Stories That Mend

Where Love Takes Root

This episode concludes the five-part audio series titled 'Stories That Mend,' narrated and produced by Lynette, in collaboration with her grandmother, Joan. It begins with this quote from Everything is a Story: Reclaiming the Power of Stories to Heal and Shape Our Lives by Kaitlin B. Curtice (2025) [https://bakerbookhouse.com/products/9781587436635_everything-is-a-story]: "This is the way life works, as our stories cycle and revolve around and around one another: We look to our ancestors and remember who we are; we live our lives for future generations, for healing that ripples across timelines and our limited understanding; and we do it all through our sacred connection to the lands and waters around us...Our stories can be, must be, expansive and future looking as we acknowledge everything we've come through to get to this moment." This episode reflects on personal and intergenerational stories of struggle, trauma, and healing. It ties together the narrative from past episodes that weaves through Lynette’s and Joan’s experiences, discussing Joan's painful past of giving up a baby for adoption and Lynette's journey of leaving a restrictive church community. This episode highlights their connection, emphasizing the impact of shared storytelling on their healing process. They explore topics such as motherhood, breaking cycles of trauma, and the importance of open dialogue and emotional expression. They share some of their intimate conversations over the years, discussing birth experiences, motherhood, and breaking societal norms that suppress women's stories. The episode concludes with a heartfelt exchange between Lynette and Joan, reflecting on how their relationship has brought healing and understanding, and encouraging others to share their stories openly.

Reunion and Reckoning

In this episode, Lynette shares her emotional journey of finding and reconnecting with her grandmother, Joan, who had given up her father for adoption as a teenager. Lynette and Joan recount their initial conversations, Lynette's process searching for Joan, and the poignant first meeting between this grandmother and granddaughter. The script also covers their evolving relationship, shared family traits, and Joan's reflections on her past and the impact of her decision. The narrative explores themes of family, identity, and healing, concluding with reflections on how their relationship has deepened over the years and how sharing their stories has brought clarity and connection across generations.

Salvation Lost

Lynette, the narrator and producer of this story, recounts her experience of being excommunicated from her childhood church and the impacts of her upbringing in that church community and subsequent excommunication on her life. She reflects on her strict and isolated religious upbringing, which included rigid rules, gender discrimination, and extensive indoctrination. Lynette discusses her gradual questioning of church teachings, ultimately leaving home and the church and community she grew up in. She describes transformative experiences such as attending a summer program, traveling abroad, and eventually finding connection through AcroYoga and other physical activities. Lynette also talks about the abusive relationships she encountered after leaving home and seeking therapy to break old patterns. The narrative concludes with Lynette's decision to search for her biological grandmother, driven by a desire to understand her past and find deeper connections.

Songs For Survival

In the second episode of this five-part miniseries, Joan shares her life story after being forced to give up her baby for adoption when she was 17 years old. The story delves into Joan's challenges as she struggles with mental health issues, including a nervous breakdown and hospitalizations, while pursuing music studies at Oberlin College. Despite severe challenges, Joan built a successful career in music and won prizes for her intricate and original weaving, while coping with addiction and mental health struggles. Her journey led her through marriage, motherhood, and a life controlled by alcoholism before she eventually found recovery in community with Alcoholics Anonymous. Joan achieved sobriety one day at a time, eventually returning to Montana to teach music and live a life deeply connected to nature and community where she grew up. Her story, compiled from recordings made with her friend Ian and narrated by her granddaughter Lynette, offers a profound look at intergenerational trauma and healing.

Innocence Taken

In this first episode of a five-part story miniseries, Lynette, the narrator and producer, explores her family's hidden history beginning with a poignant phone call to her grandmother. Joan shares the emotional and tragic story of being forced to give up her baby (Lynette’s father) for adoption in 1955. The narrative captures the societal stigma surrounding unwed mothers, the harsh practices of maternity homes, and Joan's emotional trauma. Lynette reflects on her own journey of understanding consent and sexual violence, drawing parallels with her grandmother's hardships. The episode highlights the complexities of adoption, the impact of historical contexts on personal lives, and the transformative power of reconnecting with lost family members.