The Money Myth Young Lawyers Believe

The Money Myth Young Lawyers Believe

Are young lawyers chasing the wrong definition of success? In this special replay episode of That One Lawyer Podcast, Neal Goldstein revisits one of his favorite conversations with attorney, entrepreneur, and author Kara Vaval. A young lawyer wanted to enter personal injury law after hearing stories about lawyers making hundreds of thousands—even millions—of dollars. But Kara explains why comparing yourself to someone else's income can become one of the biggest obstacles to building a satisfying legal career. Together, Neal and Kara discuss: • Why chasing someone else's version of success often leads to disappointment. • The danger of believing everything you hear about lawyer income. • Building a practice around your values instead of comparisons. • Why mindset often determines long-term success more than talent. • How honest self-reflection creates a more fulfilling legal career. Whether you're a law student, a new lawyer, or a seasoned attorney rethinking your career, this conversation offers a refreshing perspective on what success actually looks like.

I Almost Didn't Go... Here's Why I'm So Glad I Did

I Almost Didn't Go... In this first edition of That One Lawyer Unplugged, Neal Goldstein shares a personal story about almost skipping a New York Law School alumni event—and why showing up reminded him that relationships are built one conversation at a time. This isn't an episode about networking. It's about overcoming hesitation, reconnecting with people, and remembering that meaningful relationships don't stop being important just because we've reached a certain point in our careers.

She Was Diagnosed With MS and Stopped Waiting for "Someday"

When Alex Wilson was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis in 2016, she faced the same uncertainty that confronts many people receiving life-changing medical news. What happened next surprised even her. Rather than pulling back, Alex adopted a simple philosophy: why wait? In this episode, Alex joins Neal Goldstein to discuss her journey from private practice to senior in-house leadership, living with relapsing-remitting MS, and the mindset shift that changed how she approaches both work and life. They discuss disability disclosure in the legal profession, resilience, support networks, accessibility, perfectionism, networking, and the realities of building a legal career while managing an invisible condition. Alex also shares practical insights from her work on the Law Society Council representing disabled solicitors across England and Wales, including the progress being made and the challenges that remain. A thoughtful conversation about uncertainty, authenticity, and making the most of the time we have. Follow and subscribe to That One Lawyer Podcast for more conversations with remarkable people behind the legal profession.

Building Your Own Name When Your Father Is a Trial Lawyer

Nick Altopiedi grew up watching his father build a successful personal injury practice, but his own path to law was anything but direct. Before becoming a lawyer, Nick played college baseball, worked in finance at JP Morgan Chase, bartended in New York City, and attended law school at night while working full time during the day. In this conversation with Neal Goldstein, Nick shares how those experiences shaped the lawyer he is becoming today. They discuss building an identity inside a family legacy, earning trust with clients, the value of face-to-face relationships, and the realities of practicing personal injury and medical malpractice law The episode explores work ethic, mentorship, trial advocacy, and what it means to develop your own voice while learning from those who came before you. Follow and subscribe to That One Lawyer Podcast for more conversations about the people behind the profession. Watch The Conversation : https://www.youtube.com/@ThatOneLawyerPod [https://www.youtube.com/@ThatOneLawyerPod] Contact Nick Altopiedi: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicholas-altopiedi-esq-3b3ba1149/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicholas-altopiedi-esq-3b3ba1149/] OR https://www.pilawyer.com/ [https://www.pilawyer.com/]

Lawyers Are More Connected Than Ever. So Why Do They Feel So Alone?

Michelle Stern never wanted clients. She went to law school intending to work in advocacy and nonprofit leadership, not traditional legal practice. That path eventually led her to the New York State Academy of Trial Lawyers, where she has spent more than two decades building one of the largest trial lawyer organizations in the state. Today the Academy serves more than 6,000 members, but Michelle believes one of the biggest challenges facing lawyers has very little to do with law. It's loneliness. In this episode, Neal Goldstein and Michelle discuss how COVID changed the profession, why younger lawyers are struggling to build meaningful professional relationships, and what happens when convenience replaces connection. They talk about mentorship, networking, referrals, client communication, soft skills, lawyer development, and the importance of building a community instead of simply building a practice. Michelle also shares the story behind the Academy's growth, her thoughts on the future of legal education, and the advice she gives lawyers who want to stand out in a crowded profession. This is a conversation about legal careers, professional identity, and the relationships that shape both. Subscribe to That One Lawyer Podcast and follow for future episodes. NEW YORK STATE ACADEMY OF TRIAL LAWYERS [https://trialacademy.org/]