33. Love to Hold It Down

37. Urgent versus Important

On this episode hosts Sangodare and Alexis distinguish what is urgent (time-based) from what is important (value-based) amid capitalist pressures. Using experiences around Black Feminist Film School production and podcast scheduling, they emphasize that clarity about the important attracts community support, while urgency can undermine rest and presence. They invite listeners to a virtual Juneteenth Patreon date night and take a listener question on addressing a loved one dating someone potentially harmful. * Urgent vs Important Explained * Scarcity and Stolen Time * Rest, Boundaries and ‘Passing It On’ For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship [https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship] Because love is living with purpose join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1 If you are in Durham, join us for Black Feminist Revival services the last Sunday of the month at Northstar Church of the Arts. Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.  RESOURCES  https://sangodare.podia.com/ [https://sangodare.podia.com/]  alexispauline.com [http://alexispauline.com]  sangodare.com [http://sangodare.com]  CONNECT WITH US Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/mobilehomecoming] Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/mobilehomecoming] Website [https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship] Produced by Wowow Podcasts [https://www.wowowpodcasts.com/]

36. We Go Together (Announcement)

If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534 [https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534] Join before June 19th (Juneteenth!) to be at our first virtual hangout session. #datenight You can also send us a tax-deductible donation via “text to give."   Send a text to this number: 53-555.  All you have to put in your message is “September.” Then press send. You will get a text back from Black Feminist Film School which is helping us make this and all our production more sustainable for us and consistent for you.  For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship [https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship] Because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1 [https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1] And connect with us on the channels below! RESOURCES  https://sangodare.podia.com/ [https://sangodare.podia.com/]  alexispauline.com [http://alexispauline.com/]  sangodare.com [http://sangodare.com/]  CONNECT WITH US Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/mobilehomecoming] Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/mobilehomecoming] Website [https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship] Produced by Wowow Podcasts [https://www.wowowpodcasts.com/]

35. Love To Shake It Up

In this episode hosts Sangodare and Alexis define what it does and doesn’t look like to spend intentional time together. They distinguish vacations, staycations and jaunts and how they draw distinction and boundaries between these experiences and work and family trips. They recount a recent jaunt involving deep conversations, play, and a near–EV battery mishap and cite Gwendolyn Brooks on blooming in the whirlwind. They answer a listener question about play and how levity builds agility, flexibility, and rediscovery.  * Jaunt Vacation Staycation * Calendar Boundaries * Anniversary Jaunt Reflections * Announcements and Farewell If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534 [https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534] For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship [https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship] Because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1 [https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1] Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.  RESOURCES  https://sangodare.podia.com/ [https://sangodare.podia.com/]  alexispauline.com [http://alexispauline.com]  sangodare.com [http://sangodare.com]  CONNECT WITH US Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/mobilehomecoming] Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/mobilehomecoming] Website [https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship] Produced by Wowow Podcasts [https://www.wowowpodcasts.com/]

34. I Love Every Age Of You

In this episode hosts Sangodare and Alexis explore non-linear time, queer time, and the practice of loving every age of oneself and one’s partner. Using a conflict about an expensive pillow after mattress shopping, they discuss feeling unseen, re-parenting each other, and how multiple selves show up in adult life, while clarifying boundaries and rejecting any justification of harm to minors. They offer three “North Stars” and answer a listener question about date night as ritual. They announce a May 24 Revival service in Durham and June cohort registration for Chrysalis Life Purpose Roadmap. * Love Every Age * Timeless Love Lessons * Intergenerational Orientation * Boundaries and Date Night as Ritual If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534 [https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534] For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship [https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship] Because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1 [https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1] Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.  RESOURCES  https://sangodare.podia.com/ [https://sangodare.podia.com/]  alexispauline.com [http://alexispauline.com]  sangodare.com [http://sangodare.com]  CONNECT WITH US Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/mobilehomecoming] Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/mobilehomecoming] Website [https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship] Produced by Wowow Podcasts [https://www.wowowpodcasts.com/]

33. Love to Hold It Down

In a live episode at North Star Church of the Arts in Durham, Sangodare and Alexis use a seafaring metaphor to explore what it means to be “anchored in love”. They unpack how preparation, resourcing and kindness can keep a “love ship” steady through change. They discuss identifying resilience strategies before you need them, discerning when to move versus be still, and remind us that being able to access our tools matters as much as the tools themselves. * Anchoring in Love and Forgiveness * Stress Responses and Resourcing * What’s Shared and What’s Kept Sacred If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534 [https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534] For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship [https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship] Because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1 [https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1] Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.  RESOURCES  https://sangodare.podia.com/ [https://sangodare.podia.com/]  alexispauline.com [http://alexispauline.com]  sangodare.com [http://sangodare.com]  CONNECT WITH US Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/mobilehomecoming] Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/mobilehomecoming] Website [https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship] Produced by Wowow Podcasts [https://www.wowowpodcasts.com/]