Shine A Light

Be Who You Came To Be with Tara Renze | #20

What if the life you truly want is waiting on the other side of permission? In this powerful conversation, Christine sits down with author, speaker, and emotional intelligence expert Tara Renze to unpack the idea that changed her life: "Be who you came to be." From leaving a successful corporate career to chasing childhood dreams and helping others uncover their "butterfly goals," Tara shares how self awareness, courage, and imperfect action can unlock a more fulfilling life. Together, they explore how identity evolves over time, why so many high achievers feel stuck, and how emotional intelligence may become the most important skill in the age of AI. In this episode: * Why most people live in the "permission gap" * How butterfly goals create confidence, growth, and connection * The surprising power of imperfect action * Why emotional intelligence matters more than ever * How to stop living for other people's expectations Whether your dream is writing a book, growing a tomato garden, learning to surf, or simply reconnecting with yourself, this episode is a reminder that transformation does not have to start with a giant leap. Sometimes it starts with one honest step toward the person you were always meant to become.

From Scientist to Safety Influencer with Cathy Pedrayes | #19

What if the key to protecting your family was hiding in plain sight? In this episode, Christine Miles sits down with Cathy Pedrayes, a former environmental scientist turned trusted safety advocate with millions of followers. Cathy shares how her career evolved from inspecting physical environments for hidden dangers to helping families navigate modern-day safety risks—especially in the digital world. Together, they explore how awareness, education, and simple shifts in thinking can empower parents to protect what matters most. In this episode, you'll learn: - How Cathy transformed her scientific background into a powerful platform for family safety - Why everyday environments—both physical and digital—pose unseen risks - Practical ways parents can stay informed and proactive without feeling overwhelmed If you've ever wondered how to better safeguard your home, your kids, and your peace of mind, this conversation is for you. Connect with Cathy Pedrayes: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themomsfriend TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@themomsfriend Website: https://www.themomsfriend.com Connect with Christine Miles: Website: https://thelisteningpath.com

The Leadership Skill No One Teaches: How Listening Changes Everything | # 18

On this episode of Shine a Light, host Christine Miles sits down with Nolan Hout, SVP of Growth at InfoPro Learning, to unpack how curiosity, calm decision-making, and deep listening shape exceptional leaders. From his early experiences navigating education gaps and confronting bias, to building scalable learning strategies for global organizations, Nolan shares how understanding people—not just processes—drives real impact. Together, they explore why many leaders mistake action for effectiveness, how emotional intelligence shows up in everyday conversations, and why slowing down may be the fastest way forward in today's AI-driven world. Key Takeaways * Listening is a leadership superpower: Not just hearing words, but actively seeking meaning and understanding. * Doing less can achieve more: Strategic restraint often outperforms reactive decision-making. * Curiosity fuels connection: Great leaders ask better questions—and stay open to perspectives different from their own. * Empathy can be learned: You don't need to feel everything to understand others—you need the tools to truly listen. If leadership is about unlocking potential, then it starts with one simple shift: choosing to understand before being understood. Lean in, listen deeper—and watch everything change. Host Christine Miles | https://thelisteningpath.com

Money Is Emotional, Not Logical | #17

What if your biggest money decisions aren't about money at all? In this episode of Shine A Light, Christine Miles sits down with financial behavioral specialist Kate Duffy to uncover the hidden psychology shaping how we earn, spend, and think about money. From childhood beliefs to subconscious patterns, Kate reveals why so many of us feel stuck financially—even when we "know what to do." Together, they explore how our earliest experiences quietly script our financial lives—and how awareness is the first step to rewriting that story. In this episode, you'll learn: * Why your relationship with money is formed earlier than you think * How subconscious beliefs can override logic and sabotage decisions * A simple way to uncover your own "money story" and take back control If you've ever wondered why money feels emotional, confusing, or even stressful—this conversation will shine a light on what's really going on beneath the surface. Because when you understand your story, you can finally change it. Host: Christine Miles – Founder of The Listening Path 🔗 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christinemiles Guest: Kate Duffy – Senior Financial Advisor & Financial Behavioral Specialist 🔗 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kateduffy

You're Choosing Love All Wrong with Coach Chris | #16

What if the way you choose relationships… is wired to fail? In this episode of Shine A Light, Christine Miles sits down with Dr. Chris (Coach Chris) to unpack the hidden patterns driving who we're attracted to, and why chemistry alone can lead us into the wrong relationships. Drawing from his background in medicine and emotional intelligence coaching, Chris breaks down attachment styles, nervous system responses, and the unconscious decisions shaping our love lives. Together, they explore how early experiences wire our relationship patterns, why we repeat the same cycles, and how to start choosing partners from a place of awareness instead of instinct. In this episode, you'll learn: * Why chemistry isn't love and can actually mislead you * The difference between anxious, avoidant, and secure attachment styles * The key questions to ask early that reveal long-term compatibility When you learn to listen to yourself differently, you stop repeating patterns and start choosing relationships that truly work. Host: Christine Miles – Founder of The Listening Path https://www.linkedin.com/in/christinemiles/ Guest: Dr. Chris (Coach Chris) – Relationship Coach & Emotional Intelligence Expert https://www.instagram.com/evolvedbychris/ [https://www.instagram.com/evolvedbychris/] https://www.evolvedbydrchris.com/ [https://www.evolvedbydrchris.com/]