Playbook of the Wealthy

9 financial charts explaining the world today | EP075

Your financial advisor's favorite charts, read out loud. Every quarter Dave and Heather crack open J.P. Morgan's guide to the markets — and this episode is the two of them flipping through nine charts that explain what's actually happening in the economy right now. If you're a visual learner, this one's for you (and yes, they know that's a strange thing to say on a podcast).In this Playbook of the Wealthy episode, financial advisors Dave Grant of Retirement Matters and Heather Townsend of Townsend Financial go chart by chart through the data behind today's headlines: whether war actually moves the stock market, the labor-market numbers quietly inching toward a recession signal, the Fed's tightrope between inflation and jobs, what's really fueling inflation (and why everyone's so mad about gas), the brutal math of missing the market's best days, the surprising 15-year global-equity winner that wasn't the US, the truth about real estate funds and gold, and the hidden tax drag that makes active mutual funds so painful. Plus highlights: Dave's house-music obsession and Heather's run of New York conferences.▶ Listen on Apple, Spotify, or visit https://playbookotw.com★ WHAT YOU'LL LEARN ★▸ Why the stock market barely flinches at war — and what the S&P actually returned in the years during and after major conflicts▸ The labor-market signal quietly flashing recession: payroll growth slowing while unemployment ticks toward its 30-year average▸ Why rising unemployment isn't all bad news — and the impossible tightrope the Fed walks between taming inflation and keeping people hired▸ What's really driving inflation right now — why volatile energy prices have all but vanished from the numbers while shelter never leaves▸ The "missing the best days" math that should end market-timing forever: miss just 40 days in 25 years and $1,000 becomes $670▸ The 15-year global-equity winner that beat the S&P 500 — it's not the US — and why staying diversified still wins▸ How real estate funds actually pay you: a steady ~5% income stream sitting on top of wildly swinging capital appreciation▸ Why gold had a monster 2025 — and why it's still more volatile than the S&P 500 and a poor stand-in for bonds▸ The silent tax drag of active mutual funds: capital gains you owe on income you never received — and how it can even push up your Medicare premiums▸ The simple moves that follow from all of it: lock in CDs when rates are high, refinance when they're low, and favor ETFs over active mutual funds★ CHAPTERS ★00:00 Cold open: the stock market doesn't actually care about war00:43 Cold open: miss 40 days in 25 years and you lose money01:17 Welcome — today we're talking charts01:39 Why we do chart episodes (we're nerds, you're visual learners)02:23 Chart 1: Does war really move the stock market?05:42 Chart 2: Labor market — payrolls, unemployment & wage growth08:41 Chart 3: Interest rates and the Fed's tightrope11:28 Chart 4: What's really driving inflation (energy vs. shelter)14:11 The great gas-price freak-out15:52 Chart 5: The cost of missing the market's best days18:31 Chart 6: Global equity markets — guess the 15-year winner21:17 Chart 7: Global real estate — steady income vs. wild appreciation23:58 Chart 8: Gold — more volatile than the S&P 50026:26 Chart 9: The hidden tax drag of active mutual funds30:42 Recap: the takeaways from all nine charts31:52 Highlights: Dave's house-music pick (Mismo)32:53 Highlights: Heather's New York advisor & tax conferences34:20 Wrap up★ LISTEN ON ANY PLATFORM ★Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/playbook-of-the-wealthy/id1787630097Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/21LrI3IB2wMsOOJLiGsRJKWebsite: https://playbookotw.com

