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Why Women Feel So Off in Midlife | Anxiety, ADHD & Alcohol with Dr. Mandy Diamond

51 min · 26. maj 2026
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What happens when the woman everyone thinks has it together… secretly feels overwhelmed, overstimulated, anxious, scattered, and exhausted? In this episode of The Iconic Midlife, Roxy Manning sits down with clinical forensic psychologist Dr. Mandy Diamond for a smart, honest, and deeply relatable conversation about the patterns many high-functioning women quietly struggle with in midlife. From anxiety and undiagnosed ADHD to the complicated role alcohol can play in coping, this episode explores why so many women suddenly feel “off” during perimenopause and midlife — and why those feelings are often misunderstood. Dr. Diamond shares insights from years of clinical experience working with anxiety, ADHD, addiction, trauma, and behavioral patterns, including: * What ADHD actually looks like in high-functioning adult women * Why so many women are misdiagnosed with anxiety alone * The connection between overwhelm, attention, and alcohol use * How “wine to unwind” can become a coping mechanism * Why successful women often hide their struggles so well * The nervous system patterns many women don’t recognize in themselves * What it actually takes to break unhealthy coping loops Plus, Roxy and Dr. Diamond play a revealing rapid-fire game exploring the midlife behaviors women pretend are “normal”… but may point to something deeper underneath. Come back for that on Thursday. This episode is thoughtful, eye-opening, validating, and full of the kinds of conversations women are craving more of right now. 🎧 If this episode resonates, follow the show, leave a review, and share it with a woman who needs to hear it. Join the Inner Circle: https://the-iconic-midlife-with-roxy-manning.kit.com/3433416614 [https://the-iconic-midlife-with-roxy-manning.kit.com/3433416614] Want bold guests, unfiltered stories, and iconic midlife insight in your inbox? Listen & Follow The Iconic Midlife is where smart, stylish women over 40 come to rebrand midlife on their terms. New episodes every Tuesday. Bonus game episode drops on Thursdays. Tap “Follow” so you never miss a moment. Listen on: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-iconic-midlife-with-roxy-manning/id1817484587 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-iconic-midlife-with-roxy-manning/id1817484587] Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4FRDzq3AalXaqfpfWq7dlm?si=7e91db12ba1f4bfa [https://open.spotify.com/show/4FRDzq3AalXaqfpfWq7dlm] Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ff905ad8-332f-430e-a040-ce1ba5047483/the-iconic-midlife-with-roxy-manning [https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ff905ad8-332f-430e-a040-ce1ba5047483/the-iconic-midlife-with-roxy-manning] Let’s Connect Social media: @theiconicmidlife (show) | @redcarpetroxy (host) • YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theiconicmidlife [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGk0JYq3aGyTMmTjtrUl2eA] Free Download: 5 Power Moves Every Midlife Woman Should Be Making This high-impact worksheet is your shortcut to owning your next chapter—on your terms. Grab your free worksheet here [https://preview.kit-mail3.com/click/dpheh0hzhm/aHR0cHM6Ly90aGUtaWNvbmljLW1pZGxpZmUtd2l0aC1yb3h5LW1hbm5pbmcua2l0LmNvbS81LWZyZWUtcG93ZXItbW92ZXM=] Need more energy, fewer symptoms, and a better night’s sleep? I'm obsessed with Hop Box, a women-founded supplement brand designed for our midlife needs. Use code ROXY for 10% off sitewide. Shop Hop Box now [https://preview.kit-mail3.com/click/dpheh0hzhm/aHR0cHM6Ly9ob3Bib3gubGlmZS8_ZHRfaWQ9MjY2MjAzNg==] If you’ve ever wanted real data on what’s actually happening inside your body, I can’t recommend Function Health enough. It’s one of the most comprehensive ways to track your biomarkers, hormone health, metabolic markers, and long-term wellness—without guesswork or overwhelm. This is about informed choices, not fear. If you’re curious, you can join here: Function Health [https://preview.kit-mail3.com/click/dpheh0hzhm/aHR0cHM6Ly9teS5mdW5jdGlvbmhlYWx0aC5jb20vc2lnbnVwP19zYWFzcXVhdGNoPVJNQU5OSU5HMTEmY29kZT1STUFOTklORzEx]

