Minutes On Growth

170: The Psychology of Abuse: How It Starts and How It Spreads

In this 11-minute episode, I explore the critical difference between situational conflict and characterological abuse and why understanding that distinction can change lives. I break down how some relationships struggle because of poor regulation and unhealthy conflict patterns, while others are rooted in power, fear, coercion, and control. I also discuss how abuse often begins in childhood through victim-blaming messages many people don’t even realize they absorbed, such as being taught that if someone hurts you, it must be because you “caused” it.  From there, we examine how these same dynamics can scale beyond the home into workplaces, communities, and even governments. This episode is both educational and empowering: how to recognize dangerous patterns, when conflict can be healed, when safety must come first, and why abuse is never the victim’s fault.If you’ve ever questioned your reality, minimized harmful behavior, or wanted to better understand how power operates in relationships and society, this episode is for you. ♾ In a fast-paced world like the one we live in, time is one of our most important assets. For a few minutes every episode, I, Tannaz Hosseinpour, will be discussing topics that aim to enhance the quality of your life, by helping you feel empowered to take inspired action on your personal growth journey. Connect with me for daily insights: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/minutesongrowth] Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/minutesongrowth] TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@minutesongrowth?_t=ZM-8vN9sPbUXwr&_r=1] More resources available on www.minutesongrowth.com [https://www.minutesongrowth.com] This podcast is for educational purposes only. The host claims no responsibility to any person or entity for any liability, loss, or damage caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly as a result of the use, application, or interpretation of the information presented herein.

169: Should Couples Go To Bed Angry?

In this 12-minute episode, I unpack the common relationship advice that “good couples never go to bed angry”and offer a more nuanced, research-informed perspective. We explore what actually happens in the brain and body during conflict, including emotional flooding, the role of the amygdala, and why the prefrontal cortex goes offline when we’re overwhelmed. I also break down stonewalling; one of the Four Horsemen identified by John Gottman, and how it can often be a nervous system response rather than intentional disconnection. This episode walks you through how to take a healthy pause during conflict without damaging the relationship; including how to communicate that pause, use a code word when words feel hard to access, and the importance of following through to rebuild trust and emotional safety. I also share practical ways to self-regulate during conflict so you can return to the conversation from a more grounded, connected place. If you’ve ever felt pressure to resolve everything immediately, or struggled with shutting down or feeling shut out, this episode will help you navigate conflict in a way that protects both you and the relationship. ♾ In a fast-paced world like the one we live in, time is one of our most important assets. For a few minutes every episode, I, Tannaz Hosseinpour, will be discussing topics that aim to enhance the quality of your life, by helping you feel empowered to take inspired action on your personal growth journey. Connect with me for daily insights: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/minutesongrowth] Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/minutesongrowth] TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@minutesongrowth?_t=ZM-8vN9sPbUXwr&_r=1] More resources available on www.minutesongrowth.com [https://www.minutesongrowth.com] This podcast is for educational purposes only. The host claims no responsibility to any person or entity for any liability, loss, or damage caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly as a result of the use, application, or interpretation of the information presented herein.

168: Healing Through Connection with Blaise Kennedy

In this episode, I sit with spiritual teacher, Blaise Kennedy, to explore Developmental Architecture; a relational, body-centered approach to healing and awakening. Blaise explains how presence and co-regulation (being with another who truly listens) accelerate healing, allowing stored developmental material to be felt, released, and integrated rather than replayed as triggers.  We discuss how trauma creates adaptive strategies of disconnection, and how consistent, attuned relationships can progressively rewrite those patterns. Blaise shares practical guidance for cultivating emotional awareness when you don’t have an ideal support system: cultivate curiosity, practice returning attention to the body, and seek fields of care that model safety. He clarifies why intellectual understanding isn’t enough and offers metaphors and simple practices to begin sensing your body history;from noticing where energy is held to tracing the source of recurring reactions. Whether you’re new to embodiment work or deepening an existing practice, this episode offers a clear roadmap for moving from self-reliance to interdependence and reclaiming your presence. To learn more about Blaise's work and to connect with him, click here [https://www.blaisekennedy.com/media-podcasts/minutesongrowth]

167: How to Make Valentine’s Day Meaningful

In this 15 minute episode, I share a gentle and grounding perspective on love just in time for Valentine’s Day. With so many people feeling financial pressure or emotional heaviness in the world right now, this conversation is an invitation to come back to what truly makes love feel meaningful. We talk about how romance isn’t about how much money you spend, but about attention, presence, and thoughtfulness. I share simple, cost-free ways to make your partner feel seen and valued, along with the importance of emotional attunement , especially during stressful or tender seasons of life. I also walk through the five love languages and how to express love in ways that truly land for your partner, not just in ways that feel natural to you. We explore the idea that healthy relationships aren’t built in one grand day of the year, but through daily intention, small moments of connection, and choosing to show up, even imperfectly. Whether you’re celebrating big, keeping it simple, or navigating a tough season, this episode is a reminder that love is built in the little things. ♾ In a fast-paced world like the one we live in, time is one of our most important assets. For a few minutes every episode, I, Tannaz Hosseinpour, will be discussing topics that aim to enhance the quality of your life, by helping you feel empowered to take inspired action on your personal growth journey. Connect with me for daily insights: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/minutesongrowth] Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/minutesongrowth] TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@minutesongrowth?_t=ZM-8vN9sPbUXwr&_r=1] More resources available on www.minutesongrowth.com [https://www.minutesongrowth.com] This podcast is for educational purposes only. The host claims no responsibility to any person or entity for any liability, loss, or damage caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly as a result of the use, application, or interpretation of the information presented herein.

166: Responding to Injustice

In this 20 minute solo episode, I talk about the emotional weight many of us are carrying as we witness injustice in the world, focusing on the recent massacre of protestors in Iran and the renewed attention on the Epstein case. I share what has been happening in Iran, including communication blackouts, mass violence, and the deep grief and uncertainty families are living with. I name the different layers of grief people may be feeling; collective, anticipatory, and disenfranchised, especially when global acknowledgment feels limited or absent. I explore how witnessing these events can lead to secondary trauma, showing up as anger, numbness, exhaustion, or irritability, and I offer gentle nervous system regulation practices like grounding, breathwork, movement, and giving yourself permission to feel in small, contained ways. I also speak about the power of witnessing and advocacy; how amplifying accurate information, sharing stories, and refusing to look away can put pressure on systems and help protect lives. When media coverage is limited, our voices matter even more.  Throughout the episode, I emphasize emotional validation, especially in cultures where grief and anger are often minimized, and explain how acknowledging our feelings helps calm the body’s stress response. I remind listeners that their reactions make sense, that their compassion is a strength, and that we can stay engaged with the world while also caring for our own nervous systems. ♾ In a fast-paced world like the one we live in, time is one of our most important assets. For a few minutes every episode, I, Tannaz Hosseinpour, will be discussing topics that aim to enhance the quality of your life, by helping you feel empowered to take inspired action on your personal growth journey. Connect with me for daily insights: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/minutesongrowth] Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/minutesongrowth] TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@minutesongrowth?_t=ZM-8vN9sPbUXwr&_r=1] More resources available on www.minutesongrowth.com [https://www.minutesongrowth.com] This podcast is for educational purposes only. The host claims no responsibility to any person or entity for any liability, loss, or damage caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly as a result of the use, application, or interpretation of the information presented herein.