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Love Thy Neighbor Show

Podcast by Tom Vann, Dan Dennis, and Colette Fehr

English

Health & personal development

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About Love Thy Neighbor Show

Love Thy Neighbor is a straight-talk relationship show from Tom Vann, Dan Dennis, and licensed therapist Colette J. Fehr - born the day Colette knocked on their door and they realized they were literal next-door neighbors. Together, they bring 50 years of broadcasting (Dan 30, Tom 20) and 15 years of clinical counseling (Colette), plus real-life reps: Tom's 20-year marriage, Dan's 15-year marriage, and Colette's second, thriving chapter. Expect humor, empathy, and practical advice from both sides of the wall. New episodes every Thursday, wherever you get your podcasts.

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39 episodes

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LTN 39 - Friends with Anyone

* Love Thy Neighbor relationship show introduction * Jokes about lending friends money and buying a boat * USA soccer win, FIFA officiating, and Bosnia confusion * Friendships, family, and business relationships * Handling money requests from friends and family * Financial help can create guilt, pressure, and resentment * Difference between true hardship and entitlement * Listener requested money for a house down payment * Wealthy people face constant expectations to help * Mr. Wonderful's "give once, never again" advice * Debate over whether that advice fits average people * People-pleasing and avoiding uncomfortable conversations * Family support after divorce * Consider need, ability, and relationship before lending * Only lend money without resentment or expectations * Clearly define repayment terms for loans * Repeated bailouts can become enabling * Business favors and personal favors * Benjamin Franklin effect explained * Benjamin Franklin improved a rivalry by borrowing a book * Cognitive dissonance behind the Benjamin Franklin effect * Small favors can strengthen relationships * Mr. Fascinating vs. Mr. Wonderful jokes * Criticism of Mr. Wonderful's personality * Relationship habits vs. manipulation * Intentional compliments strengthen relationships * Compliments should never have hidden motives * Genuine praise helps people feel valued * Regular compliments build confidence and positivity * Positive reinforcement strengthens social circles * Dr. John Gottman's positive interaction research * Insincere or exaggerated praise backfires * Authentic compliments should be specific * Small compliments can brighten a stranger's day * Say positive thoughts out loud * Sales rapport vs. genuine connection * Goodwill and persuasion can overlap * Some people love deeply but struggle to express it * Intentional habits improve relationships * Different love and communication styles * Acts of service can express love * Expressive vs. stoic partners * Deliberate routines help less expressive people * Genie lamp debate * $5 million challenge to befriend a stranger * Common interests are not required for friendship * Could you become friends with Kanye West? * Healthy boundaries in unusual friendships * Liver King, steroids, and Joe Rogan feud * Severe mental illness or violence can limit relationships * Therapy builds connection across differences * Strong relationships do not require agreement * Learn someone's story before judging them * Diverse relationships promote personal growth * Motivation matters more than similarity * Eye contact strengthens emotional connection * 36 questions associated with falling in love * Prolonged eye contact and attraction studies * Biology influences human connection * Many people avoid vulnerable eye contact * Co-regulation calms the nervous system * Connection techniques can be used ethically or manipulatively * Long-term couples develop nearly wordless communication * Great partners function as dependable teammates * Loneliness among older men * Men often seek relationships quickly after divorce * Grandfather's WWII and orphanage stories * Childhood trauma shaped emotional expression * Listening can be deeply therapeutic * Respect vulnerable conversations without recording them * Being heard without judgment helps healing * Older generations often suppressed emotion * Stoic people may crave connection * Relationship skills can be learned * Modern loneliness epidemic * People can feel lonely even in crowds * Ask thoughtful open-ended questions * Invite meaningful stories instead of facts * Ask what someone loves about their work * Genuine curiosity strengthens relationships * Human connection is a psychological need * Strong relationships protect mental health * Chronic loneliness is linked to serious health risks * People need meaningful connections beyond small talk * Humans are wired for belonging * Much behavior is subconscious * Therapy reveals unconscious patterns * Habits reduce mental effort * Decision fatigue affects behavior * Wearing a daily uniform reduces decisions * Lasting change requires repetition and reminders * Practice daily compliments and kindness * Small acts improve both people's moods * Socializing often feels better once it starts * Ask for a small favor to build rapport * Borrowing a book as a Benjamin Franklin effect example * Preview of an episode about saying no * Healthy boundaries and saying no * "No" can be a complete sentence * Promotion of Colette's book, The Cost of Quiet * Mention of Colette's Insights from the Couch podcast * Closing joke about fewer genie discussions ### Website: https://tomanddan.com/ [https://tomanddan.com/] BDM: https://tomanddan.com/registration [https://tomanddan.com/registration] Merch: https://tomanddan.myshopify.com/ [https://tomanddan.myshopify.com/] Watch Live: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomandDanLive [https://www.youtube.com/@TomandDanLive] Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/tomanddanlive [https://www.twitch.tv/tomanddanlive] Follow Us: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AMediocreTime [https://www.facebook.com/AMediocreTime] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tomanddanlive/ [https://www.instagram.com/tomanddanlive/] X: https://x.com/TomandDanLive [https://x.com/TomandDanLive] RSS Feeds: ACT: https://feeds.libsyn.com/61976/rss [https://feeds.libsyn.com/61976/rss] AMT: https://feeds.libsyn.com/18904/rss [https://feeds.libsyn.com/18904/rss] BDM: https://feeds.libsyn.com/37121/rss [https://feeds.libsyn.com/37121/rss]

