Season 1 Episode 20: Shedding, New Moons And The Version of You That Is Emerging
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Everyone loves to talk about manifestation… but no one talks about the part where your life starts to feel like it’s falling apart.
In this episode, we’re getting real about the shedding phase—the part of the process where your old identity, habits, and patterns begin to dissolve to make space for the version of you who actually has what you’re calling in.
With the energy of the New Moon in Aries and strong Aries influence, you might be feeling:
* restless or impatient
* disconnected from your current life
* unsure of who you are or where you’re going
* pulled to change everything overnight
This isn’t a breakdown… it’s an initiation.
We dive into:
* Why manifestation feels uncomfortable before it feels expansive
* How your nervous system responds to identity shifts
* The “in-between” phase of becoming your next-level self
* Why you feel like you’re losing yourself (and why you’re not)
* How to stop self-sabotaging and start embodying the version of you who already has it
🛠️ Inside This Episode: Tools You Can Use Immediately
I walk you through a simple but powerful Identity Anchor Exercise you can use in real time:
👉 Ask yourself:
* Who am I outgrowing?
* Who am I becoming?
Then in moments where you feel triggered, overwhelmed, or tempted to go back…
👉 pause and ask:
“Which version of me is about to make this decision?”
That single question creates space between your old patterns and your new identity—and that’s where real change happens.
✨ Bonus Practice for the Shedding Phase
If you’re deep in this in-between space, try this:
Open your notes app and title it:
👉 “What I’m Allowed to Outgrow”
Then start listing:
* habits
* patterns
* relationships
* expectations
* identities
You’re no longer available for.
This helps your brain stop clinging to what’s familiar and start normalizing what’s evolving.
If you’ve been feeling off, stuck, or like nothing in your life quite fits anymore…
this episode is your reminder:
👉 You’re not falling apart… you’re shedding.
Want to embody the shift instead of just thinking about it?
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