Outcry Witness Unspoken

500,000 Kids Targeted Daily on Meta. This Expert Has Been in the Room. | Outcry Witness Unspoken

An Instagram account could rack up 16 violations for sex trafficking before being suspended on the 17th. That is not a glitch. That is a policy. This is the conversation Meta does not want you to hear. About This Episode Haley McNamara has spent more than a decade inside the rooms where tech companies are asked to protect children — and where they quietly refuse. As Executive Director and Chief Strategy Officer at the National Center on Sexual Exploitation, she has written the recommendations, engaged the companies, and testified under oath. This episode is where that decade lands. JoDee and Haley walk through the 17 strikes policy, Section 230, the Dirty Dozen list, and what it means that for the first time this year, NCOSE named a person — not just a company. Meet Your Host: JoDee Neil JoDee Neil is a former prosecutor, survivor, author, and fierce advocate for women and children. With over twenty years in the courtroom and a deeply personal journey of healing, JoDee brings rare expertise and real compassion to every conversation. She is the author of Outcry Witness: A Former Prosecutor's Guide to Healing and Justice After Sexual Violence. Featured Guest: Haley McNamara, Executive Director & Chief Strategy Officer, NCOSE Haley McNamara is one of the most knowledgeable voices in the country on how tech platforms enable sexual exploitation. She has worked inside NCOSE for over a decade, led the organization's corporate engagement strategy, and was deposed as an expert witness in the New Mexico Meta trial. She is not theorizing. She has been in the room. Episode Timestamps  * [00:00] — Introduction * [02:59] - Scale of Exploitation Amplified by AI * [04:01] - The Vast Hidden Problem * [04:55] - Tech Companies Prioritize Profit Over Safety * [09:46] - Section 230: The Legal Shield for Big Tech * [13:48] - A First Crack in Section 230’s Armor * [15:35] - Internal Meta Data Reveals Massive Abuse * [16:42] - Meta’s Tolerance for Exploitation * [17:46] - Section 230 Protects Dating Apps Too * [27:51] - The Overwhelming Burden on Parents * [35:56] - Google Chromebooks and School Safety Failures * [38:43] - Envisioning a Safer Online World * [40:28] - Global Tech Regulation Examples Key Takeaways * An Instagram account could accumulate 16 trafficking violations before being suspended — sourced from sworn deposition testimony unsealed in November 2024 * As of 2020, Instagram had no dedicated report button for child sexual abuse material — engineers said it was too much work to build * 500,000 children are targeted daily on Meta platforms * Big Tech spends approximately $200 million per year lobbying Congress — roughly ten times the gun lobby * The bipartisan Sunset Section 230 Act, introduced December 2025 by Senators Durbin and Graham, would repeal the law two years after passage TAKE YOUR NEXT STEP 🗓️ Book Your Outcry Witness Strategy Session A private, ninety-minute session with JoDee designed to help survivors navigate healing, understand their options, and move forward with clarity and confidence. 👉 https://jodeeneilcom.as.me/OutcryWitnessStrategySession [https://jodeeneilcom.as.me/OutcryWitnessStrategySession] 📖 Grab JoDee's Book — Outcry Witness A former prosecutor's guide to healing and justice after sexual violence. Part memoir, part practical guide, entirely for survivors. 👉 https://www.amazon.com/dp/1965766196/ [https://www.amazon.com/dp/1965766196/] 🔗 Follow Haley McNamara's Work Visit endsexualexploitation.org and search the Dirty Dozen List to see which platforms and products made the list this year. 🏢 Corporate and Workplace Consulting 👉 https://jodeeneilcom.as.me/StrategySessionForVistageMembers [https://jodeeneilcom.as.me/StrategySessionForVistageMembers] 🎤 Inquire about JoDee Speaking 👉 jodeeneil@neilnowlegal.com [jodeeneil@neilnowlegal.com]

Outcry Witness Unspoken Episode 4: 37 Stab Wounds. A Slit Throat. Colette Martin’s Survival.

Some stories stop you cold. Colette Martin’s is one of them.Nearly three decades ago, Colette survived an act of violence that most people cannot even comprehend. Stabbed 37 times and left for dead, survival itself became the first miracle. But what followed was something even more powerful: a decision to turn that survival into purpose.Today, Colette uses her voice to stand beside other survivors, helping women who are navigating trauma, fear, and the long road back to themselves. Messages arrive from across the world from women searching for hope, guidance, and proof that healing is possible. Colette shows them that life does not end with violence. In many ways, it can begin again.The work has not been easy. Trauma does not disappear overnight. The impact of violence echoes through years, relationships, and even physical health. But Colette’s story shows something essential that survivors often need to hear: there is still light after the darkest moments.Advocacy became part of that path forward. Colette helped push forward legislation in New Brunswick that gives people the right to ask about a partner’s potential history of domestic abuse. That effort, born from lived experience, has the power to help protect others before violence escalates.This conversation moves through the reality of trauma, the long process of healing, the strength it takes to keep speaking, and the purpose that can grow from surviving the unimaginable. It also explores faith, resilience, and the idea that survivors can become a light for others who are still searching for a way forward.The message at the center of this conversation is simple but powerful. Survivors deserve to be heard. Survivors deserve support. Survivors deserve hope.Watch now and hear why Colette’s voice matters.

