Moving Countries 101

Overcoming the Four Main Challenges Faced by Global Movers

In this episode, Clare talks through the four main challenges faced by global movers. Helping you to confront and overcome the challenges of - pressure to perform in a new job, changes in family dynamics, the logistics of finding new housing and adapting to a new culture.  Clare also announces her new Facebook group, Moving Countries 101 with Clare Kay [https://www.facebook.com/groups/1331868441590356/posts/1331868478257019/] - where listeners can connect, share, and find support beyond the podcast. KEY TAKEAWAYS * There is no grace period. From day one, you have to deliver results in your new job. * If you do not perform in the job, you cannot look after your family, who are likely to already be feeling quite vulnerable. * Each family member will be experiencing the move in a different way and be facing different challenges. * Sometimes your spouse will not be legally able to work, which can affect the family dynamic. * Even when a spouse can work they may not be able to stay on the career trajectory they were on previously. * In many countries finding a new home throws up unexpected challenges e.g. all of the movers are booked up months in advance. * Some cultural adaptions you will like, others you will struggle with. * Even something that seems simple can be more challenging than you expect e.g. adapting to the weather. * All of these pressures together have an accumulative effect which can mean that something relatively small knocks you off course. * Clare is currently pulling together meaningful, practical and up to date resources to serve global professionals and their families as they settle into their new countries. BEST MOMENTS “The top four problems that nearly every global mover encounter are not just small inconveniences.” “You often have to hit the ground running in your new job.” “Sometimes the burden on you, the new hire, can be immense, because perhaps your family is going to follow you in a few months.” “Each member of the family is having a unique experience and seeing life from their perspective.” “You're not alone in your endeavours.” “It's not that each challenge comes up in steps, they all come up at once.” “This podcast has been a wonderful journey, and I am very grateful for everyone who's been there with me.” ABOUT THE HOST Clare Kay is a seasoned global mover – with an international career in sales, customer service, personal development, and as a flight attendant. She has sold books and TV programs globally, taught English as a foreign language, and supported non-native speakers through proofreading. Her own global moves – from the UK to Zambia, China, Taiwan, Nigeria, and the USA – bring direct experience, and her global outlook has given her the growth and connections to support others in creating a life abroad. Through her podcast Moving Countries 101, Clare inspires listeners with the confidence and courage to make their own move – and continues the cultural conversation in her Facebook Group. Join the conversation by clicking this link - Moving Countries 101 with Clare Kay [https://www.facebook.com/groups/1331868441590356/posts/1331868478257019/] It’s a space for global movers – people choosing to build lives abroad – to prepare emotionally, culturally, and practically, and to turn cultural differences into connections. https://www.facebook.com/groups/movingcountries101withclarekay/ [https://www.facebook.com/groups/movingcountries101withclarekay/] https://www.tiktok.com/@movingcountries101 [https://www.tiktok.com/@movingcountries101] www.linkedin.com/in/clarekay [http://www.linkedin.com/in/clarekay] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Stranger Danger When Abroad, Should You Be Worried?

In this episode, Clare talks about the importance of being open-minded enough to make friends with strangers when you move country – including those from different backgrounds or lives from yours. She shares tips to move past our instinctive “stranger danger” and connect more freely. Drawing on her own moves – from the UK to Africa, Asia, and the USA – Clare shows how cultural differences can become bridges rather than barriers. Clare also launches her new Facebook Group – Moving Countries 101 with Clare Kay [https://www.facebook.com/groups/1331868441590356/posts/1331868478257019/] – a space focused on the cultural and emotional side of moving countries. KEY TAKEAWAYS * It is only natural to be drawn to people who you already have a connection with and resonate with. * Remember that other people see you as a stranger, in the same way you see them as strangers. * Switching your thinking and considering yourself as the stranger reminds you to adopt a persona that makes others feel comfortable. * You get to choose how you come across when you meet someone for the first time. * Being warm and friendly with everyone makes it easier for them to connect with you. * Look at how the other person chooses to be and adapt a bit to meet them where they are. But still be yourself, authenticity matters. * Understand the merits others see in you and play up to them a little, while toning down the things you know put them off. This is part of being culturally sensitive. * Talk to people who share habits or common interests or concerns with you. * Be genuinely open minded and willing to try things, but don´t participate in anything that does not sit well with you. BEST MOMENTS “Naturally, looking out we regard everyone around us as strangers, but we are also regarded as strangers when we step into a new country.” “If I related to it as, “Oh, here we go again”. I diminished the promise of what that interaction could yield.” “Different modes of behaviour work in different cultural settings.” “No matter how much we acclimatize to a country, community will start with strangers.” “I like any “in” that gets me to know the people locally.” “You are breaking the ice, but it's on your terms, so you're not breaking a sweat.” ABOUT THE HOST Clare Kay is a seasoned global mover – with an international career in sales, customer service, personal development, and as a flight attendant. She has sold books and TV programs globally, taught English as a foreign language, and supported non-native speakers through proofreading. Her own global moves – from the UK to Zambia, China, Taiwan, Nigeria, and the USA – bring direct experience, and her global outlook has given her the growth and connections to support others in creating a life abroad. Through her podcast Moving Countries 101, Clare inspires listeners with the confidence and courage to make their own move – and continues the cultural conversation in her Facebook Group. Join the conversation by clicking this link - Moving Countries 101 with Clare Kay [https://www.facebook.com/groups/1331868441590356/posts/1331868478257019/] It’s a space for global movers – people choosing to build lives abroad – to prepare emotionally, culturally, and practically, and to turn cultural differences into connections. https://www.facebook.com/groups/movingcountries101withclarekay/ [https://www.facebook.com/groups/movingcountries101withclarekay/] https://www.tiktok.com/@movingcountries101 [https://www.tiktok.com/@movingcountries101] www.linkedin.com/in/clarekay [http://www.linkedin.com/in/clarekay] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

