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17. Still Walking at 102: What My Neighbor Faith Taught Me About Aging With Purpose, Independence, and Joy

Have you ever looked at someone who is thriving in their 90s or beyond and wondered — what are they doing that we're not? Today's episode is one of those rare conversations that will leave you encouraged, challenged, and maybe even inspired to pick up the phone and call your mom or dad. I sat down with my neighbor, Faith — who is now 102 years old — and she is sharp, warm, full of life, and absolutely overflowing with wisdom. She still walks every day, arranges flowers at her church mission, and prays with more intention than most of us half her age. You are going to love her. You may even want to share this episode with your parent — pop it on in the car or hand them your phone, because this one is encouraging for all of us. 🗓️ Need Help With Your Parent's Situation? Book a 60-minute Parent Clarity Session — we'll talk through what's going on and get you focused on what matters most. 👉Schedule A Parent Clarity Session [https://calendly.com/trinagonzalez/parent-clarity-session] 🎧 IN THIS EPISODE ✔️ What Faith says is the very first thing every aging person — and every caregiver — needs to hold onto ✔️ The one physical thing she has done consistently for decades, and why she says you can skip everything else if you just do this ✔️ How she structures her prayer life and stays connected to God from morning to evening ✔️ What carried her through the loss of her daughter Helen — and the unexpected way community showed up ✔️ Her honest, gentle advice for anyone who is aging and tempted to rely on the people around them ✔️ What Faith believes the world needs more of right now — and why it starts at home 👤 ABOUT FAITH Faith is a Jamaica-born woman who built two careers in government service, raised a family, and immigrated to the United States in her 50s. She crossed over to her 102nd birthday this year. She volunteers at her church mission, practices Japanese flower arranging, and walks daily in her Florida community. She is a living reminder that a life well-lived is not about the absence of hard things — it is about who you walk through them with. 💛 FAITH'S WORDS OF WISDOM 🌿 "You have to have a purpose. Consider that you have a purpose in life, regardless of how old or bedridden or whatever you are." 🌿 "Walking is key. Even if you don't do exercises otherwise — walking. At least that." 🌿 "See the good side of it. That's what you have to do in life." 🌿 "He's there for you, but be there for him too." 🌿 "You have to allow other people to have their point of view. Be open a little bit." 📖 RESOURCES MENTIONED * ACTS Prayer — Acknowledge, Confess, Thank, Supplication * The Daily Word — daily devotional (thedailyword.com) * Streams in the Desert — classic devotional 🤝 LET'S STAY CONNECTED 📬 Sign Up To Be An Insider [https://subscribepage.io/G7iUGV] — short weekly tips straight to your inbox ⭐ Leave a Written Review on Apple Podcast — helps other families find the podcast 📤 Share This Episode — send it to a friend walking the same road with aging parents 💌 Question or idea? hello@trinag.com [hello@trinag.com] And remember — you are doing a good job. Even on the days that feel really heavy, you are not alone. You don't have to fix everything today. Take a deep breath. It's going to be okay. 💛

