Quick Before You Forget

Born with One Hand, Built for Purpose: Tony Memmel on Resilience, Faith, and Mindset

In weakness there is purpose and in purpose there is strength. In this deeply moving and highly conversational episode of Quick Before You Forget, I am joined by singer-songwriter Tony Memmel, a keynote speaker and musician born with one hand who taught himself to play guitar professionally using a custom cast made from Gorilla Tape. Together, we explore resilience, faith, mindset, music as healing, and what it means to keep showing up even when life feels uncertain. Tony shares: the single conversation that changed his mother’s perspective (and Tony's life) forever how music became both therapy and mission why what we consume shapes who we become the importance of protecting your peace how faith carried Tony through difficult seasons what resilience actually looks like in everyday life the story behind performing alongside Jelly Roll and Brandon Lake This episode is for anyone feeling discouraged, lost, uncertain, or in need of a reminder that your story still, and forever and always, matters. Because sometimes the very thing you thought would hold you back becomes the thing that helps set other people free. Meaningful Moments 00:00 — The powerful question that shaped Tony’s life 01:00 — Being born with one hand and his parents’ fears 04:00 — The mindset shift that changed everything 05:30 — Discovering music and learning guitar 08:45 — Saving up for his first guitar 11:00 — Music as healing and emotional transformation 13:00 — Turning pain into purpose 14:30 — Protecting your peace and intentional consumption 18:00 — Self-limiting beliefs and the “yellow brick road” 22:00 — Why connection changes everything 24:00 — Gratitude, family, and mission-driven living 26:30 — Fatherhood and resilience 29:00 — Advice to his younger self 33:00 — Stories that remind us why encouragement matters 36:00 — Ty shares her healing journey and health struggles 40:00 — What people misunderstand about inspiration 42:00 — Tony’s “song of survival” during the pandemic 45:00 — What Tony would tell the world right now 48:00 — Singing with Jelly Roll and Brandon Lake 51:00 — Legacy, family, and what matters most 54:00 — Final reflections and encouragement Connect with Tony Memmel on social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonymemmel/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tonymemmel/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/tonymemmel TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@UC5QcaLeJOiloN-f7qimiv1A Book Tony to speak: https://www.tonymemmel.com/speaking Coach Doc and Ty discuss complimenting strangers in Episode one of Quick Before You Forget: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YLtCdC9oQ8g&t=10s

Believe in Yourself: How to Overcome Self-Doubt and Find Purpose in Life with Brant Johnson

What happens when a near-fatal crash forces you to confront how little time is truly guaranteed? In this deeply emotional episode of Quick Before You Forget, Ty sits down with marketing strategist and community builder Brant Johnson for a conversation about resilience, grief, self-belief, loneliness, purpose, and the courage to chase your dreams before it’s too late. Brant shares the life-changing lessons he learned after surviving a devastating car accident on black ice, losing his father at a young age, navigating identity and mental health struggles, and building a $100,000 “Resilience Arch” at just 17 years old. Together, Ty and Brant explore the power of connection, overcoming doubt, and why statistically, luck finds the people who keep trying. If you’ve ever felt behind, uncertain, burned out, isolated, or afraid to begin, this conversation is your reminder that your story still matters and your dreams are still worth pursuing. Meaningful Moments 00:00 — “If you keep trying, luck will find you” 01:00 — Losing his father at age 10 04:30 — The Easter egg story that shaped his life 07:15 — Why connection changes everything 08:15 — Mental health, loneliness, and learning to face himself 10:00 — Realizing he was gay inside a conservative religious environment 12:00 — The friend who helped save his life 13:00 — The treehouse story 15:00 — Surviving a near-fatal crash on black ice 18:00 — “Life is not a guaranteed gift” 19:00 — The Broadway musical that transformed his perspective 23:00 — “The dog you really gotta dread is the one that’s in your head” 25:00 — How to keep moving forward even when doubt wins 27:00 — Loneliness, technology, and the connection crisis 29:00 — The story behind the “Resilience Arch” 37:00 — A conversation with a struggling student that changed him forever 41:00 — What resilience actually means 42:00 — “You just have to keep going until you meet luck” 44:00 — It’s never too late to start over 46:00 — Quick Before You Forget: What matters most right now? 47:00 — Final reminder: Believe in yourself

You Matter: A Courageous Conversation About Mental Health, Motherhood, and Healing