What are Buffered ETFs and should you have them in your portfolio? | EP074

What if you could own the S&P 500 and never see a negative year? That's the pitch behind buffered ETFs — and like every pitch that sounds too good, the fine print is where it gets interesting. The protection is real. So are the caps, the costs, and the ways to pick the wrong one. ★ WHAT YOU'LL LEARN ★ ▸ What a buffered ETF really is — the "defined outcome ETF" that tracks an index, protects the downside, and caps the upside ▸ How big this corner of the market has become: 420 products and $58 billion since 2018 ▸ How calls and puts actually create the buffer — walked through on a fake $100 stock, no rabbit holes ▸ The 100%-protection trade-off: your return never goes negative, but your cap lands around 6–7% and resets every year ▸ How a 10% or 15% buffer works in practice — what you really lose when the market drops 12% ▸ Why "the stock market averages 10%" is the most misleading stat in investing — and what a cap actually costs you in real, lumpy markets ▸ Dave's real-world strategy: splitting a retiree's S&P 500 allocation in half — roughly 75% of the upside with half the downside ▸ Buffered ETF vs. annuity: the liquidity difference, the fee difference (about 0.8% vs. up to 3.5%), and the one promise only an annuity can make ▸ How these products behaved during this spring's market temper tantrum ★ CHAPTERS ★ 00:00 Cold open: best annuity product? Buffered ETFs all day 01:02 If the market drops 20% right at retirement — what could you have done? 01:21 Welcome — today you become a nerd like us 01:40 Fair warning: this one's finance 4.0 02:02 The definition: what a "defined outcome ETF" is 02:58 Not new: 420 products and $58B since 2018 03:40 The catch — protection isn't free and upside gets capped 04:23 How they're built: calls and puts on a $100 stock 07:10 Packaging the buffer: how much insurance do you want? 07:33 Headline: Dave uses these, Heather doesn't (yet) 08:17 Client one: Sally Smith and 100% downside protection 09:37 How a 10% or 15% buffer actually works 10:12 Client two: Joe Sample wants upside with a safety net 11:25 Why "10% average returns" misleads — caps in real markets 11:52 Why these have been a hard sell in a three-year bull run 13:21 How Dave really uses them: split the S&P allocation in half 15:01 Heather pushes back — modeling the trade-off honestly 15:51 Who this is for (and who it definitely isn't) 16:39 "You just explained an annuity" — the comparison everyone asks 17:46 How buffered ETFs handled this year's volatility 18:38 The one thing an annuity does that this never will 19:24 Modeling buffered ETFs in a financial plan 20:29 What they cost: ~0.8% — cheaper than an annuity, pricier than an index fund 21:49 Final cautions: dual-direction products and buying the wrong one 22:45 A quick ask — like, comment, subscribe 23:17 The bow: terrified of volatility? This might be for you 23:53 What Would You Do? 24:00 Q1: Retiring in six months and scared of a drop — buckets, then buffers 26:14 Q2: My insurance broker wants my 401(k) in a fixed index annuity 28:41 Q3: 420 products — how do I pick the right buffered ETF? 30:54 Caps, resets, and the new-product-every-month strategy 33:21 Highlights 33:27 Highlights: Dave is back in the credit-card points game 35:23 Highlights: Heather survives the Scottsdale fair 37:03 Wrap up

