-myself/i-need-support-now/helplines/] The Mix [https://www.themix.org.uk/]  Mind UK  [https://www.mind.org.uk/need-urgent-help/using-this-tool/] Text SHOUT [https://www.giveusashout.org/] to 85258 —-- Produced by Ollie Peart at Rethink Audio [https://www.rethinkaudio.com/] Video production from Podcast Discovery [https://www.podcastdiscovery.com/]

6 May 2026 - 19 min
episode Seye Adelekan: Getting through break ups sober artwork

Seye Adelekan: Getting through break ups sober

This week, we’re bringing you something special. Firstly, Seye Adelekan, aka Gorillaz bassist and friend of the show, is back. Secondly, he and Anna both went through breakups after recording in season one, so they’re putting their pain out there all in the name of helping people to get through heartbreak sober. There will also be a biology lesson, a masterclass on songs to get intimate with, and a look into the ghosts of Anna’s ChatGPT past. Expect answers to questions like How do you know when you’re ready to date again? How do you get through painful feelings sober? Why did he agree to come on for a second time? Get in touch on socials @wetwhendrypod.  Keep us wet when we’re dry by donating to our ⁠Collectiv⁠ [https://pay.collctiv.com/how-to-get-wet-when-youre-dry-65564] pot. All proceeds go toward making the show.  Looking for support? Alcoholics Anonymous [https://www.alcoholics-anonymous.org.uk/helpline/contact/] 0800 917 7650  Narcotics Anonymous [https://ukna.org/] (UKNA) Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous [https://slaauk.org/] (S.L.A.A.) Al-Anon [https://al-anonuk.org.uk/] - support for families and friends Campaign Against Living Miserably (CALM) [https://www.thecalmzone.net/] 0800 58 58 58 (5pm-midnight) BEAT eating disorders  [https://www.beateatingdisorders.org.uk/get-information-and-support/get-help-for-myself/i-need-support-now/helplines/] The Mix [https://www.themix.org.uk/]  Mind UK  [https://www.mind.org.uk/need-urgent-help/using-this-tool/] Text SHOUT [https://www.giveusashout.org/] to 85258 —-- Produced by Ollie Peart at Rethink Audio [https://www.rethinkaudio.com/] Video production from Podcast Discovery [https://www.podcastdiscovery.com/]

29 Apr 2026 - 46 min
episode Q&A: I stopped drinking and realised I hate my husband artwork

Q&A: I stopped drinking and realised I hate my husband

This week, Anna is joined once again by resident therapist and "classy lady," Sally O’Sullivan. Over a tower of chocolate fingers (we love a finger), we tackle your most pressing questions like trusting a partner who’s lied about their sobriety, why healthy relationships feel ‘boring’ and relearning intimacy. If you’ve a question for Sally and Anna about sobriety, dating and love, please get them through our instagram @wetwhendrypod [https://www.instagram.com/wetwhendrypod/]. You can find Sally at sallyosullivan.com [http://sallyosullivan.com]. Keep us wet when we’re dry by donating to our ⁠Collectiv⁠ [https://pay.collctiv.com/how-to-get-wet-when-youre-dry-65564] pot. All proceeds go toward making the show.  Looking for support? Alcoholics Anonymous [https://www.alcoholics-anonymous.org.uk/helpline/contact/] 0800 917 7650  Narcotics Anonymous [https://ukna.org/] (UKNA) Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous [https://slaauk.org/] (S.L.A.A.) Al-Anon [https://al-anonuk.org.uk/] - support for families and friends Campaign Against Living Miserably (CALM) [https://www.thecalmzone.net/] 0800 58 58 58 (5pm-midnight) BEAT eating disorders  [https://www.beateatingdisorders.org.uk/get-information-and-support/get-help-for-myself/i-need-support-now/helplines/] The Mix [https://www.themix.org.uk/]  Mind UK  [https://www.mind.org.uk/need-urgent-help/using-this-tool/] Text SHOUT [https://www.giveusashout.org/] to 85258 —-- Produced by Ollie Peart at Rethink Audio [https://www.rethinkaudio.com/] Video production from Podcast Discovery [https://www.podcastdiscovery.com/]

22 Apr 2026 - 19 min
episode Dave Manheim: Profound moments of shame artwork

Dave Manheim: Profound moments of shame

A former heroin addict turned podcaster, David Manheim has spent the last decade turning his darkest years into one of the most beloved communities in the recovery world. He's the co-creator and host of Dopey - a dark comedy podcast on drugs, addiction, recovery, and, as he puts it, "all the dumb sh*t in between". This week, he's sat down with Anna to talk about rehab romances, the volcanic pull of love notes written in crayon, and loving people after loss. Get in touch on socials @wetwhendrypod.  You can hear from Dave on the Dopey [https://podfollow.com/1077823917] Podcast and @dopeypodcast [https://www.instagram.com/dopeypodcast?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==]. Keep us wet when we’re dry by donating to our ⁠Collectiv⁠ [https://pay.collctiv.com/how-to-get-wet-when-youre-dry-65564] pot. All proceeds go toward making the show. Thank you! Produced by Ollie Peart at Rethink Audio [https://www.rethinkaudio.com/] Video production from Podcast Discovery [https://www.podcastdiscovery.com/] Looking for support? Alcoholics Anonymous [https://www.alcoholics-anonymous.org.uk/helpline/contact/] 0800 917 7650  Narcotics Anonymous [https://ukna.org/] (UKNA) Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous [https://slaauk.org/] (S.L.A.A.) Al-Anon [https://al-anonuk.org.uk/] - support for families and friends Campaign Against Living Miserably (CALM) [https://www.thecalmzone.net/] 0800 58 58 58 (5pm-midnight) BEAT eating disorders  [https://www.beateatingdisorders.org.uk/get-information-and-support/get-help-for-myself/i-need-support-now/helplines/] The Mix [https://www.themix.org.uk/]  Mind UK  [https://www.mind.org.uk/need-urgent-help/using-this-tool/] Text SHOUT [https://www.giveusashout.org/] to 85258

15 Apr 2026 - 45 min
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