So When Do I Take My Clothes Off?

Podcast by Susan Feldman and Phyllis Berger

English

Technology & science

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About So When Do I Take My Clothes Off?

We’re women who never stopped talking, questioning, debating — and occasionally challenging one another — about how to keep moving forward. We still love gathering, laughing, and talking things through, often with a glass of wine in hand, trying to make sense of what life has taught us so far… and what we’re still figuring out.Because the truth is, life doesn’t come with instructions — and the questions don’t stop just because you’ve lived a little.Which brings us to the title.So When Do I Take My Clothes Off? isn’t really about sex (though that may come up).It’s a metaphor for those moments when we quietly ask ourselves:When do I speak up?Let go?Start over?Try something new?Stop caring what everyone else thinks?Whether you’re navigating relationships, reinvention, loneliness, or simply wondering “Is this it… or is there more?” — you’re not alone. And if you need company, you can drop into a conversation with women who sound a lot like you — sharing stories, supporting one another, and telling the truth without pretending we’ve got it all figured out.We also know we don’t have to do this alone. So we bring in experts — from health and wellness to beauty, relationships, money, and longevity — people who help us understand our bodies, our choices, and ourselves without shame or hype.And yes, we love products. Smart ones. Thoughtful ones. Things that make life easier, healthier, and a little more fun. We are not invisible — we’re engaged, curious, and paying attention.So When Do I Take My Clothes Off? is a starting point — for conversations that begin with “When do I…?”We dig deep. We laugh (often at ourselves). We’re honest about where we are — and we invite you to be honest too.Because while some things change, our appetite for connection, clarity, and a good laugh absolutely hasn’t.Follow us at @getinthegroove1 and @sowhendoi on Instagram for more! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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29 episodes

So When Do I… Put My Phone Down and Be Present?

This week, we’re talking about something we all swear everyone else is worse at… but secretly know we’re guilty of too: our relationship with our phones. From scrolling at dinner to checking texts mid-conversation, we unpack how technology is quietly shaping our relationships, attention, sleep, loneliness, and even intimacy. We talk about why being present might be the ultimate luxury, the small “baby steps” we can take to reconnect with the people right in front of us, and the simple habits that can help us feel more intentional in our relationships again. If you’ve ever felt distracted, dismissed, or wondered when we all forgot how to just be with each other, this one’s for you. Don’t forget to follow for more: > Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/ > TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1 > YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1 Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis Berger Co-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer Ganus Co-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClelland Social Media Manager - Skylar Harrison Music - Ben Berger ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Yesterday - 24 min

So When Do I… Stop Asking for Permission and Trust Myself? With The Devil Wears Prada 2 Producer, Wendy Finerman

We are so excited to be kicking off Season 2! In this episode, we sit down with legendary producer Wendy Finerman--the producer behind iconic films like Forrest Gump and The Devil Wears Prada--for a conversation about trusting your instincts, staying true to your perspective, and learning how to take up space in rooms not always built for women. Wendy shares stories from building her career in Hollywood, championing projects no one believed in at first, and navigating success in a male-dominated industry without losing her authenticity. In this episode, we talk about intuition, resilience, confidence, creative longevity, and what happens when you stop waiting for permission to trust yourself. Don’t forget to follow for more: > Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/ > TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1 > YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1 Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis Berger Co-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer Ganus Co-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClelland Social Media Manager - Skylar Harrison Music - Ben Berger ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

17 May 2026 - 41 min

So What Would We Tell Our Younger Selves? With Our Daughters, Jenna and Jackie

Today we have an extra special episode as our season 1 finale... Instead of asking, “So when do I...?” we’re asking something a little deeper: What would we have told our younger selves? We’re talking about all the things we wish we knew sooner, like trusting our gut, worrying a little less, taking more risks, and not waiting for the “perfect” moment to start something new. And we brought in the most perfect guests to allow us to reflect: our daughters! Today, we are truly having a generational conversation with advice, reflection, and a little reality check because, honestly, there are a few moments when they’re teaching us. It turns out that we are, in fact, all still figuring it out at every age. This podcast is proudly sponsored by Caddis, eyewear designed for people who see life clearly at every age. Use code "SOWHENDOI20" at checkout to enjoy 20% until 5/16/26. Don’t forget to follow for more: > Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/ > TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1 > YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1 Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis Berger Co-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer Ganus Co-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClelland Social Media Manager - Skylar Harrison Music - Ben Berger ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

10 May 2026 - 38 min

So When Do I… Start Paying Attention to My Brain Health? With Dr. Deborah Blacker

Alzheimer’s is something so many people are affected by, yet so few truly understand until it touches their own life. In today’s episode, we’re breaking it all down—what it is, how it progresses, and answering the questions so many people have but don’t always know how to ask. We also talk about the quiet anxiety that can come with getting older, including wondering what’s normal, what’s not, and when it’s time to actually get checked. It’s an honest, eye-opening conversation designed to bring clarity, ease uncertainty, and offer a deeper sense of understanding around a topic that impacts so many people. If you'd like to lean more about Alzheimer's, Dr. Blacker recommends you visit the trusted website, www.alz.org, or contact the Alzheimer's Association's 24/7 free hotline at (800) 272-3900. This podcast is proudly sponsored by Caddis, eyewear designed for people who see life clearly at every age. Use code "SOWHENDOI20" at checkout to enjoy 20% until 5/16/26. Don’t forget to follow for more: > Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/ > TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1 > YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1 Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis Berger Co-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer Ganus Co-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClelland Social Media Manager - Skylar Harrison Music - Ben Berger ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

3 May 2026 - 49 min

Sound Bite 12: How a Little Act of Kindness Made Someone's Dream Come True

What if a simple conversation with a stranger could change someone’s life? In this mini episode, we share the story of a chance encounter on a flight: what started as someone just deciding to remove their AirPods to chat ended with a man fulfilling his life-long dream inspired by Frank Sinatra. It got us thinking about how often we default to distraction, and how small acts—starting a conversation, offering kindness, and being present—can have a lasting impact. This podcast is proudly sponsored by Caddis, eyewear designed for people who see life clearly at every age. Use code "SOWHENDOI20" at checkout to enjoy 20% until 5/16/26. Don’t forget to follow for more: > Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/ > TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1 > YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1 Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis Berger Co-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer Ganus Co-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClelland Social Media Manager - Skylar Harrison Music - Ben Berger ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

29 Apr 2026 - 7 min

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