The Good Stuff

Let’s Talk About ... Turning 31: Grief Is Messy, Growing Up Is Weird, and Learning What Other People Think of You Can Be Hard

This might be the most chaotic episode of The Good Stuff yet. It’s Caitlin’s 31st birthday tomorrow, so she asked 31 people in her life to give her the first word or phrase that comes to mind when they think of her. The answers cover a wide range of all things Caitlin. Some words come up more than once, some answers make her cry, others make her laugh, and one in particular sends her into a self-reflective spiral. But you don’t get to any of that before Caitlin gives you her “some good stuff” since the last time you heard from her, some standout moments from her 30th year, and a 20-minute vulnerable tangent about how she handled the very recent loss of her grandfather. This episode is a reminder that sometimes life is messy, but it somehow all makes sense. Hug your grandparents if they are still here to hug. Until next time! Timestamps: 00:00 Coffee spill + chaotic start 00:38 Why this episode feels different 01:11 Turning 31 & asking 31 people to describe me 02:24 My grandpa passed away this week 05:00 The fundraising story that restored my faith in asking 08:50 Learning to ask people for support 10:20 Grief feels different every time 12:00 Why I chose not to fly home 16:00 Being highly empathetic while grieving 20:00 Sleeping 18 hours after loss 21:15 The story about my grandpa & “Bruce” 23:50 Biggest moments from my 30th year 28:20 Showing my horse Annie & major life highlights 33:20 The 31 words people used to describe me 01:12:50 Final reflections before turning 31 Follow The Good Stuff on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/the.good.stuff.podcast/?hl=en] Follow Caitlin on TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@the.good.stuff.podcast] Follow the Good Word Co on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/the.good.word.co/?hl=en] Watch on YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@The.Good.Stuff.Podcast] Listen on Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/01DOIUQxrr7Ih8N6lDA72C] Listen on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-good-stuff/id1765613978] Check out The Good Word Co Website [https://www.thegoodwordonline.com/]Hammer + Clay Website [https://www.hammerandclay.com/] Kind Heart Co. Etsy Store [https://www.etsy.com/shop/KindHeartCompany]

Let’s Talk About … Passion: When it drives you and when it drains you

You should have passion in all things, but it should never be the only thing. Passion is a gift of being human. When our heart is involved in something, it elevates the entire experience. Therefore, passion shows up often – like in work, life, and romantic relationships. We need it. And we also need to know when it’s taking over. In this episode, Caitlin talks about passion in those three areas (work, life, and romantic relationships). Because of her work with nonprofits for the last decade, she has seen some of the most passionate professionals available. She tells stories of when that has gone well and when it has not. She cautions people about the risk of monetizing their passion. Seems ironic coming from her, huh? Caitlin also talks about the value of having passion, hobbies, and interests. And, she closes out the discussion by asking the question: “How important is passion in romantic relationships, really?” Her answer to that and her opinions on passion + work, and passion + life might surprise you. In Some Good Stuff, you hear about a lot of birthdays and yearning for espresso martinis. Caitlin also has a real-time moment with her anxiety about halfway through. It’s a good one, people – don’t miss it. Timestamps: 0:00 - Introduction 0:22 - Welcome Back + “Some Good Stuff” 2:47 - Birthday Weekends, Themes & Pickleball Tournaments 7:31 - Friends, New Homes & Espresso Martini Dreams 9:28 - Let’s Talk About Passion 10:01 - Taylor Swift, Creativity & Storytelling 14:19 - The “Creative Cloud” Feeling 17:27 - Doing Things Because You Love Them 21:15 - Why Passion Matters in Work 24:48 - Don’t Monetize Every Passion 27:20 - Passion, Nonprofits & Emotional Burnout 35:35 - You Can’t Save the Whole World Alone 41:23 - Healing Before Turning Pain Into Purpose 46:37 - Passion Outside of Work 49:09 - Passion in Relationships Isn’t Enough 51:03 - “Pick Your Husband Like Your Life Depends On It” 53:19 - Final Thoughts on Passion Links: Follow The Good Stuff on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/the.good.stuff.podcast/?hl=en] Follow Caitlin on TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@the.good.stuff.podcast] Follow the Good Word Co on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/the.good.word.co/?hl=en] Watch on YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@The.Good.Stuff.Podcast] Listen on Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/01DOIUQxrr7Ih8N6lDA72C] Listen on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-good-stuff/id1765613978] Check out The Good Word Co Website [https://www.thegoodwordonline.com/]Hammer + Clay Website [https://www.hammerandclay.com/] Kind Heart Co. Etsy Store [https://www.etsy.com/shop/KindHeartCompany]

