October Aces: Julie Sondra Decker

Pride Perspectives 2026: Catieosaurus, Sex and Consent, part 2

Podcast music by Purple Planet Music. Resources Mentioned in Episode: The Art of Giving and Receiving: The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin: Bookshop [https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-art-of-receiving-and-giving-betty-martin/cf6c30e2f9043c92?ean=9781643883083&next=t] Catie Oborn: Website [https://catieosaurus.com/] This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit asexuality201.substack.com [https://asexuality201.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

Pride Perspectives 2026: Catiosaurus, Sex and Consent, part 1

Podcast music by Purple Planet Music. Resources Mentioned in Episode: The Art of Giving and Receiving: The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin: Bookshop [https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-art-of-receiving-and-giving-betty-martin/cf6c30e2f9043c92?ean=9781643883083&next=t] Catie Oborn: Website [https://catieosaurus.com/] This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit asexuality201.substack.com [https://asexuality201.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

Pride Perspectives 2026: Ashabi and the New Ace Flag, part 2

Because I’ve been sick, this episode is about three days late! I’m so sorry. But! It means that you get two episodes in two days! Podcast music by Purple Planet Music. Resources Mentioned in Episode: Ace in Grace: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/_aceingrace_/], Substack [https://aceingrace.substack.com/] Other Black Aces to Follow: The Asexual Goddess: YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCgOPFHX0jIgjwXYcrrMtxTA], Insta [https://www.instagram.com/kimriottt_art/], Tumblr [https://www.tumblr.com/asexual-goddessss] GentleGiantAce: YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsw6zzoKlskACsfRs0sZ20g], Insta [https://www.instagram.com/marshallb44/], TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@gentlegiantace93?lang=en], Blue Sky [https://bsky.app/profile/gentlegiantace.bsky.social] Yasmin Benoit: Insta [https://www.instagram.com/theyasminbenoit/?hl=en], website [https://www.yasminbenoit.co.uk/], YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/c/YasminBenoit], TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@theyasminbenoit] Yagirllici: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/yagirllici/] and TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@liciismynickname] jen’s comet: Substack [https://leikeliscomet.substack.com/] This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit asexuality201.substack.com [https://asexuality201.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

Pride Perspectives 2026: Ashabi and the New Ace Flag, part 1

Because I’ve been sick, this episode is about three days late! I’m so sorry. But! It means that you get two episodes in two days! Podcast music by Purple Planet Music. Resources Mentioned in Episode: Ace in Grace: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/_aceingrace_/], Substack [https://aceingrace.substack.com/] Other Black Aces to Follow: The Asexual Goddess: YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCgOPFHX0jIgjwXYcrrMtxTA], Insta [https://www.instagram.com/kimriottt_art/], Tumblr [https://www.tumblr.com/asexual-goddessss] GentleGiantAce: YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsw6zzoKlskACsfRs0sZ20g], Insta [https://www.instagram.com/marshallb44/], TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@gentlegiantace93?lang=en], Blue Sky [https://bsky.app/profile/gentlegiantace.bsky.social] Yasmin Benoit: Insta [https://www.instagram.com/theyasminbenoit/?hl=en], website [https://www.yasminbenoit.co.uk/], YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/c/YasminBenoit], TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@theyasminbenoit] Yagirllici: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/yagirllici/] and TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@liciismynickname] jen’s comet: Substack [https://leikeliscomet.substack.com/] This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit asexuality201.substack.com [https://asexuality201.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

October Aces: Julie Sondra Decker

Ten years after The Invisible Orientation I talk with Julie Decker about what she would change, what she wouldn’t, and living in our changed world. Podcast music by Purple Planet Music. Resources Mentioned in Episode: The Invisible Orientation by Julie Sondra Decker: Bookshop [https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-invisible-orientation-an-introduction-to-asexuality-next-generation-indie-book-awards-winner-in-lgbt-julie-sondra-decker/7665070f6087ad4d?ean=9781634502436&next=t] Ace, by Angela Chen: Bookshop [https://bookshop.org/p/books/ace-what-asexuality-reveals-about-desire-society-and-the-meaning-of-sex-angela-chen/3593703573619d42?ean=9780807014738&next=t] Refusing Compulsory Sexuality by Sherronda J Brown: Bookshop [https://bookshop.org/p/books/refusing-compulsory-sexuality-a-black-asexual-lens-on-our-sex-obsessed-culture-sherronda-j-brown/17866777?ean=9781623177102&next=t] The Ace and Aro Advocacy Project [https://taaap.org/], Ace and Aro Journeys Cody Daigle-Orians: YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/c/AceDadAdvice], Insta [https://www.instagram.com/acedadadvice/?hl=en], Substack [https://acedadadvice.substack.com/], website [https://acedadadvice.com/], TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@acedadadvice?lang=en] Sounds Fake But Okay [https://www.soundsfakepod.com/] podcast The Asexual Agenda [https://asexualagenda.wordpress.com/] Yasmin Benoit: Insta [https://www.instagram.com/theyasminbenoit/?hl=en], website [https://www.yasminbenoit.co.uk/], YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/c/YasminBenoit], TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@theyasminbenoit] Shows to Watch BoJack Horseman Sirens Huge Shortland Street (New Zealand) Heartstopper Two People Who Can’t Fall In Love (Japanese) This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit asexuality201.substack.com [https://asexuality201.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]