The financial news we're paying attention to | EP073

Ever wonder what your financial advisor is actually reading over morning coffee — and how those headlines quietly reshape the advice you get? This episode is that reading list, cracked open. No 4.0 level finance nerd-out, just the stories Dave and Heather think you should know about, with opinions attached.In this Playbook of the Wealthy episode, financial advisors Dave Grant of Retirement Matters and Heather Townsend of Townsend Financial run through the news they've been tracking this quarter — the "Trump accounts" landing at Robinhood, AI getting the math wrong on people's retirement plans, $14 billion walking out of a single brokerage house, a "new retirement number" that leapt 16% in a year, private-credit funds telling investors "you can have half," and a wave of wealth-tax proposals from California to the Netherlands to Washington. Plus highlights: parenting a kid who just got their license, and an inspiring Costa Rica trip straight out of Die With Zero.▶ Listen on Apple, Spotify, or visit https://playbookotw.com [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbmpXWmE1blFWeEJpYmNFMkxCSjJoMUdENFJrZ3xBQ3Jtc0tuZkdsOVBodURoSFBMYWhmOXRwNFBjTE80RmNvelJqaVk1d3hCRVZpeHRzdEk4UU92Z1dVcWUxc2F3VkJwYnNpMGd1VG0zWE9sOGwzcjlTUjd1bTVZNy1JQ0szb1NWT0R5N2l1MTVUTEpfS0x4QTZMYw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fplaybookotw.com%2F&v=3mt4u55QFEQ]★ WHAT YOU'LL LEARN ★▸ Why the new "Trump accounts" are landing at Robinhood — who's really running them, and the one-account-per-kid rule that trips up well-meaning grandparents and parents▸ The thing AI still gets dangerously wrong in a financial plan — and why one bad math number can quietly break your whole retirement▸ Why $14 billion walked out of UBS in a single year, and what advisors fleeing the big brokerage houses means for the advice you actually receive▸ The survey number that jumped from 38% to 68% in 16 years: when paying for financial advice is genuinely worth the fee — and when it isn't▸ Why "the new retirement number" leapt 16% in one year to $1.45M — and why that headline number almost certainly isn't yours▸ The buffer most retirees skip — and why 40% of households can't cover a single year of surprise expenses▸ How a "gray divorce" can wreck a retirement plan that worked perfectly fine for two▸ The illiquidity trap, explained plainly: what happens when you ask a private-credit fund for your money back and the answer is "half, maybe"▸ The wealth-tax experiments brewing in California, the Netherlands, and Washington — including the one that already got reversed after public outcry▸ Why a slowing job market might be an AI productivity story, not a recession story — and why the hosts aren't panicking about either★ CHAPTERS ★00:00 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3mt4u55QFEQ] Cold open: getting (a little) political on taxing the wealthy00:59 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3mt4u55QFEQ&t=59s] What financial advisors actually read in the news01:10 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3mt4u55QFEQ&t=70s] Welcome — today we're reading the headlines01:22 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3mt4u55QFEQ&t=82s] Why we picked these stories (finance 2.0, not 11.0)02:02 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3mt4u55QFEQ&t=122s] The "Trump accounts" are coming — and they're at Robinhood06:08 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3mt4u55QFEQ&t=368s] AI can't do math — verify before you trust it08:05 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3mt4u55QFEQ&t=485s] Why advisors are leaving the big brokerage houses09:46 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3mt4u55QFEQ&t=586s] 68% of wealthy investors now say advice is worth the fee11:54 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3mt4u55QFEQ&t=714s] Hiring is the slowest since Covid — recession signal or AI?12:50 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3mt4u55QFEQ&t=770s] Dave's take: the AI fear-mongering is overblown15:20 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3mt4u55QFEQ&t=920s] The "new retirement number" jumps to $1.45M17:33 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3mt4u55QFEQ&t=1053s] Retirement confidence hits its lowest in a decade19:22 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3mt4u55QFEQ&t=1162s] Unexpected expenses, buffers, and the case for buckets22:21 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3mt4u55QFEQ&t=1341s] Gray divorces are wrecking retirement plans24:38 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3mt4u55QFEQ&t=1478s] Private-credit redemption gates — the illiquidity trap27:25 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3mt4u55QFEQ&t=1645s] California, the Netherlands & Washington: taxing the wealthy34:33 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3mt4u55QFEQ&t=2073s] A quick ask — like, comment, subscribe34:44 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3mt4u55QFEQ&t=2084s] Highlights34:54 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3mt4u55QFEQ&t=2094s] Highlights: Dave on parenting a newly-independent teen37:24 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3mt4u55QFEQ&t=2244s] Highlights: Heather's inspiring Costa Rica trip39:33 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3mt4u55QFEQ&t=2373s] Wrap up★ LISTEN ON ANY PLATFORM ★Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... 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The mistakes we saw in tax season | EP072

