Modern Day Asians

EP.36 Breaking Free from Emotional Codependency With Your Parents

In this episode, we will talk about emotional codependency. How does this show up in your relationships? Do you think you were too over-responsible growing up as a child? Did you feel uncomfortable asking for your own needs? Did you get guilted for being disrespectful when you did not do what your parents wanted? Were you dismissed when you told your parents to stop doing something that hurt your feelings?  Emotional codependency often stems from childhood experiences where boundaries between the parent and child were blurred. Children who felt responsible for their parents' emotional states may grow into adults who struggle to differentiate their own needs from those of their parents. This can manifest as excessive caretaking, guilt over pursuing personal goals, or difficulty making decisions without parental approval.

EP. 35 The Reality Behind New Year Resolutions and Overcoming Expectation Disappointments

Did you experience any disappointment lately with your family after the holidays? Do you feel disappointed with how your year turned out in 2023? Are you trying to figure out how to make this year better than last year? In this episode, join me as I dive into how to set realistic, specific, and achievable goals, create a clear plan, stay adaptable, and foster a positive and resilient mindset throughout the journey.  Stay tuned for a challenge you can take on today to start changing your mindset. Instagram @Moderndayasians

A Guide to Welcoming the Winter Season and Prioritizing Rest

In a world that often glorifies hustle culture and perpetual productivity, the simple act of resting can be laden with guilt for many individuals. Despite the well-established importance of taking breaks for mental and physical well-being, a pervasive sense of guilt often accompanies moments of relaxation. In this episode, we will talk about why we feel guilty, how to overcome the guilt, ways to embrace the beauty of winter, and reflective questions to take you into 2024. Coneect with me: Instagram DM @Moderndayasians

EP. 33 How to Plan a Trip to Discover More About Your Familial Homeland

Visiting your parents' homeland is an opportunity like no other. It allows you to explore your roots, connect with your family's heritage, and experience the culture that has shaped your identity. Whether it's your first visit or a return after a long absence, making the most of your journey to your parents' homeland requires careful planning and an open heart. In this episode, I talk about my 2-week experience, tips, and tricks on how to create a meaningful experience during your visit to your familial homeland. Connect with Me: DM Instagram: @Moderndayasians

EP. 32 Recognizing Manipulators - Power Through Punishment

In the intricate dance of human relationships, people sometimes resort to horrible tactics to achieve their personal goals. Manipulators are individuals who use various tactics to control, influence, or deceive others for their own benefit. Understanding the characteristics and facts about manipulators can help you recognize and protect yourself from their behavior. It's important to trust your instincts and maintain healthy boundaries when dealing with manipulators. In this episode, we'll delve into the psychology behind this behavior, discuss how to recognize it, and respond to it effectively. Connect with me: Instagram DM @moderndayasians