I started this Quick Before You Forget journey after getting laid off in January 2026 from what I believed and hoped was my dream job. There was no master plan, aside from intentionally embracing the chaos of building the rocket ship in the air. There is just me on my yellow brick road making a conscious decision to keep showing up, keep creating, and trust who I’d meet along the way. In this special Mother's Day episode of Quick Before You Forget, I sat down with Sharon Johnson, who I’ve been connected with mostly through TikTok for four years. And honestly, it showed through in our vulnerability, honesty, and very real friendship despite having never spoken before this moment. We talked about leaving a belief system that no longer aligned. About motherhood without perfectionism. About suicidal ideation, TMS, therapy, and the slow rebuilding of hope. About body image, shame, boundaries, and learning to trust yourself again. She said a lot that resonated with me deeply, including: What if life isn’t something you have to get right…what if it’s an experiment you’re allowed to live inside of? We talked about managing mental health like a chronic illness without shame. About letting your kids see you care for yourself. About the sacredness of ordinary moments. If you’ve ever outgrown the story you were handed… If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re allowed to change or to have more fun or to create the life you’ve always dreamed of… You are. This one felt brave. And honest. And full of hope. I can’t wait for you to listen to it and tell me what you think. Meaningful Moments 00:00 — “One Breath at a Time” (When You’re Just Trying to Survive) 00:01 — Meet Sharon Johnson: Motherhood, Mental Health & Real Life 00:02 — The Grandfather Who Shaped Her Perspective on Life & Loss 00:04 — Leaving the Mormon Church: What Finally Broke Her Shelf 00:07 — What to Do When Your Beliefs No Longer Fit Your Life 00:08 — Learning to Sit With Uncertainty (Instead of Fear) 00:10 — Postpartum Depression & the Fear of Being a “Bad Mom” 00:11 — What Kids Actually Remember About Their Childhood 00:13 — If You’re in a Hard Season: What You Need to Hear Right Now 00:14 — The Impossible Standard of the “Perfect Mom” 00:16 — Why Rest, Fun, and “Doing Nothing” Actually Matter 00:18 — Doing What You Want Without Caring What People Think 00:19 — Why Adults Forget How to Have Fun (and How to Get It Back) 00:21 — What Her Kids Taught Her That Therapy Couldn’t 00:24 — Living With Depression: The Reality No One Talks About 00:26 — Hitting Rock Bottom & Finding a Way Through 00:28 — “One Breath at a Time” — Managing Mental Health Daily 00:29 — Choosing Yourself Without Feeling Like a Bad Mom 00:31 — Why Self-Love Starts With Letting Go of Shame 00:33 — Handling Criticism, Trolls & Letting Go of Judgment 00:34 — You Don’t Have to Be “Better” to Be Worthy 00:38 — You Don’t Have to Love Your Body to Live Your Life 00:40 — “Do It Anyway” — Living Fully Without Waiting 00:41 — Doing Hard Things & Rewiring Your Brain 00:42 — Life as an Experiment (Instead of Something to Perfect) 00:44 — Vulnerability, Boundaries & Sharing Your Story Online 00:45 — If Everyone Could Hear One Thing: “You Matter” 00:47 — Why Your Joy Matters (Even If It’s Just for You) 00:48 — What She’d Tell Her 22-Year-Old Self 00:50 — Teaching Kids About Mental Health Without Shame  00:52 — Feeling Lost in Motherhood (and Finding Your Way Back) 00:54 — Losing Yourself Isn’t Forever — You Come Back 00:55 — Rediscovering Yourself Through Your Kids 00:56 — Music That Helped Her Survive (Noah Kahan, Stick Season) 00:57 — Why Feeling Seen Matters More Than Being “Fixed” 00:59 — The Power of Community & Not Feeling Alone 01:00 — Holding Onto the Moments That Matter Most 01:02 — You Didn’t Miss It — There Will Be More Moments 01:03 — “Choose the Fun One” (A Simple Life Rule) 01:03 — Learning to Trust Yourself Again 01:04 — The Sacred Power of Ordinary Family Moments 01:05 — Your Joy Is Not a Waste 01:06 — Final Thoughts: Life Is Messy… and It All Matters Sharon Johnson's Song of Survival: Call Your Mom, Noah Kahan https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1XowR7Yupdg Alex Warren, First Time on Earth https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Aammt9Mvbwk

Normalizing Normal: How Emily Feret Built a 2.5M+ Audience by Being Real About Motherhood

