Is Twerking At Graduation REALLY Disrespectful Or Is That ONLY For Black Women? | Milfshake EP 50

Is Twerking At Graduation REALLY Disrespectful Or Is That ONLY For Black Women? | Milfshake EP 50

What is acceptable decorum for celebrating at graduation? What rules should we have about children in adult spaces like weddings? Is it OK to go outside in your bonnet? What is proper phone, manners, dress, and grooming decorum in public spaces?  In Episode 50 of Milfshake, Tiff O, Tiff E, and Shanita Joy celebrate the milestone episode with an energy-packed conversation that is equal parts hilarious and genuinely necessary. After congratulating the class of 2026, the ladies dive headfirst into a discussion on public decorum. Wedding etiquette gets its own thorough examination, covering everything from people who don't RSVP to proposing at someone else's wedding. The episode takes a fun detour into the viral Kool-Aid pineapple trend, and Tiff E shares her own experiences of people projecting Blackness onto her in clueless and uncomfortable ways. The ladies then tackle the audacity of line cutters, and the full spectrum of airplane decorum failures and more.  Key Points from this Episode: * 0:00 [Welcome to Milfshake!] Meet today’s hosts, Tiff O, Tiff E, and Shanita Joy! * 0:17 [Graduation Decorum] The ladies congratulate the class of 2026 and get into whether backflips, twerking, and excessive cheering have a place at graduation ceremonies. * 6:40 [Loud and Outside] The hosts call out the habit of playing music and rapping loudly in public spaces without headphones as a broader decorum issue. * 7:20 [Kids Crashing Weddings] The ladies unpack the etiquette around bringing kids to adult events, plus the full range of wedding decorum failures. * 15:05 [Secondhand Embarrassment] The moms share the public behaviors that give them secondhand embarrassment, from out-of-control children to bonnets and pajamas outside the home. * 20:30 [Kool-Aid Pineapples] The viral Kool-Aid pineapple trend sparks a debate about whether adding sugar to already sweet fruit is the same in theory as chocolate-covered strawberries. * 24:32 [Different Rules] The ladies question whether public behavior standards are applied differently to Black people and explore the double standard around twerking and acting out. * 27:50 [Performing Blackness?] Tiff E shares her experiences of people projecting Blackness onto her through clueless and uncomfortable comments about her braids and ethnicity. * 29:45 [Keeping It Real] The hosts explore when keeping it real crosses into disrespect and who is actually qualified to check you when you are out of pocket. * 32:00 [Drawing the Line at Line Cutting] The ladies call out the full range of line-cutting behavior and debate whether you say something to an employee who is helping their friends skip ahead. * 37:36 [Airplane Audacity] Tiff, Tiff, and Shanita get into the chaos of people ignoring boarding groups, deboarding out of order, and rushing through because they chose to arrive late. * 43:00 [Correct in Private] The episode closes with a conversation on the right and wrong way to correct someone acting out in public. Join the Milfshake Mafia:  🥤 Join the Milfshake Mafia on Patreon: http://patreon.com/MilfshakePodcast [http://patreon.com/MilfshakePodcast] 🥤 Watch more on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MilfshakePodcast [https://www.youtube.com/@MilfShakePodcast] 🥤 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/milfshakepodcast [https://www.instagram.com/milfshakepodcast] 🥤Connect with us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MilfshakePodcast/ [https://www.facebook.com/MilfShakePodcast/#] 🥤 Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@milfshakepodcast [https://www.tiktok.com/@milfshakepodcast] 🥤 Connect with Milfshake on Threads: https://www.threads.com/@milfshakepodcast [https://www.threads.com/@milfshakepodcast] 🥤 Get it all on Linktree: https://linktr.ee/milfshakepodcast [https://linktr.ee/milfshakepodcast] 🔊 Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/75xH9DlycSRPFikfDcVJmP?si=0f4c7747e3c6492a [https://open.spotify.com/show/75xH9DlycSRPFikfDcVJmP?si=0f4c7747e3c6492a] 🔊 Listen on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/milfshake-podcast/id1818428289 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/milfshake-podcast/id1818428289] ☎️ Leave Us a Voicemail: (646) 926-0067‬ ✉️ For Business Inquiries, email: rose@photobombshell.media [rose@photobombshell.media] 🥂Thank You to Our Spirits Partner! 🥂 This episode of Milfshake is proudly sponsored by PLUSH Vodka,  where elegance meets edge. Follow @plushvodka [https://www.instagram.com/plushvodka/] on Instagram and sip responsibly.