Let’s Talk About ... Comparison: Heal your relationship with this word

I think the word comparison gets an unfair rap. This episode is my attempt to help you see how comparison can be good. I talk about how seeing someone with something you want doesn’t have to make you feel bad, it can make you feel empowered. Empowered with the knowledge that it’s possible. Your frame of mind determines whether comparing what you have versus what you want makes you feel bad about yourself or like you too can achieve something. I also revisit some aspects from my very first episode “Let’s Talk About … Timing” when I remind my audience that your path is yours and their path is theirs. Usually, comparing your life to someone else’s is like comparing apples to oranges. There is no point. And, you never know what someone else might be dealing with behind the scenes. We all have difficult things going on – things other people may know nothing about. The thesis statement here is that comparison is usually useless, but when you find yourself doing it, you can make it something that makes you feel capable rather than crappy. As always, we chat about some good stuff going on. The thesis there – Artemis II is healing world-wide wounds. Timestamps: 00:00 - Intro + chaotic start00:15 - Welcome to The Good Stuff 01:15 - Today’s topic: Comparison (different perspective) 01:34 - Why comparison gets a bad reputation 02:42 - “Some Good Stuff” + Artemis II 04:29 - Perspective shift from space 06:09 - Why moments like this matter 11:03 - Emotional reactions & social media 12:22 - NASA teamwork moment 15:09 - Life updates + transition 18:33 - Why comparison isn’t all bad 20:57 - Social media & comparison traps 23:18 - Confidence, self-awareness & mindset 25:38 - Stop comparing life timelines 27:06 - You never see the full picture 30:35 - Social media vs reality examples 35:18 - Where comparison shows up daily 39:29 - Comparing yourself to friends 43:03 - Family influence on confidence 47:51 - Growing up being compared 50:47 - Why comparison is subjective 53:09 - Key takeaways on comparison 54:59 - Outro Follow The Good Stuffon Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/the.good.stuff.podcast/?hl=en] Follow Caitlin on TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@the.good.stuff.podcast] Follow the Good Word Co on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/the.good.word.co/?hl=en] Watch on YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@The.Good.Stuff.Podcast] Listen on Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/01DOIUQxrr7Ih8N6lDA72C] Listen on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-good-stuff/id1765613978] Check out The Good Word Co Website [https://www.thegoodwordonline.com/]

Let’s Talk About … Confidence in the Workplace

Do you feel silenced from 9 to 5? Your professional life can be quite vulnerable. For most people, it’s how you make your money to be able to live whatever kind of life you want. We rely on it to provide for ourselves and our families. So, of course it matters to us. But it also can be a source of stress, discouragement, and self-doubt. Whether you suffer from imposter syndrome, you had a crappy boss at a time who made you doubt yourself, or you just need a little pep in your day, this episode is for you. You probably won’t be surprised to learn Caitlin isn’t someone who struggles with stage fright or speaking to a crowd. And because of the wonderful mentorship she had early in her career, she’s always felt like she belongs in the rooms she finds herself in. Even if that’s with a network executive at age 20. Caitlin walks the audience through tangible things they can do to feel more confident at work. She gives tips on four areas: public speaking, speaking up in meetings, doing new tasks, and cold calling/emailing. If you are not currently working, this episode is still for you. Caitlin is sure to explain how to translate these tips to the home, in a job search, or serving as a volunteer position. You will learn what piece of feedback she has been getting since high school, the funny thing she said in her first job review, and hear her ad-lib as a salesperson from northern Oregon. Don’t ask! There are so many takeaways from this conversation, you might want to start taking notes. Timestamp Highlights: 00:00 - Intro & Episode Overview 01:28 - Life Updates & Personal Wins 08:01 - Career Wins & Growth Moments 11:44 - Why Confidence at Work Matters 13:00 - The Mindset Shift: You Are Valuable 15:04 - Building Confidence from the Ground Up 17:16 - Confidence Beyond Traditional Jobs 20:11 - Becoming an Expert in Your Role 22:45 - Why Small Tasks Matter More Than You Think 24:03 - Public Speaking Tips for Confidence 28:13 - Structuring Notes for Better Delivery 30:53 - Body Language & Presence 31:25 - How Appearance Impacts Confidence 33:30 - Speaking Up in Meetings with Confidence 35:53 - Respecting Your Role & Contributions 37:00 - Building Trust & Credibility at Work 40:00 - Mentorship & Early Career Lessons 44:21 - What If You Don’t Feel Confident? 45:36 - Handling Pressure & Thinking on Your Feet 46:30 - What to Say When You Don’t Know the Answer 47:30 - Answering with Confidence & Following Up 48:30 - Final Thoughts on Confidence at Work Follow The Good Stuff on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/the.good.stuff.podcast/?hl=en] Follow Caitlin on TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@the.good.stuff.podcast] Follow the Good Word Co on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/the.good.word.co/?hl=en] Watch on YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@The.Good.Stuff.Podcast] Listen on Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/01DOIUQxrr7Ih8N6lDA72C] Listen on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-good-stuff/id1765613978] Check out The Good Word Co Website [https://www.thegoodwordonline.com/]

Let’s Talk About … What Almost Was: I am Glad These Things Didn’t Work Out

When something doesn’t go according to our plan, our first instinct is usually frustration, confusion, or disappointment. But, oftentimes, after the dust settles we realize by that thing not working out, something better was able to occur. Where we once felt disappointment, we now feel gratitude. Our lives are filled with big and little moments like this. So, in this episode, Caitlin talks about things that almost happened in her life. And how those “nos” put her on a path or in a situation that she cannot imagine living without. She recounts these events with a fresh perspective, while still detailing the way she felt in those moments of disappointment. She did not get into her dream college, and it’s one of the best things to ever happen to her. Maybe you also had to throw away pounds of college merch, or maybe you are like her best friend who swears if she was president of our sorority 10 years ago, she wouldn’t have her newborn daughter today. No matter your story, this episode is relatable to you. We’ve all been there. Enjoy and then share it with a friend!  Follow The Good Stuff on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/the.good.stuff.podcast/?hl=en] Follow Caitlin on TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@the.good.stuff.podcast] Follow the Good Word Co on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/the.good.word.co/?hl=en] Watch on YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@The.Good.Stuff.Podcast] Listen on Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/01DOIUQxrr7Ih8N6lDA72C] Listen on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-good-stuff/id1765613978] Check out The Good Word Co Website [https://www.thegoodwordonline.com/]