It Was Never Really About You

Forgiving Someone Does Not Mean Letting Them Back In

Can you forgive someone and still choose to walk away? In this episode, we are getting into one of the most misunderstood parts of healing. Forgiveness and reconciliation are not the same thing, and nobody talks about that enough. So many of us were taught that forgiving someone means going back. Rebuilding. Pretending it never happened. But what if the thing that hurt you have not changed? What if the beliefs, the behaviours and the patterns that caused the damage are still sitting right there waiting for you? Forgiveness is something you do for yourself. Going back is a choice. And you are allowed to do one without the other. This episode is for everyone who has ever felt guilty for forgiving someone and still deciding not to return. You are not cold. You are not bitter. You are just protecting your peace. Stay Connected Welcome to myownkindofrunway, a place for unapologetic conversations, fashion, and queer joy. Watch more videos: https://youtube.com/channel/UC9jWWJwF_KzrY14FR9DXO4A [https://youtube.com/channel/UC9jWWJwF_KzrY14FR9DXO4A] https://youtube.com/@igboqueerandunfilteredpod?si=0GZV68iNaWT5BumS [https://youtube.com/@igboqueerandunfilteredpod?si=0GZV68iNaWT5BumS] Visit my website: www.myownkindofrunway.com [https://www.myownkindofrunway.com/] Listen to my podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/5EjOLr2ilFBqhaXkoTK72a [https://open.spotify.com/show/5EjOLr2ilFBqhaXkoTK72a] Instagram: https://instagram.com/myownkindofrunway?igshid=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA== [https://instagram.com/myownkindofrunway?igshid=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA==] TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMLDqhBft/ [https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMLDqhBft/] Shop My Looks: https://www.shopLTK.com/explore/myownkindofrunway [https://www.shopltk.com/explore/myownkindofrunway] https://www.shopLTK.com/explore/myownkindofrunway [https://www.shopltk.com/explore/myownkindofrunway] https://shopmy.us/myownkindofrunway [https://shopmy.us/myownkindofrunway] https://linktr.ee/myownkindofrunway [https://linktr.ee/myownkindofrunway] Join My Newsletter: https://unfiltered.myownkindofrunway.com/ [https://unfiltered.myownkindofrunway.com/] Let’s Talk

I Refuse To Be Your Secret

In this episode, we delve into a distressing reality that many queer individuals, particularly those from Africa, are familiar with: the experience of being accepted in private but denied in public. Stay Connected Welcome to myownkindofrunway, a place for unapologetic conversations, fashion, and queer joy. Watch more videos: https://youtube.com/channel/UC9jWWJwF_KzrY14FR9DXO4A [https://youtube.com/channel/UC9jWWJwF_KzrY14FR9DXO4A] https://youtube.com/@igboqueerandunfilteredpod?si=0GZV68iNaWT5BumS [https://youtube.com/@igboqueerandunfilteredpod?si=0GZV68iNaWT5BumS] Visit my website: www.myownkindofrunway.com [https://www.myownkindofrunway.com/] Listen to my podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/5EjOLr2ilFBqhaXkoTK72a [https://open.spotify.com/show/5EjOLr2ilFBqhaXkoTK72a] Instagram: https://instagram.com/myownkindofrunway?igshid=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA== [https://instagram.com/myownkindofrunway?igshid=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA==] TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMLDqhBft/ [https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMLDqhBft/] Shop My Looks: https://www.shopLTK.com/explore/myownkindofrunway [https://www.shopltk.com/explore/myownkindofrunway] https://www.shopLTK.com/explore/myownkindofrunway [https://www.shopltk.com/explore/myownkindofrunway] https://shopmy.us/myownkindofrunway [https://shopmy.us/myownkindofrunway] https://linktr.ee/myownkindofrunway [https://linktr.ee/myownkindofrunway] Join My Newsletter: https://unfiltered.myownkindofrunway.com/ [https://unfiltered.myownkindofrunway.com/] Let’s Talk