16. Worried Your Elderly Parent Will Fall? Home Safety Help You May Not Know Exists

Worried Your Elderly Parent Will Fall? Home Safety Help You May Not Know Exists If you’ve been lying awake worrying about your parent falling, struggling with stairs, or getting hurt in the bathroom, this episode is for you. That worry is real. You may walk into their home and suddenly notice things you never paid attention to before: the loose rug, the step into the garage, the bathtub wall, the dark hallway, or the stairs they keep insisting are “fine.” In this episode of Navigating Elderly Parents, we’re talking about practical ways to look at your parent’s home with fresh eyes, not to take over, but to help them stay safer and more independent. Because sometimes the first question is not, “Does Mom need to move?” Sometimes the better question is, “Can this home be made safer for the way Mom is moving now?” Inside this episode, we’ll talk about: * Why home safety is not about stripping away independence * What to notice around entrances, stairs, bathrooms, and daily walking paths * Small changes that may make everyday life safer * Options like grab bars, railings, ramps, transfer benches, handheld showerheads, and stair lifts * When bigger changes, like doorway adjustments or bathroom updates, may be worth considering * How to start the conversation when your parent pushes back This is not about fear. It is about advocacy. It is about planning. And it is about helping your parent stay safe, preserve dignity, and continue living in the home they love as long as it makes sense. Start with the areas they use every day: the path from the bedroom to the bathroom, the entrance they use most, the bathroom setup, the stairs, and the places where they pause, wobble, grab furniture, or avoid going. That is where you start. Need Help Thinking Through Your Parent’s Situation? If you’re starting to step in more with your aging parent and feeling unsure what to focus on, I offer a limited number of 60-minute Parent Clarity Sessions. This is a focused session where we can talk through your situation and help you get clear on what matters most right now, so you can feel less overwhelmed and move forward with a plan. Schedule your session here: Schedule A Parent Clarity Session [https://calendly.com/trinagonzalez/parent-clarity-session] Next Steps • Join the Insider Email Get weekly tips and resources for navigating aging parents. Sign Up To Be An Insider [https://subscribepage.io/G7iUGV]  • Share This Episode Send it to a friend helping aging parents. • Leave a Review Your written review helps others find the podcast. • Ask a Question Have a question or suggestion for a future episode? hello@trinag.com [hello@trinag.com] Informational & Educational Purposes Only. The information provided is for general educational and informational purposes only. It should not be relied upon or used as the sole basis for decision making related to your personal life or business, without consulting primary, more accurate, more complete or more timely sources of information. You understand and acknowledge that the information provided to you by us is not legal, financial, therapeutic, mental health, medical advice or health and wellness advice and that the Company is not a professional service provider. Again, all of the information, including without limitation, resources provided via phone or video conference, e-mail, an online forum, live events such as webinars or lives, video/audio recordings, courses, materials provided in our digital products and the like about homesteading, business, laws, health/nutrition, wellness and/or finance-related information, are resources for educational and informational purposes only and should not take the place of hiring a licensed professional. You understand that the Company does not and will not provide any form of diagnosis, legal advice, medical advice, financial advice, or mental health advice.

15. A Resource for Out-of-Pocket Medical Costs for Aging Parents

A Resource for Medical Copays, Travel, and Treatment Costs When your elderly parent has a serious diagnosis, the medical costs can start stacking up fast. Copays. Treatment costs. Travel expenses. Insurance premiums. Diagnostic testing. And then there’s the emotional stress of trying to figure out what help is actually available while you’re already overwhelmed. *** Need Help Thinking Through Your Parent’s Situation? *** If you’re starting to step in more with your aging parent and feeling unsure what to focus on, I offer a limited number of 60-minute Parent Clarity Sessions. This is a focused session where we can talk through your situation and help you get clear on what matters most right now, so you can feel less overwhelmed and move forward with a plan. Schedule your session here: Schedule A Parent Clarity Session [https://calendly.com/trinagonzalez/parent-clarity-session] In this episode of Navigating Elderly Parents, we’re talking about a resource called My Good Days, Mygooddays.org [https://mygooddays.org/]  a national nonprofit that helps people with chronic illness through financial assistance, advocacy, and education. This is not a guarantee that your parent will qualify. It is not a promise that every diagnosis is covered. But it is a resource worth checking, especially if your aging parent has a chronic illness, expensive treatment, or out-of-pocket medical costs that are becoming hard to manage. Good Days may offer help with things like: * Medical copays * Travel costs related to treatment * Insurance premium assistance * Diagnostic testing costs * Care navigation and resource support The important thing to know is that Good Days has disease funds that can open and close throughout the year. So do not assume your parent qualifies, but also do not assume there is no help. Check. That’s the next right step. In this episode, we’ll talk about what Good Days does, what types of assistance they list, what information you may need before applying, and why this kind of resource matters when you’re trying to advocate for an elderly parent without getting swallowed by the medical cost chaos. What You’ll Learn in This Episode * What Good Days is and why it may be worth checking * The types of assistance Good Days lists, including copays, travel, premiums, and diagnostic testing * Why fund status matters and why you need to check the current list * What information to gather before calling or applying * How this fits into advocacy and planning for elderly parents Before You Apply or Call, Gather This Information If you are helping your parent look into this resource, it may help to have: * Your parent’s diagnosis * Date of birth * Primary insurance information * Household size * Estimated household income * Medication or treatment information, if available Good Days disease funds can open and close throughout the year, so start by checking whether your parent’s diagnosis is listed and whether the fund is currently open. Next Steps • Join the Insider Email Get weekly tips and resources for navigating aging parents. Sign Up To Be An Insider [https://subscribepage.io/G7iUGV]  • Share This Episode Send it to a friend helping their aging parents. • Leave a Review Your written review on Apple Podcast as it helps others find this support too. • Ask a Question Have a question or suggestion for a future episode? hello@trinag.com [hello@trinag.com] Informational & Educational Purposes Only. The information provided is for general educational and informational purposes only. It should not be relied upon or used as the sole basis for decision making related to your personal life or business, without consulting primary, more accurate, more complete or more timely sources of information. You understand and acknowledge that the information provided to you by us is not legal, financial, therapeutic, mental health, medical advice or health and wellness advice and that the Company is not a professional service provider. Again, all of the information, including without limitation, resources provided via phone or video conference, e-mail, an online forum, live events such as webinars or lives, video/audio recordings, courses, materials provided in our digital products and the like about homesteading, business, laws, health/nutrition, wellness and/or finance-related information, are resources for educational and informational purposes only and should not take the place of hiring a licensed professional. You understand that the Company does not and will not provide any form of diagnosis, legal advice, medical advice, financial advice, or mental health advice.