2 Jul 2026 - 50 min
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LTN 38 - Prenups & More

* Divorce rates are falling while marriage rates also decline. * Younger adults marry and divorce less often. * Gray divorce is rising among older couples. * High living costs keep some unhappy couples together. * More couples choose lifelong partnerships without legal marriage. * Some couples hold weddings without filing marriage paperwork. * Legal marriage offers emotional value but financial risk. * Silent marriages often continue for children or money. * Empty nesters often reassess unhappy marriages. * Midlife creates urgency to improve relationships. * Life after 50 compared to the "back nine" in golf. * Fix your marriage before chasing a fantasy relationship. * Personal accountability matters more than finding a new partner. * Some marriages cannot be repaired despite real effort. * Emotional abuse and neglect can make divorce necessary. * Relationship maintenance is easier than crisis repair. * Avoiding hard conversations weakens marriages. * Personal growth carries into future relationships. * Starting over often feels easier than it is. * Second and third marriages have higher divorce rates. * Divorce can normalize future breakups. * Children often model their parents' relationships. * Many long marriages become happier after difficult years. * Men often remarry faster after divorce. * Married men often live longer and healthier lives. * Funny discussion about anal fissures and embarrassing doctor visits. * Women initiate most divorces. * Celebrity divorces often become business negotiations. * Divorce is one of the fastest ways to lose wealth. * Loneliness and feeling unheard drive many divorces. * Jelly Roll and Bunnie XO relationship discussion. * Bunnie XO's IVF struggles. * Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce prenup rumors. * Wealth changes how couples approach marriage. * Prenups protect finances without reducing commitment. * Movie discussion about marriage, betrayal, and divorce. * Story of a husband leaving his wife during COVID. * Infidelity can leave spouses emotionally and financially vulnerable. * Couples should openly discuss financial protection. * First and second marriages handle finances differently. * Shared assets feel different when couples grow together. * Humor about losing a home after divorce. * Accepting loss helps emotional healing. * Later-life marriages often protect premarital assets. * Inheritances are a common reason for prenups. * Patrick Mahomes and Brittany Mahomes built wealth together. * Athlete endorsements create massive wealth. * Celebrity prenup speculation and personality jokes. * Kermit the Frog bedroom voice humor. * Most divorces begin with emotional pain, not money. * Financial fear often prevents divorce. * Stay-at-home spouses may fear financial independence. * Personal story of leaving a marriage without seeking support. * Career growth can restore confidence after divorce. * Financial hardship changes views on prenups. * Women should understand household finances. * Some marriages still have one partner controlling money. * Some men struggle when wives out-earn them. * Healthy couples celebrate each other's success. * More wives are primary breadwinners. * Women are becoming more educated and earning more. * Equality benefits both partners. * Raise boys to respect strong, successful women. * Men often struggle with emotional communication. * Emojis can soften text conversations. * Genuine affection matters more than emojis. * Physical affection and verbal affirmation build stronger relationships. * Small daily efforts strengthen marriages. * Humor about inappropriate emoji combinations. * Promotion for The Cost of Quiet. * Promotion for Insights from the Couch. * Promotion for Colette's FOX 35 Orlando appearances. * Appreciation for the show's chemistry and conversations. ### Social Media https://tomanddan.com [https://tomanddan.com] https://twitter.com/tomanddanlive [https://twitter.com/tomanddanlive] https://facebook.com/amediocretime [https://facebook.com/amediocretime] 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25 Jun 2026 - 45 min
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LTN 37 - Men's Mental Help Month