This episode of Quick Before You Forget is one of the most honest, raw, and empowering conversations about motherhood, identity, and doing hard things you can find on the internet. In a conversation years in the making, I sit down with content creator and author Emily Feret, known for her viral “normalizing normal motherhood” videos that have helped millions of women feel seen, understood, and less alone. With over two million followers, Emily has built a powerful platform rooted in honesty, humor, and the courage to show life without the filter. In this conversation, we talk about: ✨ The reality of motherhood (and why perfection is a myth) ✨ Building confidence in the face of online criticism ✨ Running a marathon with zero experience and a dream ✨ Jumping out of a plane (and what it teaches you about fear) ✨ Letting go of people-pleasing and embracing your true self ✨ Why doing hard things changes everything ✨ How social media can actually create real connection This is a conversation about identity, resilience, motherhood, and becoming who you’re meant to be. If you’ve ever felt behind, overwhelmed, or like you’re not doing enough… this episode will remind you: 👉 You are not alone. 👉 You are doing enough. 👉 And your life is just getting started. 📚 Emily’s Book: Normalizing Normal Motherhood: Without the Filter: https://a.co/d/00pfoije 📲 Follow Emily: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@UCkXhv2hwNEd1OAe3ZXq7plg  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emilyjeanneferet/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@emilyjeanne333 🎧 Emily's Playlist: I Can Do It With A Broken Heart, Taylor Swift - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sl6en1NPTYM Click Clack Symphony, RAYE - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HtVcltkn3HI Check out my TikTok FamilyxEmily Feret Playlist: https://www.tiktok.com/@tyschmidtty/video/7200863476443532586 Meaningful Moments 00:00 – Skydiving story: “I was crying… what am I doing?” 01:00 – Meet Emily Feret: The Internet Mom Who Makes You Feel Seen 03:00 – “I’m a Collector of People” (Her Childhood & Influences) 06:00 – The “Mosaic of People” Mindset 10:00 – Online Hate & Letting Go of People-Pleasing 13:00 – Realizing “I Can Do Hard Things” 14:00 – The “Deathbed List” That Changed Everything 17:00 – Jumping Out of a Plane (Facing Fear Head-On) 20:00 – Signing Up for a Marathon With Zero Experience 22:00 – Injury, Doubt & the Decision to Keep Going 23:00 – “Don’t Stop” — The Moment That Carried Her Through 25:00 – The Finish Line Moment (3:33 & Full Circle) 27:00 – “If I Can Do This, I Can Do Anything” 31:00 – Imposter Syndrome & “Fake It Till You Make It” 33:00 – Doing It Scared Anyway 34:00 – Why Sharing Honestly Changes Everything 38:00 – The Viral Moment: Normalizing Real Motherhood 40:00 – Messy House, Big Life (Letting Go of Perfection) 42:00 – Parenting Choices & Internet Judgment 44:00 – Why She Took Her Kids Off the Internet 47:00 – “What You See Is What You Get” 49:00 – Her Book: The Truth About Motherhood 52:00 – “You Are Doing Enough” (Megaphone Moment) 54:00 – Music, Energy & Staying Motivated 56:00 – “Your Life Is About to Change” 57:30 – “Tomorrow Wants to See You… And So Do I” Lovisa earrings: https://www.lovisa.com/?ref=tyler2922 Use this code for 10% off! TYLER2893

What Healing Actually Looks Like When Its Messy Hard and Real Tiffany Jenkins on Building a Good Life After Addiction

