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Hilling Through Loving in a F***ed Up World With Dean Spade

53 min · 14. maj 2025
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Lindsay and Ilyse speak with activist and author of "Love in a Fucked Up World," Dean Spade on the healing power of relationships and how to have better ones. Dean shares all he has learned about relationships through his own hilling journey and being in activist spaces. They touch on each of their favorite topics including app culture, grief, attachment, and sexuality. You don't want to miss out on Dean's wisdom and Lindsay's tears. Find his book at your local independent bookstore and find him on social media at @spade.dean You can find your hosts on socials @thehillingjourney and on Beyonce's Internet [http://www.thehillingjourney.com]

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Hilling Through Understanding Attachment Theory (and Adapting for Modern Dating)

As Lindsay is indisposed this week, Ilyse takes to the mic to yap about Attachment Theory. She gives a beginner's rundown of Attachment Theory and how it helps us understand ourselves in relationships. She can't drop a theory without a hot take. She calls out the tiktok dating coaches to bring to light what they're getting wrong iabout the anxious/avoidant dance in early dating and why we need to adjust how we understand attachment in relation to early dating and the digital age. If you want to learn more about attachment theory, Ilyse recommends: "The Power of Discord" by Ed Tronick and Claudia M. Gold "Secure Relating" by Sue Marriott and Ann Kelley "The Power of Attachment" by Diane Poole Heller Learn more about The Hilling Journey HERE [https://www.thehillingjourney.com/]. Follow us on Instagram @TheHillingJourney.

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