14. Hospice Bedside Checklist: How to Advocate When Your Elderly Parent Is In Their Final Days

Hospice Bedside Checklist: What to Say, Do, and Notice If your aging parent is in hospice, or hospice may be coming soon, one of the hardest parts is knowing what to actually do when you are sitting at the bedside. You may be wondering: What should I bring? What should I ask? What should I write down? What should I be watching for? What do I say? And how do I advocate for my parent without feeling like I’m supposed to control every single thing? In this episode of Navigating Elderly Parents, we’re talking through a simple hospice bedside checklist for adult children who want to be present, prepared, and peaceful during a very tender time. And first, I just want to say thank you. Navigating Elderly Parents is now ranked as a Top 5% podcast worldwide, and I do not take that lightly. It tells me that families really do need practical, honest conversations about aging parents, hospice care, palliative care, elderly care, advocacy, planning, and what to do when life suddenly gets very real. *** Need Help Thinking Through Your Parent’s Situation? *** If you’re starting to step in more with your aging parent and feeling unsure what to focus on, I offer a limited number of 60-minute Parent Clarity Sessions. This is a focused session where we can talk through your situation and help you get clear on what matters most right now, so you can feel less overwhelmed and move forward with a plan. Schedule your session here: Schedule A Parent Clarity Session [https://calendly.com/trinagonzalez/parent-clarity-session]   In this episode, we’ll talk about what may help when you are sitting with your parent in hospice, including: * What to keep nearby at the bedside * What comfort items may matter more than you think * Why it helps to write things down * What questions to ask the hospice nurse * How to advocate for your parent when something feels unclear * How hospice care and palliative care may fit into the bigger picture * How to notice changes without panicking * Why your presence matters, even when you do not know what to say * How to support your parent while also caring for yourself This is not about doing everything perfectly. Let’s just go ahead and take that pressure off the table. This is about having a few simple things in place so you are not digging for phone numbers, wondering who to call, or trying to remember what the nurse said when your brain is already tired. Hospice can feel overwhelming, especially when your parent is declining and everyone in the family is emotional. But having a bedside checklist can help you feel a little more steady. It gives you something practical to come back to when everything feels uncertain. And even at the bedside, your role as an advocate still matters. You may not be making big decisions every minute, but you can notice changes, ask questions, share concerns with the hospice team, and help make sure your parent is comfortable, respected, and cared for. This episode is for the daughter, son, or family member who wants to honor their parent, stay present, ask better questions, understand hospice and palliative care a little more clearly, and not feel quite so lost during end-of-life care. Because you do not have to know everything. But it does help to know the next thing. Next Steps Join the Insider Email Get weekly tips and resources for navigating aging parents. Sign Up To Be An Insider [https://subscribepage.io/G7iUGV]  Schedule a Parent Clarity Session If you need help thinking through your parent’s situation, you can schedule a 60-minute Parent Clarity Session using this link: Schedule A Parent Clarity Session [https://calendly.com/trinagonzalez/parent-clarity-session] Share This Episode Send it to a friend who has an aging parent in hospice, is trying to understand palliative care, or may be facing end-of-life care conversations soon. Leave a Review Your written review helps other families find this podcast. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Informational & Educational Purposes Only. The information provided is for general educational and informational purposes only. It should not be relied upon or used as the sole basis for decision making related to your personal life or business, without consulting primary, more accurate, more complete or more timely sources of information. You understand and acknowledge that the information provided to you by us is not legal, financial, therapeutic, mental health, medical advice or health and wellness advice and that the Company is not a professional service provider. Again, all of the information, including without limitation, resources provided via phone or video conference, e-mail, an online forum, live events such as webinars or lives, video/audio recordings, courses, materials provided in our digital products and the like about homesteading, business, laws, health/nutrition, wellness and/or finance-related information, are resources for educational and informational purposes only and should not take the place of hiring a licensed professional. You understand that the Company does not and will not provide any form of diagnosis, legal advice, medical advice, financial advice, or mental health advice.