This episode of Quick Before You is literally years in the making. Receipts and all, this is a wild ride you're not going to want to skip. In this deeply honest conversation on Quick Before You Forget, I sit down with New York Times bestselling author Tiffany Jenkins to talk about what healing actually looks like when it’s messy, nonlinear, and far from perfect. We talk honestly and openly about addiction, motherhood, mental health, postpartum depression, and the reality of starting over after rock bottom. This isn’t a polished success story. It’s the truth. And if you’ve been feeling burned out, lost, or like you’re failing at healing, same. So take it from us: this one is going to meet you exactly where you are. Because life after addiction, trauma, or burnout is possible. And more importantly, you don’t have to do it alone. ************ If you’ve been following along for a while you already know this wasn’t random. This was the yellow brick road. Leading us here to this conversation at exactly the right time. So if you’re wondering whether the pieces of your life are adding up to something, they are. Keep walking. THE YELLOW BRICK ROAD (Backstory behind ALL OF THE THINGS) The OG meetup story in June 2019: https://www.instagram.com/p/BzT-JwKHxAJ/?img_index=1 Gratitude changes everything post in July 2019: https://www.facebook.com/ty.schmidt.9/posts/pfbid02Fv3M8fc9uA1PPWoMG4kVGc9pSS4RjpE8PwmwUi53B4nY83tGp2PMQHpX3MRVdh2Gl?rdid=GbvNty3tVidIQzyV# "Funny" Jimmy backstory post in July 2019: https://www.facebook.com/ty.schmidt.9/posts/pfbid02jUmW1XAvJUEG8MuAVStE2s9EZbhxh1uAN6Gdt7gpckLoDStzJr9LvVMCzVEVZeZcl?rdid=Zuumxm2auIo0IDd3# Clean Mess original visceral full body reaction to the subtitle in July 2025 – INCLUDING WHEN I FIRST SAID I WANTED TO HAVE HER ON MY PODCAST (that didn't exist until six months later): https://www.instagram.com/p/DLoQ-KFsaOP/?img_index=1 You don’t have to do it alone reflection in July 2025: https://www.facebook.com/ty.schmidt.9/posts/pfbid0pmKeSsFZWSgSxj7W23Us8yBfR2CdoqddYnbo5JJhV7Bpv6ZFxpZqnm1MhWNS1zWFl?rdid=Nbsjzb5yKGMUzOGj# My bat signal attempt to ask her to please be on Quick Before You Forget in January 2026: https://www.facebook.com/ty.schmidt.9/posts/pfbid0WMFHBYJcDMSAeXiBCQT7SuAGR9DVxgkorLoACnX9SFCvAym3ady5s1avudSuMxAAl?rdid=49IXu1NfoaEX7zra# All of our Facebook memories in one place: https://www.facebook.com/profile/125600233/search/?q=tiffany%20jenkins If My Brain Held a Morning Meeting: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7N9r8nVogM8 My sportscaster friend Jason Fitz gets emotional in his episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PJIhEX20vLI Special song spotlight: Alex Warren, First Time on Earth: youtube.com/watch?si=txbl6Sk2Um2CIT0x&v=Aammt9Mvbwk&feature=youtu.be Quick Before I Forget backstory, initial red threads starting to come together: https://www.tiktok.com/@tyschmidtty/video/7589100397415910686 Quick Before I Forget becomes Quick Before You Forget: https://www.tiktok.com/@tyschmidtty/video/7592824004096838943 Special song spotlight: QBIF becoming QBYF ties to The Manuscript by Taylor Swift: “It’s Yours” – This was referenced in my original chapter for the Triumphs of Transformation book (Should I release that somewhere? Would anyone want to read it?) https://www.tiktok.com/@tyschmidtty/video/7630580377685363998 Related Yellow Brick Road Playlists on TikTok Quick Before You Forget: https://www.tiktok.com/@tyschmidtty/video/7562549049761549599 Gratitude changes everything: Joy From the Ground Up: https://www.tiktok.com/@tyschmidtty/video/7511812444558314783 Manifesting Connection starts here in 2021 with a post with Tiffany and I: https://www.tiktok.com/@tyschmidtty/video/6979381205456243974 Start Today: A RISE Story starts in 2023 with a post from Dave Hollis’ memorial: https://www.tiktok.com/@tyschmidtty/video/7204458423688285486 Alex Warren is FIRE: https://www.tiktok.com/@tyschmidtty/video/7521198555042712863 Triumphs Book backstory: https://www.tiktok.com/@tyschmidtty/video/7426444699239468319 Health and Healing journey: https://www.tiktok.com/@tyschmidtty/video/7507472611450817823 Swiftie Love: Just Keep Swift-ing https://www.tiktok.com/@tyschmidtty/video/7505601042634132767 and Swifties in Healing https://www.tiktok.com/@tyschmidtty/video/7481092834473331999 Let Them: https://www.tiktok.com/@tyschmidtty/video/7429138702149913886 Also everyone needs these Lovisa earrings: https://www.lovisa.com/?ref=tyler2922 Use this code for 10% off! TYLER2893 Meaningful Moments 00:00 – Introduction to Tiffany Jenkins  03:30 – Childhood trauma and losing her father suddenly 07:00 – How childhood impacts parenting 13:00 – Addiction begins and downward spiral 18:00 – Arrest, jail, and more 21:30 – Choosing recovery and rehab journey 23:00 – Becoming a mom in early sobriety 27:30 – Starting “Juggling the Jenkins” 31:00 – Using humor to talk about addiction 36:30 – Life after addiction is possible 37:00 – My personal story (cirrhosis, sobriety, rebuilding) 42:00 – When healing feels impossible 56:00 – “Healing isn’t linear” explained 1:00:00 – Advice for feeling like you’re failing at healing 1:09:00 – The question she wishes people would ask 1:13:00 – If the whole world had to listen…