045 - The Crash (w your besties who would never do you like that)

045 - The Crash (w your besties who would never do you like that)

The Crash (w/ your besties who would never do you likethat) It’s been a year (ish) of podcasting, a long stretch of “life be lifin’,” and somehow we’re still troubleshooting our microphones like it’s our first day. In this episode, Bekah and Ruha finally reunite after a chaotic season of colds, school-year burnout, missed concerts, and general long‑distance‑bestie shenanigans. We talk about the end‑of‑school-year nonsense (coloringpages, Hamilton screenings, Taco Bell runs), being “work moms” to pre-teens who cringe at our slang, and the third‑grade sign that simply said “bruh.” Ruha shares updates on her upcoming Japan trip — JR passes, ryokan stays, Studio Ghibli dreams, and the horrors of third‑partyhotel booking — while Bekah recounts surviving ahurricane evacuation in a $700 “suite” that was absolutely not a suite. Then we dive into the main event: The Crash, the Netflixdocumentary that sent Bekah down a multi‑platform rabbit hole. We walk through the Strongsville, Ohio case of Mackenzie Shirilla, Dominic Russo, and Davion Flanagan — the social media footprint, the car analytics, the trial, the parents, the excuses, the verdict, and the chilling details that point to deliberate intent. It’s heavy, infuriating, and sparks a bigger conversation about parenting, empathy, and the world our kids are growing up in. And then (because Midnight Cheesecake always ends withdessert) we slide into Spot’s Playground, where Bekah brings a gory horror flick and Ruha brings… High School Musical 2. Balance.   Mentioned in Today’s Episode 🎬 The Crash (2026) — Netflix Documentary The film that kicked off Bekah’s deep dive into theStrongsville case.  https://www.netflix.com/title/81727333 📺Killer Cases — “Murder on Wheels” (A&E)  One of the docuseries episodes Bekah watched for additionalfootage and context.  https://www.aetv.com/shows/killer-cases 📺 Mean Girl Murders — “Under the Influence” (Investigation Discovery)  Another docuseries episode covering the same case from adifferent angle.  https://www.investigationdiscovery.com/show/mean-girl-murders-investigation-discovery 🎥 Obsession (2026) — Bekah’s Spot’s Playground Pick  A gory horror film about a wish gone wrong and a love turneddeadly.  https://www.imdb.com/title/tt30360371/ 🎬 High School Musical 2 (2007) — Ruha’s Spot’s Playground Pick  Disney nostalgia, summer vibes, and Zac Efron.  https://www.disneyplus.com/movies/high-school-musical-2/4x8tqz9tq9tP 🎬 Ready or Not (2019) — Ruha’s Horror‑Comedy Pick  Bloody, funny, chaotic — and the start of the franchise.  https://www.imdb.com/title/tt7798634/ 🎬 Ready or Not 2: Here I Come (2026) — Ruha’s Sequel Pick  The follow‑up she and James watched recently.  https://www.imdb.com/title/tt30360369/   Find us here: Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecake Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak Email: midnightcheesecakepodcast@gmail.com

044 - Homecoming

Homecoming & Returning to the People Who Knew You Somehow we blinked and suddenly it was time to record again — and naturally, the universe greeted us with a full buffet of tech gremlins. Bekah’s headphones refused to headphone, Ruha’s right eye refused to eye, and at one point the microphone simply gave up on life. But did we stop? No. We podcasted through the static like long‑distance besties do. Because what's the alternative? Hanging up?? This week, we’re talking homecoming — the kind that sneaks up on you when you return to a place, a group, or a moment in your life that still knows you by heart. Ruha just got back from her high school reunion, and Bekah spent the weekend in Pennsylvania soaking up family time, cousin chaos, and that familiar “I never want to leave… until I want my own bed” energy. We also talk about legendary families that bring a school community together, the magic of small‑school bonds, the emotional whiplash of Sweet Home Alabama when you're from Alabama and hearing it absolutely anywhere else, and why “Country Roads” is basically the unofficial global anthem of nostalgia. Plus: Darrell sightings, Girl Scout sash imposters, boba deprivation, and the karaoke betrayal heard ‘round the world, or at least in Houston. It’s cozy, chaotic, and very Midnight Cheesecake. Mentioned in Today’s EpisodeBackpack Battles - Ruha’s Spot’s Playground pick. A cozy, adorable auto‑battler she’s been loving.https://store.steampowered.com/app/2379780/Backpack_Battles/ Find us here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecake Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak Email: midnightcheesecakepodcast@gmail.com Chapters 00:00 – Tech Gremlins Return 02:00 – Teacher Appreciation Week Chaos 03:40 – Pennsylvania Trip & Cousin Time 05:00 – When Do You Start Feeling Like a “Woman”? 06:00 – Microphone Meltdown of 2026 07:00 – Artemis, Space Nerd Joy, and Stolen Valor 08:00 – Meeting Daryl IRL 10:00 – Media Appearances & NASA Feelings 12:00 – Girl Scout Sash Shenanigans 13:00 – Bekah’s Family & Shared Adversity 15:00 – ASMS, The Zellners, and Generational Community 18:00 – Nerd Kids Are the Best Kids 20:00 – Boarding School Life & Weekend Escapes 22:00 – Homecoming on the Road 24:00 – The Sweet Home Alabama Breakdown 26:00 – Karaoke Betrayal & Country Roads 29:00 – Music, Memory, and Why It Hits So Hard 39:49 – Spot’s Playground: Apple Butter & Backpack Battles