Four CPAs can take the same set of numbers and hand you four different tax returns. That's not a knock on accountants — it's how tangled the tax code has become. And this year, Dave and Heather caught a stack of expensive mistakes on returns that clients and other preparers had already called "finished."In this Playbook of the Wealthy episode, financial advisors Dave Grant of Retirement Matters and Heather Townsend of Townsend Financial run through everything they saw in this tax season — the under-withholding, the mutual funds quietly throwing off capital gains, the backdoor Roth that got taxed twice, the S-Corp set up with no salary, the W-2 that never made it onto the return — and then, more importantly, exactly how to avoid each one next year. Plus a "What Would You Do?" mailbag on withholding after a raise, refund envy at the office, and what to do when a too-big refund makes you nervous.▶ Listen on Apple, Spotify, or visit https://playbookotw.com [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqa19PemdNekRoN2NtbzRRemV2R2ZyNEFsR1FyUXxBQ3Jtc0tsV3UzajVKRXNmdEhRbVhxdEQ4T0xBYnp3TjdVNzQ4MFVkX2xpZWlxUURCRTNINTJ3VUF1anV5dWxtREkxLXJiUmFMRHU3MWdpSFljNU5IOTdBejlMWUJsMzhHNVl4RzJWbFlUZ3VqRlpLQWFZNEdRSQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fplaybookotw.com%2F&v=GXNL0ed2IpI]★ WHAT YOU'LL LEARN ★▸ Why "I adjusted my W-4" almost never fixes an under-withholding problem on its own▸ The capital gains distributions line on your return — and the one portfolio swap (mutual fund to ETF) that can nearly erase it▸ Why an out-of-state 529 plan can quietly cost you a state tax deduction you were owed▸ The S-Corp mistake that costs owners thousands: a salary-vs-distribution split that never got set up▸ Why piecemeal, drip-fed paperwork wrecks a tax return — and the checklist habit that fixes it▸ How a missing W-2 or a forgotten high-yield-savings 1099 turns into an IRS matching notice▸ The backdoor Roth error that makes a non-taxable $14,000 suddenly taxable — and why it traces back to Form 8606▸ Why business owners can't do real tax planning without clean books — you're taxed on profit, not gross▸ The fall tax review every complex household should be doing, and why most investment advisors skip it▸ When to actually switch CPAs — summer, not the December scramble★ CHAPTERS ★00:00 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXNL0ed2IpI] Cold open: the mistakes we caught this tax season01:09 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXNL0ed2IpI&t=69s] Welcome — a tax season recap01:25 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXNL0ed2IpI&t=85s] Into the mistakes we saw02:33 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXNL0ed2IpI&t=153s] Mistake: clients badly under-withheld03:45 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXNL0ed2IpI&t=225s] Mistake: investments throwing off capital gains distributions04:31 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXNL0ed2IpI&t=271s] Mistake: out-of-state 529 plans and the missed state deduction05:16 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXNL0ed2IpI&t=316s] Mistake: an S-Corp set up with no salary split06:10 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXNL0ed2IpI&t=370s] Mistake: disorganized, piecemeal paperwork07:08 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXNL0ed2IpI&t=428s] Mistake: missing tax documents — a whole W-2, a forgotten 109907:51 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXNL0ed2IpI&t=471s] Mistake: the backdoor Roth reported as taxable (Form 8606)08:46 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXNL0ed2IpI&t=526s] Mistake: incomplete or incorrect business books09:16 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXNL0ed2IpI&t=556s] Mistake: HSA contributions the CPA never knew about09:29 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXNL0ed2IpI&t=569s] Mistake: projections thrown off by late switches and new tax law10:27 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXNL0ed2IpI&t=627s] This isn't about slamming anyone — catching mistakes is the job11:06 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXNL0ed2IpI&t=666s] Fixes for next year: the fall tax review13:34 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXNL0ed2IpI&t=814s] The capital gains line you can almost erase with one portfolio tweak14:23 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXNL0ed2IpI&t=863s] The older couple whose tax bill got cut in half16:31 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXNL0ed2IpI&t=991s] Review business income every quarter19:05 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXNL0ed2IpI&t=1145s] Build your own tax-document checklist20:16 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXNL0ed2IpI&t=1216s] Inside the Townsend household's 2026 tax folder21:41 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXNL0ed2IpI&t=1301s] Business owners: keep your books clean year-round22:53 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXNL0ed2IpI&t=1373s] When to actually switch CPAs (hint: not December)23:47 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXNL0ed2IpI&t=1427s] K-1s, curveballs, and when to just extend25:58 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXNL0ed2IpI&t=1558s] The bow: reflect on your tax season26:33 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXNL0ed2IpI&t=1593s] A quick ask — and YouTube's new "hype" button27:03 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXNL0ed2IpI&t=1623s] What Would You Do?27:08 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXNL0ed2IpI&t=1628s] Q1: I adjusted my withholding for a raise and still owe — why?29:34 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXNL0ed2IpI&t=1774s] Q2: Why do my coworkers get refunds and I don't?31:41 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXNL0ed2IpI&t=1901s] Q3: I'm getting a huge refund and it scares me — should I get a second opinion?33:01 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXNL0ed2IpI&t=1981s] Highlights33:05 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXNL0ed2IpI&t=1985s] Highlights: Heather's lifting progress and the creatine debate35:25 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXNL0ed2IpI&t=2125s] Highlights: Dave on the summer slowdown and a new designation36:23 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXNL0ed2IpI&t=2183s] Wrap up