How To CONNECT With Your New Country

In this episode, Clare talks about the six pillars you need to connect deeply with your new country: food, language, traditions, relationships, history and values. Fortunately, provided you are willing to take the time, you will find connecting using these pillars very enjoyable. Clare shares her approach to learning all about a new country. A simple, yet effective approach that will work for anyone regardless of where they relocate to. KEY TAKEAWAYS * Connect with the heart of your new country – don’t just experience life on the periphery. * Food is a gateway to culture. Everyone eats, most people love it, and many are passionate about their nation’s cuisine – so you connect deeply through food. * When people invite you to dinner, accept the offer – it’s a great entry point. * Eating with local people opens the chance to build multiple pillars at once. * Learning even a few words of your new country’s language makes a big difference. * Using your new language helps you pick up on cultural differences and nuances. * Learning and respecting traditions is important. * You can still respect traditions you don’t fully agree with – without undermining your own values and beliefs. * Foster relationships. * Learning the history and enjoying experiences locals love shows respect – your new friends and neighbours will appreciate it. * Understanding the values of your new country is the best way to fit in faster. * Be mindful and respectful of others’ values – but don’t lose sight of your own. BEST MOMENTS “Food is the gateway to a culture.” “There are many things that can create interesting and stimulating conversation that start with food.” “In learning a language, you also end up learning nuances and cultural preferences.” “There are some wonderful experiences of tradition that can be challenging or engaging. Either way, it's really worth it when we persevere and get to know them.” “Showing an interest in the history of a place is a great way to get some context for why things are the way they are.” ABOUT THE HOST Clare Kay is a seasoned global mover – with an international career in sales, customer service, personal development, and as a flight attendant. She has sold books and TV programs globally, taught English as a foreign language, and supported non-native speakers through proofreading. Her own global moves – from the UK to Zambia, China, Taiwan, Nigeria, and the USA – bring direct experience, and her global outlook has given her the growth and connections to support others in creating a life abroad. Through her podcast Moving Countries 101, Clare inspires listeners with the confidence and courage to make their own move – and continues the cultural conversation in her Facebook Group. Join the conversation by clicking this link - Moving Countries 101 with Clare Kay [https://www.facebook.com/groups/1331868441590356/posts/1331868478257019/] It’s a space for global movers – people choosing to build lives abroad – to prepare emotionally, culturally, and practically, and to turn cultural differences into connections. https://www.facebook.com/groups/movingcountries101withclarekay/ [https://www.facebook.com/groups/movingcountries101withclarekay/] https://www.tiktok.com/@movingcountries101 [https://www.tiktok.com/@movingcountries101] www.linkedin.com/in/clarekay [http://www.linkedin.com/in/clarekay] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

How To Emotionally and Physically Prepare For Moving Countries

In this solo episode, Clare once again takes a look at a practical aspect of moving abroad, which an awful lot of people fail to pay enough attention to. She explains why what you take with you and how you get it there is very important.    We all have things that we would struggle to live without. For some it is a treasured possession that has great sentimental value and for others it is a person or pet. Still, others have activities and hobbies that make a huge difference when it comes to physical, emotional or mental wellbeing. Clare has moved abroad multiple times, so the advice and strategies she provides to tackle the task of packing and leaving some things behind really do work. KEY TAKEAWAYS * We all have things we would struggle to live without. Finding a way to take them with you or leave them behind on your terms can play a big role in how well you settle in a new country. * If an item is particularly precious to you, pack it in a way that ensures it won´t be broken and can easily be accessed upon your arrival. * If you want to continue to pursue a hobby or activity while you are living abroad, work out how you are going to do that before you actually move. * Sometimes continuing to pursue your interests won´t be possible. In that case, consider what you might be able to do instead. * Before you start to pack, prepare yourself emotionally. Organising everything and physically packing will have an impact on you. * Getting started can be tough, Clare explains how to overcome this hesitancy. * Start in one room, go through each item and ask yourself do I want to take this item? Do I need to take this item? And make two lists. * Leaving someone who is very precious to you is hard. Clare shares several things you can do to make it more bearable. BEST MOMENTS “What is the one thing that you absolutely do not want to be without? Reflect on that and have that as your starting point.” “If a hobby is not realistic, consider what you could do in its place that would bring about the same happy vibes.” “Unprocessed emotions will follow us anywhere.” “Surrender to expertise.” “I wasn't needing the things. I needed that emotional journey of having the time to revisit and evoke memories.” ABOUT THE HOST Clare Kay is a seasoned global mover – with an international career in sales, customer service, personal development, and as a flight attendant. She has sold books and TV programs globally, taught English as a foreign language, and supported non-native speakers through proofreading. Her own global moves – from the UK to Zambia, China, Taiwan, Nigeria, and the USA – bring direct experience, and her global outlook has given her the growth and connections to support others in creating a life abroad. Through her podcast Moving Countries 101, Clare inspires listeners with the confidence and courage to make their own move – and continues the cultural conversation in her Facebook Group. Join the conversation by clicking this link - Moving Countries 101 with Clare Kay [https://www.facebook.com/groups/1331868441590356/posts/1331868478257019/] It’s a space for global movers – people choosing to build lives abroad – to prepare emotionally, culturally, and practically, and to turn cultural differences into connections. https://www.facebook.com/groups/movingcountries101withclarekay/ [https://www.facebook.com/groups/movingcountries101withclarekay/] https://www.tiktok.com/@movingcountries101 [https://www.tiktok.com/@movingcountries101] www.linkedin.com/in/clarekay [http://www.linkedin.com/in/clarekay] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