13. They Recommended Hospice. Now What? What You Need to Know First

They Recommended Hospice. Now What? What Families Need to Know First Hearing a doctor say, “We’re recommending hospice,” can stop you in your tracks. Your first thought may be, “Does this mean Mom is dying?” And then the next wave of questions hits. Where will hospice happen? Can hospice happen at home? Can hospice happen in assisted living or a nursing home? What if my parent is already in the hospital? Does hospice cover everything? What about room and board? And how do we choose a hospice company when our family is already overwhelmed? *** Need Help Thinking Through Your Parent’s Situation? *** If you’re starting to step in more with your aging parent and feeling unsure what to focus on, I offer a limited number of 60-minute Parent Clarity Sessions. This is a focused session where we can talk through your situation and help you get clear on what matters most right now, so you can feel less overwhelmed and move forward with a plan. Schedule your session here: Schedule A Parent Clarity Session [https://calendly.com/trinagonzalez/parent-clarity-session]   In this episode of Navigating Elderly Parents, we’re talking about where hospice care can happen and why the location matters. Hospice is not just a place. Hospice is a type of care focused on comfort, dignity, symptom management, emotional support, spiritual care, and helping your loved one receive the right support during the end-of-life process. We’ll also touch on the difference between hospice and palliative care. Palliative care can support someone with a serious or long-term illness even before they qualify for hospice. Hospice care is typically recommended when a doctor believes someone may have six months or less to live if the illness follows its expected course. This episode is not meant to add to your overwhelm. It is meant to help you know what to look for before you are standing in a hospital hallway, exhausted, emotional, and trying to make decisions fast. In this episode, you’ll learn: • A simple hospice definition and why hospice is care, not just a location • How palliative care is different from hospice care • Where hospice can happen: home, assisted living, nursing home, inpatient hospice facility, or sometimes temporarily in the hospital • Why hospice at home can be beautiful, but also physically and emotionally exhausting • What to ask if your parent already lives in assisted living or a nursing home • Why hospice may cover the medical care, but not always the room and board • What an inpatient hospice facility or hospice house may provide • Why location matters when choosing a hospice company • What it can mean when a hospital patient is discharged from hospital care and hospice takes over • Why a hospital bed may become a contracted hospice bed • Questions families should ask before choosing a hospice provider • Why you are not being difficult when you ask the same question more than once This is one of those topics families often do not talk about until they are forced to. But friend, if you are the one helping your aging parent, you need at least a basic understanding of hospice care options before a crisis happens. Because when hospice is recommended, the decision is not only, “Do we accept hospice?” The next question is often: “Where will hospice happen, and what does that mean for our family?” Look Up Your State Hospice and Palliative Care Association Most states have a hospice and palliative care association with education, resources, and local guidance for families. This is a good place to learn more about hospice care, palliative care, rules in your state, and support options near you. Ask These Questions Before Choosing a Hospice Company • Where can hospice happen in our situation? • Do you provide home hospice? • Do you work with assisted living or nursing homes? • Do you have an inpatient hospice facility? • Where is it located? • What does hospice cover? • What is not covered? • Who do we call after hours? • What happens if symptoms become harder to manage? Friend, hospice is a hard topic, but understanding the basics can bring a little more peace into a very heavy season. You do not have to become an expert. You just need to know the next right questions to ask. Next Steps • Join the Insider Email Get weekly tips and resources for navigating aging parents. Sign Up To Be An Insider [https://subscribepage.io/G7iUGV]  • Share This Episode Send it to a friend helping aging parents. • Leave a Review Your written review helps others find the podcast. • Ask a Question Have a question or suggestion for a future episode? hello@trinag.com [hello@trinag.com] Informational & Educational Purposes Only. The information provided is for general educational and informational purposes only. It should not be relied upon or used as the sole basis for decision making related to your personal life or business, without consulting primary, more accurate, more complete or more timely sources of information. You understand and acknowledge that the information provided to you by us is not legal, financial, therapeutic, mental health, medical advice or health and wellness advice and that the Company is not a professional service provider. Again, all of the information, including without limitation, resources provided via phone or video conference, e-mail, an online forum, live events such as webinars or lives, video/audio recordings, courses, materials provided in our digital products and the like about homesteading, business, laws, health/nutrition, wellness and/or finance-related information, are resources for educational and informational purposes only and should not take the place of hiring a licensed professional. You understand that the Company does not and will not provide any form of diagnosis, legal advice, medical advice, financial advice, or mental health advice.