* Father's Day gift preferences vs traditional gifts * Men and women valuing appreciation differently * Joke about sexual favors as Father's Day gifts * Father's Day overlapping with Men's Mental Health Month * Growing up where men never discussed mental health * Stigma around men prioritizing mental and physical health * Mental health historically viewed as weakness in men * Fitness culture acceptance vs mental health resistance * Importance of raising awareness for men's mental health * Depression and anxiety affecting many men * Less than half of men seeking mental health treatment * Men accounting for roughly 80% of suicides * Highest suicide rates among men over 75 * Suicide as a leading cause of death in young men * Encouragement to talk with friends, family, or therapists * Using humor to avoid difficult mental health conversations * Misunderstanding suicidal ideation without lived experience * Avoiding judgment of people with depression * Fear that vulnerability makes men appear weak * Men suppressing pain and handling problems alone * Depression often appearing as anger and irritability * Chronic anger as a sign of underlying depression * Recognizing mental health warning signs in men * Checking in on struggling friends and family * Older generations taught to suppress emotions * Similar depression and anger patterns across generations * Accepting personal mental health tendencies * Different emotional baselines and brain chemistry * Therapy improving emotional awareness * Mental health maintenance like physical health maintenance * Social media and news contributing to anxiety * Dopamine-driven habits that worsen mental health * Depression making daily tasks feel overwhelming * Men often benefiting after reluctantly trying therapy * Need for cultural change around emotional openness * Men bonding through activities more than conversations * Women more likely to discuss struggles with friends * Encouraging men to share vulnerabilities with other men * Stoicism vs unhealthy emotional suppression * Trauma, personality, and brain wiring debates * Concerns about amateur psychoanalysis on social media * People being experts on their own experiences * Traditional Florida masculinity discouraging vulnerability * Feeling different from family due to anxiety * Mental health conditions affecting everyone differently * Treating mental health instead of comparing experiences * Early intervention preventing severe outcomes * Greatest Generation culture of emotional stoicism * Some people naturally having healthier emotional baselines * Therapy helping those with depression and anxiety * Friends providing emotional support like preventive care * Mental health treatment compared to managing cholesterol * Medication stigma and resistance * Medication helping during a difficult divorce * Loneliness contributing to older male suicide rates * Retirement causing loss of purpose and identity * Importance of relationships and meaning later in life * Summer vacations creating unexpected stress * Family vacation frustrations reflected in movie tropes * Small changes making vacations more enjoyable * Dominator partner planning every vacation detail * One partner handling all logistics and itineraries * Planner resentment when responsibilities pile up * Whether non-planners should contribute more * Discussing vacation roles before traveling * Feeling ignored when suggestions are repeatedly dismissed * Rejected partners eventually disengaging * Vacations with kids feeling like work * Returning from vacations more exhausted