She Had a Hoe Phase...Can Her Man REALLY Accept Her As Wifey Material!?! | Milfshake EP 49

Would you share your side piece with a friend? What makes a hoe a hoe? How much communication is too much when it comes to discussing sexuality with our kids? Should your sexual past matter in a new relationship? In Episode 49 of Milfshake, Cori, Goldi, and Shanita Joy pull up for one of the most surprising episodes yet. The episode opens with a wild listener situation about wives with side pieces who are actually traveling with them, setting the tone for an episode that goes everywhere it needs to go. The ladies get into what actually defines someone as a hoe, the double standard between how men and women are judged for the same sexual behavior, and when they each first realized the world was grading them on a different curve. The ladies tackle whether your sexual past should matter in a new relationship, with a resounding no from the ladies unless it is a health issue, and closes with a refreshingly honest take on hoe phases… whether having one disqualifies you from being wifey material and why exploring before settling down might be exactly what the doctor ordered. Key Points from this Episode: * 0:00 [Welcome to Milfshake!] Meet today’s hosts, Cori, Goldi, and Shanita Joy! * 0:57 [The Spill] A listener question about a wife traveling with her side piece has the ladies reacting and unpacking what that situation even looks like. * 4:07 [Defining a Hoe] The hosts debate what actually makes someone a hoe. Is it frequency, a one-night stand, or simply not caring about the consequences? * 8:06 [Sexual Double Standards] The moms reflect on when they first realized men and women are judged completely differently for the same sexual behavior, including Cori's warning about toxic coochie for young men. * 12:30 [Shame Around Sex] The hosts get personal about whether they were ever made to feel ashamed of their sexuality through religion, parenting, or societal pressure and how those messages shaped them. * 21:24 [But You Can Do It?] Cori, Goldi, and Shanita Joy discuss being labeled for behavior men were praised for, and how confidence, self-awareness, and the way you were raised inform how you carry yourself sexually. * 30:00 [The Ghost of Hookups Past] The hosts land firmly on no…your sexual past should not matter in a new relationship unless it involves a health issue, though they acknowledge men ask questions they aren't always ready to hear the answers to. * 43:43 [Hoe to Housewife] The ladies close with a conversation on whether having a hoe phase disqualifies you from being wifey material, landing on the side of exploration being a healthy part of figuring out what you actually want. Join the Milfshake Mafia:  🥤 Join the Milfshake Mafia on Patreon: http://patreon.com/MilfshakePodcast [http://patreon.com/MilfshakePodcast] 🥤 Watch more on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MilfshakePodcast [https://www.youtube.com/@MilfShakePodcast] 🥤 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/milfshakepodcast [https://www.instagram.com/milfshakepodcast] 🥤Connect with us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MilfshakePodcast/ [https://www.facebook.com/MilfShakePodcast/#] 🥤 Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@milfshakepodcast [https://www.tiktok.com/@milfshakepodcast] 🥤 Connect with Milfshake on Threads: https://www.threads.com/@milfshakepodcast [https://www.threads.com/@milfshakepodcast] 🥤 Get it all on Linktree: https://linktr.ee/milfshakepodcast [https://linktr.ee/milfshakepodcast] 🔊 Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/75xH9DlycSRPFikfDcVJmP?si=0f4c7747e3c6492a [https://open.spotify.com/show/75xH9DlycSRPFikfDcVJmP?si=0f4c7747e3c6492a] 🔊 Listen on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/milfshake-podcast/id1818428289 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/milfshake-podcast/id1818428289] ☎️ Leave Us a Voicemail: (646) 926-0067‬ ✉️ For Business Inquiries, email: rose@photobombshell.media [rose@photobombshell.media] 🥂Thank You to Our Spirits Partner! 🥂 This episode of Milfshake is proudly sponsored by PLUSH Vodka,  where elegance meets edge. Proudly Black-owned, 8x distilled, gluten-free, and award-winning, PLUSH is made right here in the USA and crafted for those who crave quality with confidence. Whether you’re toasting with your girls or sipping solo, do it with PLUSH. Follow @plushvodka [https://www.instagram.com/plushvodka/] on Instagram and sip responsibly.