Outcry Witness Unspoken Episode 3: Boy Scouts Bankruptcy | Survivors Still Fighting to Be Heard

More than 82,000 survivors reported sexual abuse connected to the Boy Scouts of America.What followed was not a courtroom.It was bankruptcy.In Episode Three of Outcry Witness Unspoken, survivor and advocate Curtis Garrison explains what that process has meant for the thousands of men who came forward expecting justice.Instead of testimony before a jury, survivors were placed inside a bankruptcy system designed to protect the institution.Inside that system:Survivors were labeled creditors.Claims worth millions were reduced to tiny percentages of their value.Thousands waited years for answers with little transparency.For many, there was never a moment to stand in court and say what happened to them.Curtis Garrison has spent years inside this process. His advocacy work has focused on exposing how the Boy Scouts bankruptcy has handled abuse claims and what it reveals about how institutions respond to mass sexual abuse.This conversation goes beyond the Boy Scouts.It raises a larger question about what happens when organizations facing widespread abuse claims use bankruptcy to resolve those claims outside the traditional justice system.Across the country, survivors are now pushing for reforms including:• Eliminating nondisclosure agreements in abuse cases• Removing statutes of limitations for sexual abuse• Strengthening mandatory reporting laws• Preventing institutions from using bankruptcy to limit survivor testimonyFor survivors, this fight is not about headlines or settlements.It is about being heard.Because when abuse is buried inside legal processes designed for corporations, the people who were harmed can disappear from the story.The question now is simple.Will survivors ever be given the space to tell the truth about what happened to them?

Outcry Witness Unspoken Episode 2: Spiritual Abuse Is a Crime of Control

Spiritual abuse is about power. It uses God, hell, obedience, and fear of eternal punishment to force compliance.This episode exposes how religious authority is used to control children and adults, shut down dissent, and protect institutions that refuse accountability. These systems are built to isolate, intimidate, and silence. Once obedience is enforced, abuse follows.Spiritual abuse creates access. It removes outside oversight. It trains submission. It punishes questioning. That combination allows physical abuse, sexual abuse, and exploitation to continue unchecked, especially in churches and religious schools that operate without regulation.Growing up inside an unregulated Christian school in Texas reveals how these tactics operate in real time. The same mechanics appear in larger, more visible religious organizations, including the Fundamentalist Latter-day Saints under Warren Jeffs. Different scale. Same structure. Absolute authority. Total obedience.Spiritual abuse overlaps directly with trafficking dynamics. Both rely on isolation, fear, and the destruction of autonomy. When eternal consequences are weaponized, resistance becomes nearly impossible, particularly for children.Investigative reporting connected to the leadership discussed here can be found in these articles:God’s Man: Savior or Seducer?https://www.dmagazine.com/publications/d-magazine/1988/september/gods-man-savior-or-seducer/Terry Smith: Guilty, But Who Cares?https://www.dmagazine.com/publications/d-magazine/1989/october/terry-smith-guilty-but-who-cares/Spiritual abuse is not faith. It is coercive control. And it causes lasting harm.

Outcry Witness Unspoken Episode 1: Hollow Laws, Real Violence, and the Cost of Silence

Outcry Witness Unspoken begins with the truth most systems refuse to confront.Gender based violence is not rare. It is not exceptional. It is not adequately enforced against. The laws exist, but enforcement is hollow. Survivors are expected to carry the weight of violence while institutions look away.This first episode confronts the reality that silence is not accidental. It is engineered. From biased investigations to jury disbelief, from procedural loopholes to cultural dismissal, perpetrators are protected while survivors are scrutinized. The system does not merely fail survivors. It conditions them to stay quiet.When one survivor speaks, credibility is questioned. When many speak, the pattern becomes undeniable. Collective truth is the only force capable of disrupting denial and exposing systemic harm.Inspired by global resistance to gender based violence and grounded in lived reality, this episode marks the start of a movement built on collective outcry. What cannot be said alone can be said together. Silence has protected perpetrators long enough.