than rested * Resentment from carrying unspoken responsibilities * Rejecting help while feeling overwhelmed * Asking directly for help instead of expecting mind reading * Communication solving many vacation conflicts * Pressure to be a super parent who does everything * Teamwork becoming more important in marriages * Expressing feelings of being unsupported * Emotional withdrawal after repeated criticism * Road trips with kids glued to devices * Technology easing travel but increasing screen dependence * Couples struggling to find new conversation topics * Long-term relationships running out of fresh discussions * Conversations becoming limited to kids and work * Escaping into earbuds and distractions during drives * Discussing future goals and dreams together * Planning adventures creating excitement and connection * Debating future vacations during current vacations * Anticipation as one of the best parts of travel * Healthy couples discussing hopes and aspirations * Bringing new ideas and experiences into relationships * Avoiding conversational ruts in long-term partnerships * Maintaining individual interests and personal space * Solo time for reading, audiobooks, and recharging * Independence strengthening family relationships * Challenging each other with fresh perspectives * Early risers vs late sleepers on vacation * Different vacation styles causing tension * Maximizing activities vs relaxing slowly * Feeling vacation time is being wasted * Quiet resentment from unmet expectations * Discussing schedules before the next day * Accepting different energy levels and personalities * Compromise between planners and relaxed travelers * Requesting specific early-start days * Clearly expressing wants and needs * Direct communication about boundaries and expectations * Taking personal time without guilt * Relationship conflicts caused by unspoken expectations * Partners not being able to read minds * Asking directly for desired experiences * Accepting personality differences in relationships * Attraction to partners with opposite traits * Opposites creating balance and frustration * Communication and acceptance as relationship keys * Promotion of therapy, books, podcasts, and relationship resources ### Social Media https://tomanddan.com [https://tomanddan.com] https://twitter.com/tomanddanlive [https://twitter.com/tomanddanlive] https://facebook.com/amediocretime [https://facebook.com/amediocretime] https://instagram.com/tomanddanlive [https://instagram.com/tomanddanlive] Where to Find the Show Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-mediocre-time/id334142682 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-mediocre-time/id334142682] Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkLnBvZGJlYW4uY29tL2FtZWRpb2NyZXRpbWUvcG9kY2FzdC54bWw [https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkLnBvZGJlYW4uY29tL2FtZWRpb2NyZXRpbWUvcG9kY2FzdC54bWw] Tom & Dan on Real Radio 104.1 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-corporate-time/id975258990 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-corporate-time/id975258990] Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkLnBvZGJlYW4uY29tL2Fjb3Jwb3JhdGV0aW1lL3BvZGNhc3QueG1s [https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkLnBvZGJlYW4uY29tL2Fjb3Jwb3JhdGV0aW1lL3BvZGNhc3QueG1s] Exclusive Content https://tomanddan.com/registration [https://tomanddan.com/registration] 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20 Jun 2026 - 47 min
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LTN 36 - Couples Therapy 101