I Stopped Explaining Myself

Stay Connected Welcome to myownkindofrunway, a place for unapologetic conversations, fashion, and queer joy. Watch more videos: https://youtube.com/channel/UC9jWWJwF_KzrY14FR9DXO4A [https://youtube.com/channel/UC9jWWJwF_KzrY14FR9DXO4A] https://youtube.com/@igboqueerandunfilteredpod?si=0GZV68iNaWT5BumS [https://youtube.com/@igboqueerandunfilteredpod?si=0GZV68iNaWT5BumS] Visit my website: www.myownkindofrunway.com [https://www.myownkindofrunway.com/] Listen to my podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/5EjOLr2ilFBqhaXkoTK72a [https://open.spotify.com/show/5EjOLr2ilFBqhaXkoTK72a] Instagram: https://instagram.com/myownkindofrunway?igshid=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA== [https://instagram.com/myownkindofrunway?igshid=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA==] TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMLDqhBft/ [https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMLDqhBft/] Shop My Looks: https://www.shopLTK.com/explore/myownkindofrunway [https://www.shopltk.com/explore/myownkindofrunway] https://www.shopLTK.com/explore/myownkindofrunway [https://www.shopltk.com/explore/myownkindofrunway] https://shopmy.us/myownkindofrunway [https://shopmy.us/myownkindofrunway] https://linktr.ee/myownkindofrunway [https://linktr.ee/myownkindofrunway] Join My Newsletter: https://unfiltered.myownkindofrunway.com/ [https://unfiltered.myownkindofrunway.com/] Let’s Talk

The People Around You Can Block Your Healing

It is important to tell the truth in places where it wasn't meant to be told to truly heal. When you are trying to heal, it can be challenging to accept that the place where your pain happened is probably not the best place for you to grow. Stay Connected Welcome to myownkindofrunway, a place for unapologetic conversations, fashion, and queer joy. Watch more videos: https://youtube.com/channel/UC9jWWJwF_KzrY14FR9DXO4A [https://youtube.com/channel/UC9jWWJwF_KzrY14FR9DXO4A] https://youtube.com/@igboqueerandunfilteredpod?si=0GZV68iNaWT5BumS [https://youtube.com/@igboqueerandunfilteredpod?si=0GZV68iNaWT5BumS] Visit my website: www.myownkindofrunway.com [https://www.myownkindofrunway.com/] Listen to my podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/5EjOLr2ilFBqhaXkoTK72a [https://open.spotify.com/show/5EjOLr2ilFBqhaXkoTK72a] Instagram: https://instagram.com/myownkindofrunway?igshid=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA== [https://instagram.com/myownkindofrunway?igshid=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA==] TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMLDqhBft/ [https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMLDqhBft/] Shop My Looks: https://www.shopLTK.com/explore/myownkindofrunway [https://www.shopltk.com/explore/myownkindofrunway] https://www.shopLTK.com/explore/myownkindofrunway [https://www.shopltk.com/explore/myownkindofrunway] https://shopmy.us/myownkindofrunway [https://shopmy.us/myownkindofrunway] https://linktr.ee/myownkindofrunway [https://linktr.ee/myownkindofrunway] Join My Newsletter: https://unfiltered.myownkindofrunway.com/ [https://unfiltered.myownkindofrunway.com/] Let’s Talk

It Was Never Really About You

This episode looks at what it means to become the target of other people's fear, insecurity, discomfort, and unresolved beliefs. Stay Connected Welcome to myownkindofrunway, a place for unapologetic conversations, fashion, and queer joy. Watch more videos: https://youtube.com/channel/UC9jWWJwF_KzrY14FR9DXO4A [https://youtube.com/channel/UC9jWWJwF_KzrY14FR9DXO4A] https://youtube.com/@igboqueerandunfilteredpod?si=0GZV68iNaWT5BumS [https://youtube.com/@igboqueerandunfilteredpod?si=0GZV68iNaWT5BumS] Visit my website: www.myownkindofrunway.com [https://www.myownkindofrunway.com/] Listen to my podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/5EjOLr2ilFBqhaXkoTK72a [https://open.spotify.com/show/5EjOLr2ilFBqhaXkoTK72a] Instagram: https://instagram.com/myownkindofrunway?igshid=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA== [https://instagram.com/myownkindofrunway?igshid=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA==] TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMLDqhBft/ [https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMLDqhBft/] Shop My Looks: https://www.shopLTK.com/explore/myownkindofrunway [https://www.shopltk.com/explore/myownkindofrunway] https://www.shopLTK.com/explore/myownkindofrunway [https://www.shopltk.com/explore/myownkindofrunway] https://shopmy.us/myownkindofrunway [https://shopmy.us/myownkindofrunway] https://linktr.ee/myownkindofrunway [https://linktr.ee/myownkindofrunway] Join My Newsletter: https://unfiltered.myownkindofrunway.com/ [https://unfiltered.myownkindofrunway.com/] Let’s Talk