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From stand-up to stand out: The truth behind confidence

1 h 26 min · 21. mar. 2026
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Most people think confidence is something you either have or you don’t. That’s wrong. In this episode, I’m joined by Jon Torrens, confidence and public speaking coach, to break down what confidence actually is, and how to build it without turning into some loud, fake version of yourself. We get into: * why confidence doesn’t come before action (it comes because of it) * the small “+1” moves that change everything * how to speak up in meetings without overthinking it * why rehearsal is the simplest cheat code no one uses * and how to show up as you, and not some polished, corporate robot From stand-up comedy disasters to boardroom breakthroughs, this one’s full of practical insights you can actually use. If you’ve ever held back, overthought, or waited to “feel ready”… this is your nudge to stop.

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From stand-up to stand out: The truth behind confidence

Most people think confidence is something you either have or you don’t. That’s wrong. In this episode, I’m joined by Jon Torrens, confidence and public speaking coach, to break down what confidence actually is, and how to build it without turning into some loud, fake version of yourself. We get into: * why confidence doesn’t come before action (it comes because of it) * the small “+1” moves that change everything * how to speak up in meetings without overthinking it * why rehearsal is the simplest cheat code no one uses * and how to show up as you, and not some polished, corporate robot From stand-up comedy disasters to boardroom breakthroughs, this one’s full of practical insights you can actually use. If you’ve ever held back, overthought, or waited to “feel ready”… this is your nudge to stop.

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