* Therapy recommendation changed a listener's life eight years later * Therapy vs using alcohol to cope with stress and emotions * Returning to therapy after emotional strain affected a marriage * Benefits of talking with someone outside the relationship * Mental health stigma and growing up without therapy discussions * Therapy compared to hiring a trainer for mental fitness * Realization therapy helps more than just people in crisis * Relationships and mental health are closely connected * Why "we never fight" is not a relationship success metric * Martin Short's marriage discussed as a relationship role model * Using exceptional couples as inspiration for growth * How to find a good therapist or couples therapist * Examples of bad therapy, boundary issues, and unethical behavior * Couples therapy during a marriage on the brink of divorce * Importance of therapist training and specialization * Why good couples therapists avoid taking sides * Therapist fit, trust, and comfort for both partners * More couples seeking therapy before major problems arise * Therapy for communication, intimacy, and conflict skills * Parenting, illness, and family stress impacting relationships * Trauma, abandonment, addiction, and neglect affecting partnerships * Why therapy should feel safe, supportive, and practical * Couples therapy becoming more preventive than crisis-driven * High cost of therapy and barriers to access * Why couples therapy requires extensive training * University clinics offering free or low-cost counseling * Sliding-scale, pro bono, and community therapy resources * Psychology Today directory for finding therapists * Telehealth making therapy more accessible * Expensive therapists are not always the best therapists * Insurance limitations and mental health coverage problems * UCF counseling clinics as a local low-cost option * Does therapist age and life experience matter? * Personal experience vs evidence-based treatment models * Listener success story using the UCF clinic * Why one therapy session rarely solves major issues * Benefits of combining individual and couples therapy * Healthy couples using short-term therapy tune-ups * Long-term therapy for infidelity and deep disconnection * Therapy compared to learning skills from a personal trainer * Books, courses, and self-help options for couples * Gottman Institute resources and relationship education * When self-help works and when professional help is needed * Using insurance directories to find covered therapists * Looking for LMFT credentials in couples counseling * Employee Assistance Programs offering free sessions * Struggling to find available therapists during high demand * 988 crisis line and mental health resources * Interviewing therapists before committing * Asking how much of a therapist's practice is couples work * Why couples therapy is a specialized field * Evidence-based models like Gottman, EFT, RLT, and Imago * Humor as a powerful relationship-building tool * Shared laughter strengthening marriages and families * Stress and productivity reducing connection and creativity * Making time for playfulness and fun during busy seasons * Parenting, school schedules, and daily obligations causing strain * John Gottman's relationship research and lab studies * The Four Horsemen: criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and stonewalling * Predicting relationship outcomes from interaction patterns * Negative sentiment override explained * Relationship bank account analogy for emotional goodwill * Assuming the worst when resentment builds * Using laughter and connection to prevent relationship decline * Addressing problems early before resentment grows * Relationship maintenance compared to cleaning a house * Regular repair conversations building resilience * Shared laughter as a sign of safety and connection * Being intentional and present with loved ones * Family games and quality time as meaningful experiences * Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith relationship discussion * Chris Rock's response to the Oscars slap * Entitlement, fame, and emotional regulation * Physical aggression as unhealthy conflict resolution * Coercive control, dominance, and abusive relationship dynamics * Road rage and other examples of poor emotional regulation * Listener questions, relationship resources, and future topics * Comparing show personalities to Howard Stern show roles ### Social Media https://tomanddan.com [https://tomanddan.com] https://x.com/tomanddanlive [https://x.com/tomanddanlive] https://facebook.com/amediocretime [https://facebook.com/amediocretime] https://instagram.com/tomanddanlive [https://instagram.com/tomanddanlive] Where to Find the Show Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-mediocre-time/id334142682 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-mediocre-time/id334142682] Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkLnBvZGJlYW4uY29tL2FtZWRpb2NyZXRpbWUvcG9kY2FzdC54bWw [https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkLnBvZGJlYW4uY29tL2FtZWRpb2NyZXRpbWUvcG9kY2FzdC54bWw] Tom & Dan on Real Radio 104.1 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-corporate-time/id975258990 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-corporate-time/id975258990] Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkLnBvZGJlYW4uY29tL2Fjb3Jwb3JhdGV0aW1lL3BvZGNhc3QueG1s [https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkLnBvZGJlYW4uY29tL2Fjb3Jwb3JhdGV0aW1lL3BvZGNhc3QueG1s] Exclusive Content https://tomanddan.com/registration [https://tomanddan.com/registration] Merch https://tomanddan.myshopify.com/ [https://tomanddan.myshopify.com/]

