I'm a nervous wreck during job interviews. What's the secret to beating this kind of anxiety?

My boyfriend and I just broke up and next month we were planning to go on vacation together. He says I should pay him the cost of the non-refundable airfare because I chose the destination. Is that reasonable?

An unexpected break up catches everyone off guard and we are typically not at our best in these moments. Not everyone is flexible and adaptable (which is why these skills are so coveted in the workforce!). So sorting out what's actually fair in this scenario is likely to take more time than it should.

We're expecting our first baby so we told our parents and swore them to secrecy. But my mother-in-law told the whole family. Is it okay to get mad at her for this?

It's a terrible feeling when someone betrays your trust by capriciously sharing a major secret. Being a good secret keeper is a skill that way too many people have not mastered. So when it happens to you, the only thing you can control in the aftermath is how you choose to react.

My husband doesn't want to go on vacation because he's nervous about his job. But we really need a break so how do I convice him?

We are hearing about lots of layoffs in the news these days and feeling like you're walking on eggshells at work really sucks. Do you plan for the worst and hope for the best? It feels better than going into that worry thought loop every single day.

My sister & her husband are bad with money and always asking me for a loan. How can I put a stop to this without sounding harsh?

Saving and losing weight have one thing in common. They both require discipline and while you probably had a health class in high school, I bet you didn't have a money class. It's kind of shocking schools don't teach students how to budget income to pay bills and also save. But it's never too late to learn.

I'm a nervous wreck during job interviews. What's the secret to beating this kind of anxiety?

Being nervous in an interview is a good thing because it shows the meeting is important to you. But you don't want that nervous energy to take over and impede your ability to represent yourself well. There's more than one thing you can do to help feel more relaxed. The key is finding the mix of things that work best for you.