How To Move To Dubai - with Matthew Young

For this episode, Clare is joined by her long-term friend Matthew Young, who decided to move from the UK to Dubai when inspiration struck him during a shopping trip in the country. He shares what it is like to live in such a diverse country, adapting to working with so many people who do things differently from you and how to take full advantage of the high level of connectivity with the rest of the world that Dubai offers. Matthew explains how he simply packed a bag and moved to Dubai. He shares how he arrived using a tourist visa and turned that into permanent residency. KEY TAKEAWAYS * Dubai is incredibly multi-national, which makes it a great place for people from everywhere to live. * To live in Dubai, you have to be accepting of others and adapt to the fact that you are going to encounter multiple different ways of behaving.  * You really need to behave as a guest, even after you have been living in Dubai for many years. * It is really easy to move to Dubai. You can arrive as a tourist, but if you want to stay getting a job is essential. * The heat has an impact on the way the city works e.g. Everything is done online. * Dubai is a virtually cashless society. * The economy of Dubai is dependent on attracting new residents, so it is a great place to set up a business or work remotely. * Like Singapore, Dubai is a very self-contained and locally controlled city. * Dubai is not as expensive as you think.  * Remember that even though you live in Dubai some of your life will still be back in the UK. Work out how you are going to pull these two aspects together. * The older you get the more the cost of your healthcare in Dubai goes up, so you may not be able to afford to live there all of your life. * Your employer pays for your medical insurance, so if you lose your job, you lose that. * Currently, the UAE is far more tolerant than its reputation suggests. BEST MOMENTS “The whole place was wondrous.” “Everything is set up for digital…even the visa application process.” “They want businesses to be here, and they want people to be successful because that helps the economy.” “You see a country one way as a visitor, and you see it entirely differently as someone who's living there.” “Dubai is in the middle of all sorts of places, so it's kind of equidistant to London and Bangkok.” “Once you get a job, then you can open a bank account, then you can rent a place.” “I'd say that since COVID, Dubai has become, a lot more relaxed in all sorts of things.” EPISODE RESOURCES Moving to Dubai - https://wise.com/gb/blog/moving-to-dubai-guide [https://wise.com/gb/blog/moving-to-dubai-guide] ABOUT THE GUEST Matthew moved to Dubai in January 2019 requiring a change of scenery and a fresh start. He was 49 at the time. In the UK, he had a career in the City of London working in financial services before he set up his own property management business in 2004. He was married for 21 years and has one son. Other than his professional interest in property management, Matthew is an avid supporter of Chelsea FC and have been qualified as a football referee since 1990. https://www.linkedin.com/in/matthewsyoung [https://www.linkedin.com/in/matthewsyoung]  Matthew's podcast: MY Proper Property Management https://podcasts.apple.com/ae/podcast/my-proper-property-management/id1819489117 [https://podcasts.apple.com/ae/podcast/my-proper-property-management/id1819489117] ABOUT THE HOST Clare Kay is a seasoned global mover – with an international career in sales, customer service, personal development, and as a flight attendant. She has sold books and TV programs globally, taught English as a foreign language, and supported non-native speakers through proofreading. Her own global moves – from the UK to Zambia, China, Taiwan, Nigeria, and the USA – bring direct experience, and her global outlook has given her the growth and connections to support others in creating a life abroad. Through her podcast Moving Countries 101, she inspires listeners with the confidence and courage to make their own move – and deepens the conversation in her Facebook Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/movingcountries101withclarekay/ [https://www.facebook.com/groups/movingcountries101withclarekay/] https://www.tiktok.com/@movingcountries101 [https://www.tiktok.com/@movingcountries101] www.linkedin.com/in/clarekay [http://www.linkedin.com/in/clarekay] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.