11 Jun 2026 - 47 min
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LTN 35 - Pushing Yourself to Participate

* Colette recovers from a successful book launch and discusses reader impact * Jokes about writing books for money lead into relationship trends * Gen Alpha AI romantic partner trend sparks concerns about future relationships * Growing trend of couples maintaining independent lives within committed relationships * Separate hobbies, friends, activities, and solo trips can strengthen partnerships * Healthy interdependence balances autonomy and connection * Security and personal space help maintain attraction and growth * Relationship balance should not be treated as a fixed formula * Colette describes a highly independent marriage built on trust * Dan introduces being "Magoo'd" by his wife handling forgotten responsibilities * Story about his wife preloading directions for a missed doctor appointment * Discussion of the mental load often carried by women in relationships * Planning, organizing, and household management can create resentment * Shared responsibility requires allowing partners to make mistakes * Micromanagement and perfectionism can undermine teamwork * Relationship imbalances form when one partner routinely takes over tasks * Dan intentionally resumes responsibilities like driving to restore balance * Backseat driving anxiety affects who assumes control of certain duties * Communication remains one of the most universal relationship tools * Couples should build systems that fit their unique dynamic * Maintaining interests outside the relationship supports mental health * Work, parenting, and responsibilities often crowd out hobbies and friendships * Adults still need creativity, fun, and play * Learning guitar used as an example of pursuing long-delayed interests * Personal hobbies framed as necessities rather than luxuries * Self-care improves relationships, work performance, and well-being * Discussion of people faking emergencies to avoid social obligations * "Not feeling well" cited as the most common cancellation excuse * Overscheduled lives leave many people emotionally exhausted * Social battery depletion presented as a valid reason for downtime * Reliable people often feel guilty canceling plans * Importance of considering how much effort others made before canceling * Chronic last-minute cancellations viewed as inconsiderate * Honest communication is healthier than invented excuses * Sometimes pushing through reluctance leads to positive experiences * Distinguishing genuine exhaustion from simple resistance * Fear of disappointing others drives many social excuses * Themes from The Cost of Quiet encourage direct communication * FOMO complicates decisions about staying home or attending events * Smartphones and social media increase pressure to stay engaged * Concern about a loneliness epidemic despite constant connectivity * People can feel lonely even when surrounded by loved ones * Examine whether social pressure comes from personal values or outside expectations * Most people could benefit from more real-world social interaction * Story about attending an Orlando Arsenal supporters event despite anxiety * Partially familiar groups can feel more stressful than strangers * Structured social settings often feel easier than open-ended gatherings * Exposure to social discomfort can reduce anxiety over time * Social anxiety is a major reason people avoid events * Close friends require less social energy than acquaintances * Anxiety around forgetting names and social details * Public personalities face frequent awkward recognition encounters * Tricks for remembering names in social situations * Socializing becomes harder after emotionally demanding workdays * Even extroverts must invest effort into social interaction * Active listening requires significant mental energy * Social anxiety and social effort are major barriers to connection * Avoiding social situations can reinforce anxiety * Humans are biologically wired for community and connection * Modern life removes many natural opportunities for social engagement * Socializing compared to exercise as something beneficial despite resistance * Strong relationships linked to better health and longevity * Digital communication cannot fully replace in-person interaction * Younger generations may struggle with phone calls due to reduced practice * Less social friction can weaken interpersonal confidence * Concept of "mental nutrition" compares texting to junk food * Face-to-face communication provides deeper emotional connection * Couples therapy often uses eye contact and vulnerability exercises * Difficult conversations frequently produce meaningful breakthroughs * No universal rule exists for self-care versus pushing through discomfort * Some people need more social engagement while others need more rest * Self-awareness is key to identifying personal needs * Excessive isolation and phone-centered living increase disconnection * Families sitting together on phones can feel disconnected and depressing * Phone use often becomes the default way to decompress * Exercise improves mood, energy, and family interactions * Board games create laughter, connection, and shared memories * Real-world connection offers benefits technology cannot fully replicate * Human connection compared to healthy food and exercise * Families should intentionally create opportunities for engagement * Promotion of The Cost of Quiet and its communication themes * Mention of an upcoming Fox 35 Orlando appearance * Humorous story about accidentally displaying a book upside down online * Joke that the mistake looked like an intentional marketing strategy * Closing reflections on communication, connection, and personal well-being ### Social Media https://tomanddan.com [https://tomanddan.com] https://x.com/tomanddanlive [https://x.com/tomanddanlive] https://facebook.com/amediocretime [https://facebook.com/amediocretime] https://instagram.com/tomanddanlive [https://instagram.com/tomanddanlive] Where to Find the Show Apple Podcasts: 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4 Jun 2026 - 47 min
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