043 - Moon Joy and Earth Joy

Artemis II, hope, chaos, Nutella, and the return of four very exhilarated astronauts🧁 This week, Ruha and Bekah recount the emotional rollercoaster of the Artemis II mission — from Houston send‑offs to moon‑side tears to the triumphant return home. Ruha recounts her whirlwind two weeks of space‑nerding and being recognized by NASA interns (again). Bekah brings the relatable energy of someone who meant to watch the launch but rolled her ankle and got pulled into Scrubs instead. Together, they unpack astronaut camaraderie, viral memes, the surreal beauty of lunar orbit, and why watching four competent humans do something hard felt like collective therapy. Also: Nutella in zero‑G, the Carroll Crater, and the Sally Ride question — would 100 tampons be enough for space? What we talk about * Ruha’s Houston trip: Space Center visits, book signings, and accidentally ending up at an astronaut send‑off * The very small crowd of civilians who showed up (and the NASA employees who absolutely did) * The “Who’s Reid?” moment that will haunt Ruha forever * The Artemis II launch: Bekah vs. Scrubs * Viral astronaut content: salutes, socks, Nutella, and the golden‑hour braid admired ‘round the world * The Welcome Home parade at Johnson Space Center and putting out a 3‑million‑view video for the history books * Earthjoy, Moonjoy, and the collective sigh of relief when the capsule splashed down safely What in Spot's Playground? * Bekah: The Bible Is Funny card game - chaotic scripture pairings, out‑of‑context verses, and the perfect Galentine’s‑night energy * Ruha: Miniature kits from Anavrin — thick, high‑quality pieces, no painting required, and the perfect pre‑Japan‑trip cozy craft For Midnight Cheesecake * Ruha: Girl Scout Lemonades — buttery, bright, melt‑in‑your‑mouth perfection * Bekah: A vintage‑mold rainbow Jell‑O masterpiece made by Devon (friend of the pod, hype girl, legend) Final Thoughts This episode is pure joy — moon joy, earth joy, and the joy of watching your besties process a historic moment in real time. If you needed hope, wonder, or just a reminder that humans can still do beautiful things together… this one’s for you.

