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Estate Planning Basics with Attorney Shauna Schmeisser, J.D.

24 min · 19. mar. 2026
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In this episode, Nicole sits down with estate planning attorney Shawna Schmeisser to break down the basics of estate planning in a simple, real-world way. They talk about what an estate plan is, why avoiding probate matters, how powers of attorney work, when a trust may make sense, and why beneficiary designations can make a huge difference for families. They also discuss end-of-life wishes, how often plans should be reviewed, and why putting the right documents in place now can save your family time, money, confusion, and grief later. This conversation is especially important for adults with aging parents, homeowners, and anyone who wants to be proactive instead of leaving their loved ones scrambling in a crisis. In this episode:  • What probate is and why families try to avoid it  • The difference between wills, trusts, and beneficiary designations  • How medical and financial powers of attorney work  • Why estate planning is about more than money  • When to review and update your plan  • How planning ahead creates peace of mind for everyone involved Guest: Shawna Schmeisser, Schmeisser Law PLLC shauna@schmeisser.law  Website: schmeisser.law If this episode helped you, please share it with a friend or family member who needs to hear it.

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In this episode, Nicole sits down with estate planning attorney Shawna Schmeisser to break down the basics of estate planning in a simple, real-world way. They talk about what an estate plan is, why avoiding probate matters, how powers of attorney work, when a trust may make sense, and why beneficiary designations can make a huge difference for families. They also discuss end-of-life wishes, how often plans should be reviewed, and why putting the right documents in place now can save your family time, money, confusion, and grief later. This conversation is especially important for adults with aging parents, homeowners, and anyone who wants to be proactive instead of leaving their loved ones scrambling in a crisis. In this episode:  • What probate is and why families try to avoid it  • The difference between wills, trusts, and beneficiary designations  • How medical and financial powers of attorney work  • Why estate planning is about more than money  • When to review and update your plan  • How planning ahead creates peace of mind for everyone involved Guest: Shawna Schmeisser, Schmeisser Law PLLC shauna@schmeisser.law  Website: schmeisser.law If this episode helped you, please share it with a friend or family member who needs to hear it.

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