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episode Why Women Feel So Off in Midlife | Anxiety, ADHD & Alcohol with Dr. Mandy Diamond artwork

Why Women Feel So Off in Midlife | Anxiety, ADHD & Alcohol with Dr. Mandy Diamond

What happens when the woman everyone thinks has it together… secretly feels overwhelmed, overstimulated, anxious, scattered, and exhausted? In this episode of The Iconic Midlife, Roxy Manning sits down with clinical forensic psychologist Dr. Mandy Diamond for a smart, honest, and deeply relatable conversation about the patterns many high-functioning women quietly struggle with in midlife. From anxiety and undiagnosed ADHD to the complicated role alcohol can play in coping, this episode explores why so many women suddenly feel “off” during perimenopause and midlife — and why those feelings are often misunderstood. Dr. Diamond shares insights from years of clinical experience working with anxiety, ADHD, addiction, trauma, and behavioral patterns, including: * What ADHD actually looks like in high-functioning adult women * Why so many women are misdiagnosed with anxiety alone * The connection between overwhelm, attention, and alcohol use * How “wine to unwind” can become a coping mechanism * Why successful women often hide their struggles so well * The nervous system patterns many women don’t recognize in themselves * What it actually takes to break unhealthy coping loops Plus, Roxy and Dr. Diamond play a revealing rapid-fire game exploring the midlife behaviors women pretend are “normal”… but may point to something deeper underneath. Come back for that on Thursday. This episode is thoughtful, eye-opening, validating, and full of the kinds of conversations women are craving more of right now. 🎧 If this episode resonates, follow the show, leave a review, and share it with a woman who needs to hear it. Join the Inner Circle: https://the-iconic-midlife-with-roxy-manning.kit.com/3433416614 [https://the-iconic-midlife-with-roxy-manning.kit.com/3433416614] Want bold guests, unfiltered stories, and iconic midlife insight in your inbox? Listen & Follow The Iconic Midlife is where smart, stylish women over 40 come to rebrand midlife on their terms. New episodes every Tuesday. Bonus game episode drops on Thursdays. Tap “Follow” so you never miss a moment. Listen on: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-iconic-midlife-with-roxy-manning/id1817484587 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-iconic-midlife-with-roxy-manning/id1817484587] Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4FRDzq3AalXaqfpfWq7dlm?si=7e91db12ba1f4bfa [https://open.spotify.com/show/4FRDzq3AalXaqfpfWq7dlm] Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ff905ad8-332f-430e-a040-ce1ba5047483/the-iconic-midlife-with-roxy-manning [https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ff905ad8-332f-430e-a040-ce1ba5047483/the-iconic-midlife-with-roxy-manning] Let’s Connect Social media: @theiconicmidlife (show) | @redcarpetroxy (host) • YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theiconicmidlife [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGk0JYq3aGyTMmTjtrUl2eA] Free Download: 5 Power Moves Every Midlife Woman Should Be Making This high-impact worksheet is your shortcut to owning your next chapter—on your terms. Grab your free worksheet here [https://preview.kit-mail3.com/click/dpheh0hzhm/aHR0cHM6Ly90aGUtaWNvbmljLW1pZGxpZmUtd2l0aC1yb3h5LW1hbm5pbmcua2l0LmNvbS81LWZyZWUtcG93ZXItbW92ZXM=] Need more energy, fewer symptoms, and a better night’s sleep? I'm obsessed with Hop Box, a women-founded supplement brand designed for our midlife needs. Use code ROXY for 10% off sitewide. Shop Hop Box now [https://preview.kit-mail3.com/click/dpheh0hzhm/aHR0cHM6Ly9ob3Bib3gubGlmZS8_ZHRfaWQ9MjY2MjAzNg==] If you’ve ever wanted real data on what’s actually happening inside your body, I can’t recommend Function Health enough. It’s one of the most comprehensive ways to track your biomarkers, hormone health, metabolic markers, and long-term wellness—without guesswork or overwhelm. This is about informed choices, not fear. If you’re curious, you can join here: Function Health [https://preview.kit-mail3.com/click/dpheh0hzhm/aHR0cHM6Ly9teS5mdW5jdGlvbmhlYWx0aC5jb20vc2lnbnVwP19zYWFzcXVhdGNoPVJNQU5OSU5HMTEmY29kZT1STUFOTklORzEx]

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