042 - The Ron Swanson Show

🍰 Midnight Cheesecake — Trending in Snuggle Premium, Apparently After an unintentional two‑week break (time blindness strikes again), Bekah and Ruha are back with cozy vibes, spring weather updates, and the kind of long‑distance bestie energy that feels like slipping into stretchy pants. Right out of the gate, we we apologize for the two weeks that we just didn’t post. “Has it been two weeks? My God.” And yes — a Peanuts Halloween sweatshirt makes an appearance. In April. The pod is apparently climbing the charts in categories we didn’t know existed: * #11 — Midnight Listening * #8 — Light Topics * #3 — Snuggle Premium (still no idea what this means, but we’ll take it) Shoutout to Andrea from PodSEO, who keeps emailing Ruha about “bad patterns,” prompting the immortal line: “Are we a bad pattern? Are we the problem?” Ruha surprises Bekah with a Parks and Recreation quote‑guessing game — 50 quotes, counting backwards, more or less. Bekah absolutely crushes the early rounds, nailing April, Andy, Ron, and Leslie with psychic accuracy.Some gems: * “When they say 2% milk, I don’t know what the other 98% is.” — Andy * “There’s only one thing I hate more than lying. Skim milk…” — Ron Swanson * “Guys love it when you can show them you’re better than they are at something they love.” — Leslie We also get curveballs from Craig (“It’s incurable!”), Donna (“I rolled the window down for him”), and the fever‑dream brilliance of Jean‑Ralphio. The legend of Bekah's dog, Duke, returns with his signature squeaker chaos — except the squeaker was not a toy. “He had ripped it out of another toy… he was just carrying around the squeaker itself.” A proud, chaotic king. It’s Bekah’s birthday! 🎉Her phone battery is melting from all the messages, and Ruha is extremely proud that her gift will arrive before Bekah’s did. “It may be late, but it the contest of Ruha versus Bekah, I still won.” This week’s cozy recs: Project Hail Mary Bekah saw it in theaters and LOVED it — so much she’s taking the girls to see it again.https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1200263/ Artemis II Mission - Humans return to the moon! Ruha and family attended the astronaut departure from Johnson Space Center.https://www.nasa.gov/artemis-ii/ For All Mankind (on AppleTV) Ruha finally started this show she now highly recommends:https://tv.apple.com/us/show/for-all-mankind/umc.cmc.4sr43xlyp5s3t6dzlqf4y5p7x ⏱️ Chapters * 0:16 — Welcome to the Midnight Cheesecake Podcast * 1:33 — Apologies for the Delay * 4:41 — Trending and Statistics * 4:53 — Updates and Fun Topics * 6:57 — Secrets from Parks and Rec * 15:30 — Character Quotes and Guesses * 18:55 — Exploring Pop Culture References * 20:39 — Insights on Relationships and Humanity * 29:25 — Birthday Celebrations and Treats * 35:15 — Special Limited Edition Donuts

041 - Smize! It's Reality Check: ANTM

✨ Bekah and Ruha Discuss Netflix's Reality Check: America’s Next Top Model ✨ Welcome back to the couch, besties — the kids are occupied (for now), the dog is slurping water and squeaking his loudest toys like it’s his full‑time job, and we are settling in with warm drinks and warmer opinions. Today’s episode is a nostalgic deep dive into the cultural fever dream that was America’s Next Top Model — the marathons, the smizing, the questionable editing, the iconic photo shoots, and the impact it had on a generation of girls who were just trying to survive the cultural transition to skinny jeans. Ruha and Bekah revisit their own ANTM eras: dorm‑room marathons, cafeteria sprints during commercial breaks, and the absolute transcendence of seeing those final photos each episode. But with Netflix’s new docuseries Reality Check stirring up old memories (and new critiques), it’s time to talk about what the show got right, what it definitely didn’t, and how Tyra Banks continues to be one of the most fascinatingly intentional figures in pop culture. We get into body image, editing manipulation (allegedly), the infamous Shandi storyline, Tyra’s executive‑producer accountability (or lack thereof, allegedly), and why the fashion industry of the early 2000s was basically a lawless wasteland. And of course — we still find time to laugh, because this is Midnight Cheesecake and we cope with humor, carbs, and friendship. Settle in. This one’s juicy. Mentioned in Today’s Episode Disney & Pixar’s HopperThe brand‑new Pixar adventure Ruha saw with her firstborn for Spring Break - "Like Avatar, but with beavers."https://www.pixar.com/feature-films/hopper Everyday with Babs — Barbara CostelloBekah's new favorite cookbook by the TikTok legend: Internet grandma, comfort‑food queen, and the woman who can teach all of us how to host without crying in the pantry.https://www.amazon.com/Everyday-Babs-Family-Recipes-Generations/dp/074409067X Follow Us, Besties Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecakepodcast TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak Chapters * 0:20 — Welcome to Midnight Cheesecake Podcast * 6:42 — Tyra Banks and America’s Next Top Model * 10:48 — Setting the Stage: Our Experiences * 10:50 — Reality Check: A Closer Look * 14:08 — The Impact of Body Image * 15:28 — Reflecting on Reality TV * 27:17 — Accountability and Choices * 40:52 — The Controversial Photo Shoots * 49:03 — Wisdom(?) and Reflection