Real Life Shyt Pod

Beefing Friends: Should You Jump In or Shut the Hell Up?

Shay and Fe bring in the legendary equalizer herself — Jazzy — to help break down a universal struggle: when your friends are beefing, do you jump in, or do you keep your nose in your own damn business? We cover: Why mixing friend groups is basically a science experiment gone wrong Jazzy’s undercover friendship Why Felicia is “selfish with her friends” (allegedly) The wedding-gate incident that still has Fe ready to fight How grown-woman beef is different when you’re in your Perry Ellis era of life

Ho Ho Hell: Navigating the Holidays

‘Tis the season… for chaos. In this episode, we break down holiday stress, men we deploy links to, white friends and their beloved tchotchkes, and why one of us is a full Grinch while the other wants to grab strangers’ hands and sing carols in the street. We talk gifts we hate, gifts we pretend to love, CVS clearance presents for people who surprise-gift us (don’t judge), and why Christmas in Europe hits different than Christmas in America.

Roasting Friends! Fair or Foul?

We test the theory that roasting your friends actually makes you closer and even call a friend live on air to see who’s really the biggest shit talker. 🥴 When “just kidding” jokes are really low-key digs 🙃 The difference between roasting out of love vs. mean-girl energy 👀 How cultural differences play into humor (ahem, our white friends…) 💅 Why being called “petty” might actually be Fe's love language.

Friendship Reviews: How to Rebalance, Demote, or Break Up!

This week on Real Life Shyt, we put friendships under corporate review. Are your friends getting a promotion to your C-Suite, or are they quietly being demoted to the mop closet?

No More Group Dinners: I’m Not Paying for Your Lobster Tail

This week, we’re breaking up with group dinners once and for all. Because why should a spinach puff and a side salad cost $250 just because everybody else wanted to cosplay as Salt Bae? Shay pulled her neck in yoga (apparently a fat neck is not the safety device she thought it was), Felicia dragged the Cowboys, and we both dragged restaurants that can’t do separate checks.