Men Say They Want RESPECT... But Are They Really Asking For an Obedient Robot Wife? | Milfshake EP 48

What do men mean when they ask for submission: respect or control? Can a man truly lead if his partner makes more money than he does? Do men care if their partner is successful? Should a woman’s baggage be a factor in deciding if she’s relationship material? In Episode 48 of Milfshake, Goldi, Tiff O, and Tiff E kick things off with a fun fortune cookie moment before diving into one of their most thought-provoking episodes yet. The conversation opens with what men actually mean when they ask for a submissive woman and whether there is a healthy version of submission that doesn't require a woman to disappear into herself. The ladies then tackle whether a man can truly lead in a relationship when his partner out-earns him, how they feel about househusbands, and whether money has become a proxy for leadership in ways that don't serve anyone. The conversation shifts to men's actual indifference to a woman's success, and what it really means when a man questions your business plan on a date. The back half of the episode gets more introspective as the hosts explore emotional intelligence, why some men read a woman's independence as resistance rather than strength, and how unresolved past trauma can quietly shape how a woman is perceived as a long-term partner. Key Points from this Episode: * 0:00 [Welcome to Milfshake!] Meet today’s hosts, Goldi, Tiff O, and Tiff E! * 1:40 [Fortune Cookies] The ladies open fortune cookies and get into what their fortunes actually mean for a lighthearted episode opener. * 4:30 [Submission vs. Control] The hosts unpack what men really mean when they ask for a submissive woman and whether there is a healthy version of submission rooted in trust rather than control. * 10:00 [Leadership Skills] The ladies debate whether a man can truly lead a relationship when his partner makes more money, and how they feel about househusbands and financial dynamics. * 15:00 [To the Table] The hosts question whether men are genuinely indifferent to a woman's success and why the question of what a woman brings to the table keeps coming up if they don't care. * 21:58 [Emotional Awareness] The ladies define emotional intelligence as the understanding of your own emotions, the emotions of those around you, and the impact your actions have on others. * 27:30 [Independence vs Resistence] The moms explore why some men interpret a woman's independence as pushback rather than strength, and whether that independence often comes from a history of being let down. * 36:30 [Relationship Baggage] The episode closes with an honest look at how a woman's past trauma can quietly influence how men perceive her as a long term partner. Join the Milfshake Mafia:  🥤 Join the Milfshake Mafia on Patreon: http://patreon.com/MilfshakePodcast [http://patreon.com/MilfshakePodcast] 🥤 Watch more on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MilfshakePodcast [https://www.youtube.com/@MilfShakePodcast] 🥤 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/milfshakepodcast [https://www.instagram.com/milfshakepodcast] 🥤Connect with us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MilfshakePodcast/ [https://www.facebook.com/MilfShakePodcast/#] 🥤 Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@milfshakepodcast [https://www.tiktok.com/@milfshakepodcast] 🥤 Connect with Milfshake on Threads: https://www.threads.com/@milfshakepodcast [https://www.threads.com/@milfshakepodcast] 🥤 Get it all on Linktree: https://linktr.ee/milfshakepodcast [https://linktr.ee/milfshakepodcast] 🔊 Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/75xH9DlycSRPFikfDcVJmP?si=0f4c7747e3c6492a [https://open.spotify.com/show/75xH9DlycSRPFikfDcVJmP?si=0f4c7747e3c6492a] 🔊 Listen on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/milfshake-podcast/id1818428289 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/milfshake-podcast/id1818428289] ☎️ Leave Us a Voicemail: (646) 926-0067‬ ✉️ For Business Inquiries, email: rose@photobombshell.media [rose@photobombshell.media] 🥂Thank You to Our Spirits Partner! 🥂 This episode of Milfshake is proudly sponsored by PLUSH Vodka,  where elegance meets edge. Proudly Black-owned, 8x distilled, gluten-free, and award-winning, PLUSH is made right here in the USA and crafted for those who crave quality with confidence. Whether you’re toasting with your girls or sipping solo, do it with PLUSH. Follow @plushvodka [https://www.instagram.com/plushvodka/] on Instagram and sip responsibly.

