Not So Parallel

We Finally Talked About It w/ Alex Henderson

In this episode, Alex and I sit down and honestly just talk. Like really talk. About us, about where things have felt a little unclear, and how easy it is to let silence or assumptions start filling in the gaps without even realizing it. We get into our relationship, the “what are we” type of tension, and what it actually looks like when you stop avoiding certain conversations and just say things out loud. But it doesn’t stay in one place we also talk about career, direction, and what we’re both trying to figure out individually while still figuring out how that fits together. And faith is woven into all of it how it shapes the way we think, the way we handle timing, and how we try to make sense of what we’re stepping into right now. Thanks for chatting with us <3 Connect with me! Email: notsoparallelpod@gmail.com Instagram: @theycallmejess_ // @notsoparallelpod_ // @xandersonn

Your Silence is Loud w/ Janice Ruiz

DID YOU MISS US? Friendship isn’t about avoiding things to keep the peace. It’s about choosing honesty even when it’s uncomfortable. Thank you for choosing vulnerability with us 💕 BOOK US ON INSTAGRAM! @365celebrationsco LETS CONNECT! insta: @theycallmejess_ @notsoparallelpod_ EMAIL: notsoparallelpod@gmail.com

Stop Being So Accessible

Let's break down the high cost of emotional accessibility. We often mistake being "available" for being "kind," but without a perimeter, your peace is at the mercy of everyone else’s mess. Using the ancient leadership of Nehemiah, this episode provides a masterclass in rebuilding your life from the rubble of "yes." We’re diving deep into the psychology of Hyper-vigilance, the trap of the "Ono" distraction, and the "CEO Strategy" of the Sword and the Trowel. It’s time to stop building homes in cities with no walls. Pick up your bricks. Grab your sword. You are doing a great work, and you cannot come down. If this episode hit home, I want to hear from you. Let’s talk about your "Wall-Check" challenge this week. Instagram: @theycallmejess_ & @notsoparallelpod_ Email: notsoparallelpod@gmail.com

God, Are You Even Listening?

In this episode of Not So Parallel, we walk through one of the most honest prayers in the Bible, Psalm 13. Have you ever felt like God was silent? Like your prayers were going unanswered? Like you were stuck in the middle of a story that just won’t move forward? David did too. Together, we break down the emotional journey of this psalm from the plea, to the exhaustion, to the fear, and finally to a faith that doesn’t ignore the struggle… but holds it. This isn’t a surface-level devotional. This is a deep dive into what it actually looks like to talk to God when you’re tired, confused, and still waiting. If you’ve ever asked “How long, God?” this conversation is for you 📩 Contact / Connect I’d love to hear your thoughts, questions, or what this episode stirred up in you: Email: notsoparallelpod@gmail.com Instagram: @theycallmejess_ Podcast IG: @notsoparallelpod_

Almost Isn't Safe Anymore

Almost obedience, almost surrender, almost ready… but almost isn’t safe anymore. This episode unpacks what it really means to stop circling change and start stepping into it — with Scripture, reflection, and holy tension. CONNECT WITH ME: Email Me: notsoparallelpod@gmail.com Instagram: @ theycallmejess_ // @notsoparallelpod_ SEE YOU ON 2/9/26