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Dating Me Is Like Getting Into Harvard With Ally

44 min · 2. juli 2026
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Our guest this week is Ally (a pseudonym!), a 30-year-old woman in the Los Angeles sugar dating community. We chat about her background in the wedding industry, her own six-figure destination wedding, the typical demographic of men she encounters in the sugar world, what she looks for in a partner, sugar dating as a sober person, cosplaying feeling confident, matching your "glucose guardian" to your "sex ideal," and why she recommends sugar dating to people who have experienced trauma.

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