He Licked Her TOY! Dr. Cheyenne Bryant DRAMA & Why Women Reject Threesomes | Milfshake EP 47

Is your man licking your personal toy a red flag? Are white women fetishizing black men? Is it better to date another person of color over a white person? How do you handle getting rejected for a threesome because your man is ugly? Are we doing too much for prom? In Episode 47 of Milfshake, Tiff E, Tiff O, and Shanita Joy deliver one of their most random episodes yet, covering everything from personal boundaries to prom season excess. The episode opens with a lighthearted yet telling question about a partner who takes an unusual interest in your toys, then pivots to a genuine conversation about Shanita's loc journey and the language around locs. The ladies touch on the Dr. Cheyenne Bryant controversy, interracial dating, and how Black communities respond differently depending on who their loved ones bring home, followed by a hilariously candid segment about what happens when nobody in a couple's threesome search wants your man. The episode takes a sharp and delightful left turn into the spectacle of modern prom season and whether helicopters and over-the-top prom-posals have officially replaced the classic stretch limo. Key Points from this Episode * 0:00 [Welcome to Milfshake!] Meet today’s hosts, Tiff E, Tiff O, and Shanita Joy! * 0:16 [The Spill] The ladies debate whether a partner showing unusual interest in your toys is a red flag worth taking seriously. * 4:50 [Locs & Language] Tiff O asks Shanita about the language around dreadlocks, opening a conversation about her natural hair journey and why she advises against loc extensions. * 7:09 [Dr. Cheyenne Bryant] The ladies weigh in on the controversy surrounding celebrity life coach and Teen Mom producer Dr. Cheyenne Bryant. * 11:14 [Interracial Dating] The hosts dig into interracial dating, the uneven extension of acceptance toward Black people, and how they would feel if their child brought home a white partner. * 22:00 [Fetish or Preference] The ladies question whether some interracial relationships are rooted in genuine preference or fetishization, with Tiff O sharing a firsthand experience in Barbados. * 23:00 [POC vs. White Partner] The hosts explore whether Black people react more strongly when a family member dates a white person versus another person of color, and touch on the fetishization of Asian women. * 26:50 [Submission vs. Reality] The ladies question whether the submissiveness conversations dominating social media reflect what real couples are actually discussing behind closed doors. * 28:27 [Nobody Wants Your Man] A couple searching for a threesome hits a wall when every candidate passes on the husband, sparking a funny and surprisingly layered conversation about dad bods, societal pressure, and male value. * 34:00 [Bisexuality Double Standard] The hosts discuss how bisexuality is perceived differently depending on whether it is a man or a woman identifying that way. * 38:02 [Prom Season Excess] The episode closes with a fun debate on whether modern prom season has gone completely overboard, from helicopter arrivals to elaborate proposals replacing the classic stretch limo. Join the Milfshake Mafia:  🥤 Join the Milfshake Mafia on Patreon: http://patreon.com/MilfshakePodcast [http://patreon.com/MilfshakePodcast] 🥤 Watch more on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MilfshakePodcast [https://www.youtube.com/@MilfShakePodcast] 🥤 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/milfshakepodcast [https://www.instagram.com/milfshakepodcast] 🥤Connect with us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MilfshakePodcast/ [https://www.facebook.com/MilfShakePodcast/#] 🥤 Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@milfshakepodcast [https://www.tiktok.com/@milfshakepodcast] 🥤 Connect with Milfshake on Threads: https://www.threads.com/@milfshakepodcast [https://www.threads.com/@milfshakepodcast] 🥤 Get it all on Linktree: https://linktr.ee/milfshakepodcast [https://linktr.ee/milfshakepodcast] 🔊 Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/75xH9DlycSRPFikfDcVJmP?si=0f4c7747e3c6492a [https://open.spotify.com/show/75xH9DlycSRPFikfDcVJmP?si=0f4c7747e3c6492a] 🔊 Listen on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/milfshake-podcast/id1818428289 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/milfshake-podcast/id1818428289] ☎️ Leave Us a Voicemail: (646) 926-0067‬ ✉️ For Business Inquiries, email: rose@photobombshell.media [rose@photobombshell.media] 🥂Thank You to Our Spirits Partner! 🥂 This episode of Milfshake is proudly sponsored by PLUSH Vodka.

