Stroke It Guide Podcast

Ep 220 Therapy, Healing & Learning to Choose Yourself

42 min · 26. maj 2026
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Welcome back to another episode of The Stroke It Podcast with host Jenny Townsend. In this heartfelt and deeply honest conversation, Jenny sits down with therapist, entrepreneur, and founder of Roots Family Counseling, Allison Henley, to talk about healing, self-discovery, intentional relationships, parenting, mental health, and what it really takes to choose yourself during difficult seasons of life. After navigating divorce, single motherhood, entrepreneurship, and rebuilding her life from the ground up, Allison shares how she learned to stop abandoning herself and start creating a life that actually felt aligned, authentic, and fulfilling. Together, Jenny and Allison dive into the emotional realities so many women silently carry, including self-doubt, people pleasing, unhealthy relationships, burnout, anxiety, parenting pressure, and the fear that often comes with major life changes. In this powerful and practical conversation, they discuss: • How to rebuild your confidence after major life transitions • Why choosing yourself can feel so uncomfortable • The importance of movement, dance, and somatic healing • Meditation, journaling, and nervous system regulation • How to quiet negative self-talk and cognitive distortions • Active listening and healthier communication in relationships • Parenting without shame, criticism, or constant correction • Why therapy benefits everyone, not just people in crisis • The role community and supportive friendships play in healing • How intentional relationships affect your emotional well-being Allison also shares several simple but powerful therapeutic tools listeners can begin using immediately, including thought reframing exercises, breathwork, grounding techniques, somatic hugs, meditation practices, and strategies for becoming more intentional with both yourself and the people around you. One of the biggest takeaways from this episode: “When our children have their needs met… just being present is enough. You’re doing enough.” Whether you are navigating divorce, parenting challenges, entrepreneurship, anxiety, emotional healing, relationship struggles, or simply trying to reconnect with yourself again, this episode offers encouragement, practical tools, and a reminder that growth often starts with learning how to truly listen to yourself. Listen now and start creating a life that feels more aligned, intentional, peaceful, and authentically yours. To connect with Allison Henley or learn more about Roots Family Counseling: Allison Henley Roots Family Counseling https://www.rootsfamilycounseling.com 941.587.9594 info@rootsfamilycounseling.com [therapy@rootsfamilycounseling.com] Order Stroke It now at jennyaldaytownsend.com/book [http://jennyaldaytownsend.com/book]. Your order includes a signed copy, shipping and handling, and great Bonus items! Follow the Stroke It Guide on socials to stay connected and to get tips on how you too can get your STROKE on'! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jennyaldaytownsend/ [https://www.instagram.com/jennyaldaytownsend/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thestrokeitguide [https://www.facebook.com/thestrokeitguide] Check out more about Jenny Alday Townsend by visiting http://www.jennyaldaytownsend.com [http://www.jennyaldaytownsend.com] Did you know there are free downloads available on my website? Go to All Products | Jenny Alday Townsend [https://www.jennyaldaytownsend.com/category/all-products] and snag the 4 Ground Rules to Elevate your life. Planning your future? Develop your 1-3-5 and change your life path!

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episode Ep 220 Therapy, Healing & Learning to Choose Yourself artwork

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