The Baddest Bitch in the Building

Your anger towards men is quietly marginalizing you

🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon [https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding]! 📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here [https://payhip.com/b/HMZam], shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon [https://mybook.to/AmRLBu] or get a PDF or EPUB file [https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy]. Free preview available here [https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg]. Female rage can move mountains. As women, we have so much to be angry about, and rightfully so. However, many women get caught in the trap of channelling their anger towards men. Don't get me wrong, that anger is justified. But anger without an outlet becomes, at best, resentment, and worst, self-destruction. In this episode, I'll help you unlock a new level of consciousness about your anger and how it could be rooted in things you never thought of. I highly suggest you also listen to my episode "7 ways to make your feminine rage work for you" on Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/episode/651lTZKTfcXpCSnSCAniBt?si=IPqpFKPdTvSI1n75fCqw1Q], Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-baddest-bitch-in-the-building/id1746633006?i=1000745088598], or YouTube [https://youtu.be/bJwgzqbV8Rc]. Timestamps: * 0:00 Intro * 2:26 The power of female rage * 8:35 The truth about anger & why we repress it * 14:48 A new level of consciousness about anger * 21:21 The antidote to anger If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________ * 🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/]: @baddestbinthebldg * ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&_r=1] @baddest.b.in.the.bldg * ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw]💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com * 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon [https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding] * 💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4], a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

“Treat people how you want to be treated” is a scam

🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon [https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding]! 📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here [https://payhip.com/b/HMZam], shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon [https://mybook.to/AmRLBu] or get a PDF or EPUB file [https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy]. Free preview available here [https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg]. This week's episode is a bit counterintuitive. Every culture and religion (yikes) has a variation of "The Golden Rule": Treat people how you want to be treated. This principle has brainwashed many women into a false sense of fairness and reciprocity with the world. It keeps us running in a hamster wheel, waiting for a reward that never materializes. Worst of all, it makes us oblivious to the way the world really operates. Listen to find out how The Golden Rule may have damaged your relationships, and four new rules to replace it with. Timestamps: * 0:00 Intro * 2:18 Why The Golden Rule is so harmful * 11:55 You're prob doing too much * 20:56 The four PLATINUM rules If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________ * 🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/]: @baddestbinthebldg * ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&_r=1] @baddest.b.in.the.bldg * ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw]💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com * 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon [https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding] * 💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4], a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

The ultimate revenge: The psychological power of being unbothered

🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon [https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding]! 📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here [https://payhip.com/b/HMZam], shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon [https://mybook.to/AmRLBu] or get a PDF or EPUB file [https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy]. Free preview available here [https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg]. Your compulsion to argue, get the last word, or make someone "pay" for what they did to you is a projection. You think, "If I were in their shoes, I would've never done that." Well you're not in their janky Crocs. In this episode, I'll discuss: * Why people want to trigger you to begin with * How to spot energy vultures * How to pull an uno reverse on them * Why being unbothered is the best form of revenge * Why reacting to an energy vulture is dangerous Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 2:49 Why people want to trigger you 6:08 A textbook example of an energy vulture 12:37 The psychological power of being unbothered 15:58 How to be unbothered 20:50 The power of ambiguity If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________ * 🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/]: @baddestbinthebldg * ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&_r=1] @baddest.b.in.the.bldg * ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw]💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com * 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon [https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding] * 💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4], a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Girly law of power #34: Never argue, make them look stupid instead

🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon [https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding]! 📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here [https://payhip.com/b/HMZam], shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon [https://mybook.to/AmRLBu] or get a PDF or EPUB file [https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy]. Free preview available here [https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg]. Most of us are so caught up in arguing, trying to get the last word, or shattering someone's ego that we fail to realize how GOOFY we look. Not to mention arguing and trying to be understood are forms of emotional labour. So cut it out. Besides, why would you want to shatter someone's ego when you can trigger it? In this episode, you'll understand that real power is making your opponent look goofy, often without saying a word. I'll discuss: - Two things we need to unlearn - Why there's no such thing as winning an argument - The real reason people want you to argue with them - A crazy example of how I implemented this law - The silent, Machiavellian strategy of winning ✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 2:08 Unlearning the crap (#1) 7:58 Unlearning the crap (#2) 17:16 The law in the wild (and I mean WILD) 23:19 What this means for you (#1) 30:17 What this means for you (#2) 34:59 Exceptions & final thoughts If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________ * 🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/]: @baddestbinthebldg * ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&_r=1] @baddest.b.in.the.bldg * ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw]💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com * 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon [https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding] * 💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4], a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

The dark side of "sprinkle sprinkle"

🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon [https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding]! 📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here [https://payhip.com/b/HMZam], shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon [https://mybook.to/AmRLBu] or get a PDF or EPUB file [https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy]. Free preview available here [https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg]. Over the last few years, Shera Seven's content has taken social media by storm. Her "sprinkle sprinkle" philosophy preaches that women should be gold diggers and marry a man solely based on his ability to financially provide. Don't get me wrong, I love the woman and agree with most of what she says. However, there are some flaws in her advice that at best, get bastardized and misinterpreted, and at worst, lead to deeply engrained patriarchy. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 2:00 Spending money on someone is a cop out 8:42 Reality isn't real, it's mediated 13:34 The 9 to 5 trap 19:36 The femininity trap 26:31 The dark side of sprinkle sprinkle 32:31 Do all men cheat? 38:57 What should we do? If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________ * 🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/]: @baddestbinthebldg * ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&_r=1] @baddest.b.in.the.bldg * ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw]💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com * 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon [https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding] * 💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4], a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays #sprinklesprinkle #sheraseven #wizardliz #patriarchy #capitalism #itgirl ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.