Is CHEATING A Man's Worst Betrayal? Why Women Stay & Why She Takes REVENGE | Milfshake EP 46

How can you trust again after being lied to or cheated on? Can you get revenge on someone you still want to be with? Is wanting revenge holding you back? In Episode 46 of Milfshake, Shanita Joy, Goldi, Cori, and Minnie come together for one of the most honest episodes the show has delivered. The episode opens with a layered conversation about rebuilding trust after being lied to or cheated on, quickly expanding into whether there are things a partner can do that are actually worse than cheating, like failing to protect you or consistently dropping the ball when it matters most. The middle of the episode gets deeply personal as the ladies examine why so many women stay in relationships they know are hurting them, from finances and children to comfort, loyalty, and the dangerous habit of loving someone's potential more than their reality. The episode closes with a candid and surprisingly nuanced take on revenge, whether wanting it is a normal and healthy impulse, whether letting go is actually as realistic as people make it sound, and what it even means to want revenge on someone you still love and want to stay with. Key Points from this Episode * 0:00 [Welcome to Milfshake] Meet today’s hosts, Shanita Joy, Goldi, Cori, and Minnie * 0:53 [Rebuilding Trust] The ladies dig into what it actually takes to trust again after being lied to or cheated on and whether there are betrayals worse than cheating that are bigger dealbreakers. * 15:45 [Toxic Love] The moms get honest about why women stay in relationships they know are hurting them, from financial dependency and children to comfort, loyalty, and loving someone's potential. * 28:27 [Do Revenge] The ladies close out with a candid conversation about whether wanting revenge is a normal human impulse, whether truly letting go is realistic, and what revenge even looks like when you still want to stay with the person. Join the Milfshake Mafia:  🥤 Join the Milfshake Mafia on Patreon: http://patreon.com/MilfshakePodcast [http://patreon.com/MilfshakePodcast] 🥤 Watch more on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MilfshakePodcast [https://www.youtube.com/@MilfShakePodcast] 🥤 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/milfshakepodcast [https://www.instagram.com/milfshakepodcast] 🥤Connect with us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MilfshakePodcast/ [https://www.facebook.com/MilfShakePodcast/#] 🥤 Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@milfshakepodcast [https://www.tiktok.com/@milfshakepodcast] 🥤 Connect with Milfshake on Threads: https://www.threads.com/@milfshakepodcast [https://www.threads.com/@milfshakepodcast] 🥤 Get it all on Linktree: https://linktr.ee/milfshakepodcast [https://linktr.ee/milfshakepodcast] 🔊 Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/75xH9DlycSRPFikfDcVJmP?si=0f4c7747e3c6492a [https://open.spotify.com/show/75xH9DlycSRPFikfDcVJmP?si=0f4c7747e3c6492a] 🔊 Listen on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/milfshake-podcast/id1818428289 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/milfshake-podcast/id1818428289] ☎️ Leave Us a Voicemail: (646) 926-0067‬ ✉️ For Business Inquiries, email: rose@photobombshell.media [rose@photobombshell.media] 🥂Thank You to Our Spirits Partner! 🥂 This episode of Milfshake is proudly sponsored by PLUSH Vodka,  where elegance meets edge. Proudly Black-owned, 8x distilled, gluten-free, and award-winning, PLUSH is made right here in the USA and crafted for those who crave quality with confidence. Whether you’re toasting with your girls or sipping solo, do it with PLUSH. Follow @plushvodka [https://www.instagram.com/plushvodka/] on Instagram and sip responsibly.