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Respect Me, Once The Dust Settles.

Podcast by ibeenhandsome

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Personal stories & conversations

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About Respect Me, Once The Dust Settles.

This isn’t small talk it’s real life, unfiltered. Self-doubt, love, confidence, creative pressure, and the lessons that hit once the noise fades. Life, faith, music, sports, the moments that shape us. Ladies, grab your wine. Fellas, pour your drink or light that cigar. Everyone, put everything down for a minute just be here. Early episodes? Yeah, the audio’s rough. Thanks for riding with me while the show levels up. Connect with me: Instagram @ibeenhandsome | Twitter @dustsettlespod

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83 episodes

episode The Kobe disrespect has to stop. artwork

The Kobe disrespect has to stop.

The more time passes, the more it bothers me. We keep quoting Kobe Bryant and Nipsey Hussle… but are we actually honoring the full weight of who they were? In this episode I break down how legends like Kobe five time champion, Mamba Mentality personified and Nipsey Hussle The man who built real ownership in Crenshaw are slowly being reduced to quick clips, slogans, and debate fodder. From the media frenzy right after their deaths (the Gayle King interview, the rushed attempts to “complicate” their legacies) to the way social media flattens everything into easy takes. I explore the psychology behind legacy compression. Why does 80% of the conversation only focus on 20% of the real story? We talk Mamba Mentality, Atomic Habits, the slow grind that actually created greatness, and why we’re losing patience for the invisible work that made these men legends. No highlights. No glorification. Just the process, the setbacks, and what it really means to respect greatness beyond the quotes. Mamba out… & The Marathon Continues. The lessons remain.

27 Jun 2026 - 8 min
episode Not everyone’s feelings are valid. artwork

Not everyone’s feelings are valid.

We live in a time where feelings are often treated like facts, and disagreement is mistaken for disrespect. In this episode, I explore a simple but uncomfortable truth: just because something feels true doesn't automatically make it true. From relationships and friendships to accountability and personal growth, we talk about the difference between reacting to a situation and understanding it. How many opportunities have been lost because assumptions were treated as reality? How many conversations ended before someone stopped to ask, "What else could be true?" This isn't an attack on emotions. It's a conversation about maturity, self-awareness, and learning how to separate what we feel from what's actually happening. Because sometimes the biggest obstacle to growth isn't what happened. It's the story we told ourselves about it.

24 Jun 2026 - 5 min
episode Name 5 DDG songs. artwork

Name 5 DDG songs.

Name 5 DDG Songs? That's the joke the internet can't seem to let go of. In this episode, I unpack why that question says more about us than it does about DDG. After watching his journey from the YouTube grind to music, business, fatherhood, Fashion Week appearances, Netflix opportunities, and life-changing success, I've never understood why people are so quick to dismiss what they've watched happen with their own eyes. This isn't about agreeing with every decision or loving every song. It's about recognizing work, respecting the process, and understanding why some people struggle to give credit when they've had a front-row seat to someone's rise. At what point does a joke become a refusal to acknowledge reality? And what can DDG's story teach the rest of us about betting on ourselves, building in public, and creating opportunities instead of waiting for them? Let's talk about it.

24 Jun 2026 - 5 min
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