Modern Adulthood is a Scam (Solo)
Modern adulthood feels like a bait and switch.
We followed the rules we were given, school, career, stability, only to enter a world defined by uncertainty, rising costs, institutional failure, and constant change.
In this solo episode of Interesting People of Earth, host Onyi breaks down why adulthood feels harder, more unstable, and more improvisational than what previous generations experienced, and why that feeling isn’t a personal failure.
This episode offers a grounded, big-picture analysis of how economic, cultural, technological, and geopolitical shifts have quietly rewritten the social contract of adulthood. From globalization and automation to housing crises, education inflation, climate anxiety, and declining trust in institutions, we explore how the old “adulting” script collapsed, and what’s emerging in its place.
You’ll hear:
• Why the traditional adulthood model worked for some, and excluded many
• How global instability and rapid change reshaped work, identity, and belonging
• The emotional toll modern adulthood takes on young adults worldwide
• Why anxiety, burnout, and restlessness are adaptive responses, not weakness
• How change is a feature of human history, not a modern glitch
• Why this moment, despite the chaos, may be an opportunity to redefine adulthood on our own terms
This conversation draws on global research from the WHO, OECD, IMF, UNESCO, Pew Research Center, and more, while grounding the analysis in lived experience. If you’ve felt behind, disoriented, or like the rules changed without warning, this episode is for you.
Adulthood isn’t broken. The script is.
And that means we get to write a new one.
Sources:
Utrecht University — Youth in a Digital World: Complexity & Social Polarization (2023)
* ScienceDirect — Technological Change, Automation & Labour Market Impacts on Youth
* WHO — Global Mental Health Update (2022–2023)
* World Happiness Report 2023 — Youth Well-Being Trends
* The Atlantic — Young Adult Mental Health in America
* UNESCO — Global Education Monitoring Report
* OECD — Housing Affordability & Wage Stagnation Data
* IMF — Global Employment Outlook & Youth Labour Market Challenges
* African Youth Survey — Youth Mental Health & Economic Conditions in SSA
* Pew Research Center — Global Trust & Political Participation Among Young People
* Edelman Trust Barometer (2023) — Trust in Government & Institutions
* NCBI — Jeffrey Arnett: Emerging Adulthood Theory
* David Graeber — The Utopia of Rules