Why can’t I find my desire? Relax, you’re not broken! 💃🏼🔥🕺🏽

Why can’t I find my desire? Relax, you’re not broken! 💃🏼🔥🕺🏽

That empty feeling after sex. That empty feeling after self pleasure. … That empty feeling that’s starting to apply to more and more of life. You’re not broken. … This culture is broken and you grew up in it. We are taught to follow other people’s desires, rather than to find our own. We are mostly taught that our own desires are bad and shameful. So we do things that we don’t really desire to do. … And we wonder why we’re bored or depressed or distracted. The good news is: YOU are naturally perfect. Let’s remember who we are underneath all the BS we don’t agree with. LET’S RETRAIN ourselves to hear our deepest desires. … Our soul’s desire. In this episode, we look at 3 simple, not easy, steps to finding your deepest desire. Energy flows where there is space. Learn how to give your body and your being space so the energy of your soul’s desire can flow through you. … If you choose to pursue this path, I hope find your soul’s deepest desires and enjoy each one of them to their fullest. Hi, I'm your host River! I'm an erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness.  🤸🏼‍♀️ My gift to you darling, I hope you enjoy ❤️  ✨ The Lost Art of Sexual Fantasy ~ Become an Artist of your own Spirit ✨

Boner Shame Harms Us All: Let's talk about the beautiful male erection 🍆😢💪🏽🌈🦴

In this episode, learn about the far-away land where blonde people don’t get to raise their arms in the air. Nobody knows exactly how it started or why it is, but every time a blonde person raises one or both of their arms in the air, bad things happen.   First, everyone snickers, then busts out laughing, mocking, gossiping and ridiculing. It’s deeply shaming. So after hundreds of years and generation after generation following along without questioning  … Blonde people seem to be dumber (they never raise their hand in class), less emotionally regulated, more easily upset and aggressive, and less physically flexible or athletic (they never participate in most sports) than everyone else. Find out what happens in this far-away land! Thankfully, we would never be that misguided. 🤣🤣🤣 Let’s talk about boner shame.  One half of our population doesn’t get to move their body naturally.  … The part that is most related to joy, exuberance, ecstasy … arousal.  Hmmmmmmm …. might that impact our entire culture? I can hardly wait for you to check out this episode and send me your comments and emails - I want to hear from you on this one!  Hi, I'm your host River! I'm an erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness.  🤸🏼‍♀️ My gift to you darling, I hope you enjoy ❤️  ✨ The Lost Art of Sexual Fantasy ~ Become an Artist of your own Spirit ✨

Celebrating our Differences Sexually: Able-bodied, disabled, differently-abled, neurodivergent, on the spectrum and more! 🕊️🌸🍃

If you have a beating human heart, you have full capacity for glorious, nourishing, blissful sexual experiences. Each of us has a unique brand of sexual desire and expression. Each one of us different from the other. Like a totally unique puzzle piece, your sexual capacities and desires can fit together with your partner’s unique puzzle piece to make a divine piece of art! Unpartnered or partnered, your personal brand of sexual desire and expression is perfect. Did you know that a person who is paralyzed from the neck down has the capacity for multiple, rolling, full-body energetic orgasms? Heights of bliss that most “able-bodied” humans never take the time to learn. Heights of bliss that are absent from the cookie-cutter soul-squashing scenes we are fed on mainstream porn. In this episode, we talk about sexuality for all kinds of people including: - Able bodied - Disabled - Differently abled - Neuro divergent - Neuro spicy - On the spectrum -  and more No matter what type of body or mind you have, imagine the possibilities if you were able to find the highest form of your sexual expression. And imagine what will happen when you find a perfect puzzle piece that fits with your puzzle piece? 🥰 Tune in for ideas and inspiration. Hi, I'm your host River! I'm an erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness.  🤸🏼‍♀️ My gift to you darling, I hope you enjoy ❤️  ✨ The Lost Art of Sexual Fantasy ~ Become an Artist of your own Spirit ✨

Sovereignty and Connection: Resolving the seemingly endless push/pull of attachment style in intimate sexual relationships 🕊️🌸🍃

Our childhood emotional environment set us up for how we will relate emotionally with our partners. From the springboard of our youth, some of us will be on a life journey to seek sovereignty, among other quests. Others will be on a journey to curate connection at higher levels, among our other life purposes. Many people call these our emotional attachment styles. The two classic styles are played out in our culture over and over. Mysteriously, each person tends to select the opposite type of emotional style in their partners. Then we wonder what went wrong. … When in reality, we are set up for everything to go right! We choose the partner who is different from ourself for a really great reason - so we can learn! Together we can learn to balance and harmonize our styles. And come into union - what many call Divine Union. A lifelong process, I am here to share ways to navigate the wild and wonderful journey to this union.  Hi, I'm your host River! I'm an erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness.  🤸🏼‍♀️ My gift to you darling, I hope you enjoy ❤️  ✨ The Lost Art of Sexual Fantasy ~ Become an Artist of your own Spirit ✨

Family Court Survival Guide: Maintaining sovereignty and dignity as your family transitions 🕊️🌤️🪴

I’ve decided to do a podcast on the most boring topic in the whole world.  … Unless you find yourself in a family law case, such as a divorce, custody, or child support case. If you’re in family court or you know someone who is - this might be the most important issue there is. In this episode, I describe my past experience as a family law attorney who had my own law office by the courthouse in Austin for over 20 years. And I tell stories that you probably won’t hear a currently-practicing attorney tell.  I describe the fundamental flaw in the concept of family court in the first place. It’s destroys the fabric of our society to pit family members against one another in ridiculously-expensive and emotionally-destructive fights in order to “resolve” their separation. I give you my unvarnished take on divorce cases, child support cases, custody cases, family law attorneys, jury trials, judges, mediation, and collaborative family law.  We talk about options if you need to hire a family law attorney.  And I tell “the biggest secret of all”. But best of all, I share how to exit the family law court system, or maximize your chances of doing so. Because family law cases are never about the money. They’re about emotional pain. When we learn how to heal our emotional pain, many new doors and opportunities can open. I hope you find this episode useful, darling.  Hi, I'm your host River! I'm an erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness.  🤸🏼‍♀️ My gift to you darling, I hope you enjoy ❤️  ✨ The Lost Art of Sexual Fantasy ~ Become an Artist of your own Spirit ✨