Where does our financial advice differ? | EP071

Two different advisors should differ in their financial advice - should they?One was broke living off a teacher's salary the day he got married. The other watched her Mom's country-club life evaporate after a divorce. Today they're in the virtual boxing ring — same questions, different answers, no script.In this Playbook of the Wealthy episode, financial advisors Dave Grant of Retirement Matters and Heather Townsend of Townsend Financial run through seven questions originally asked of Heather by people outside her client base — the kind of basic-but-loaded questions you don't always get a straight answer to. What sparked you into finance? What's the one habit everyone should practice? When is it actually time to hire an advisor? Are annuities a trap or a tool? Plus a bonus they didn't prep for: the wildest thing a client has ever bought. Spoiler — it's a $1M off-road RV.▶ Listen on Apple, Spotify, or visit https://playbookotw.com★ WHAT YOU'LL LEARN ★▸ The two very different money origin stories that shaped how Dave and Heather practice today▸ Why Dave Ramsey's baby steps lit Heather's spark — and the Ramsey advice she's grown out of▸ The family-money story that pushed Dave into financial planning (and away from his dad's pattern)▸ Saving vs. avoiding debt: which "cornerstone habit" each host will fight for▸ Why Dave says small business owners need revenue first — and why Heather says "know your numbers" first▸ Bookkeeper vs. CPA: which one belongs at the front of the queue and why▸ The most common financial mistake — a budget no one tracks, or money fragmented everywhere▸ The reframe Heather uses on someone who thinks it's too late to start (no slap required)▸ When DIY finance stops working and a real advisor starts paying for itself▸ Why "my wealth got too big to manage" is a legit reason to hire help, not a brag▸ The wildest thing a client has ever bought — an RV pumped full of steroids that doesn't need a road▸ Annuities, honestly: where they actually fit, the SPIA Dave likes, and the questions to ask before you buy one▸ Why "I don't trust insurance companies" should make you look twice at your current portfolio★ CHAPTERS ★00:00 Cold open: two money origin stories01:11 Welcome to the virtual boxing ring02:11 Q1: What first sparked your interest in finance?02:21 Dave: broke living off a teacher salary and the Dave Ramsey baby steps04:11 Heather watching Mom's lifestyle disappear after the divorce06:46 Q2: One financial habit everyone should practice06:54 Heather: save first, on autopilot07:16 Dave: avoid debt, or make it a very smart decision08:59 Q3: Where should small business owners seek help first?09:07 Dave: build a real business and real revenue first09:54 Heather: know your numbers — bookkeeper before CPA11:10 Q4: The most common financial mistake11:19 Dave: not understanding your monthly cash flow11:40 Heather: fragmented accounts with no plan and no purpose13:32 If this is helping you — like, comment, subscribe, share13:49 Q5: What to say to someone who feels it's too late14:15 Dave's tough love: start now, tomorrow is later14:54 Heather's reframe: better off in 10 years if you start today16:02 Q6: When should someone hire a financial advisor?16:13 Dave: when DIY and free advice stop being enough17:28 Heather: when you want the next level — or your wealth got too big to hold18:13 Bonus question: the wildest thing a client has ever bought — a $1M off-road RV20:36 Q7: Annuities — love them, hate them, or it depends?21:23 Where Heather lands (and where she'd consider one)22:13 Dave on SPIAs and why annuities are almost always "sold" versus "bought:23:32 The $10,000-a-year-more annuity shop and the "I don't trust insurance companies" comeback24:34 Highlights24:48 Highlights: Dave's love letter to Matthew, our editor26:13 Highlights: Heather's new girls group and the Ferrari art show27:54 Wrap up