Why Women Over 40 Feel Stuck: Nervous System, Burnout & Somatic Healing | Lisa Murphy
What if the reason your goals don't stick isn't willpower, but that your body never felt safe enough to step into them?
In this episode of The Joy Experiment Podcast, Roberta Ravella and Lisa Murphy, a vibrant living coach, explore how body awareness, somatic healing, and nervous system regulation can open the door to clarity, joy, and purpose, especially for women navigating midlife transitions.
They unpack the hidden barriers that keep women from living fully now, like disconnecting from the body’s signals and letting fear unconsciously shape decisions and goals. They explore a gentler, more counterintuitive path that moves away from constant striving and toward ease, presence, and embodied clarity.
Lisa introduces her Big Five visioning process, a heart-centered practice designed to help create a life aligned with how you want to feel and experience each moment.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
* Why goals set from the head (mindset) rarely stick and what to do instead
* Lisa's Big Five Visioning process: a somatic approach to clarity and purpose
* A live body scan practice you can do right along with them
* How 80% of autoimmune diseases are diagnosed in women and what those signals
* The nervous system's role in why high-achieving women feel stuck
* What "vibrant living" actually means after 40, beyond anti-aging culture
If you’ve ever felt disconnected from your desires, exhausted by striving, or weighed down by expectations, this episode offers a different way forward: a return to self, grounded in compassion, presence, and a renewed trust in your body’s wisdom.
About the guest:
Lisa Murphy is a Vibrant Living Coach who specializes in helping women move beyond hustle culture and into embodied, joyful living. Her work blends health coaching, somatic practices, and anti-hustle visioning to help entrepreneurs align with what their bodies actually want.
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The Joy Experiment Podcast is where success and soul finally meet. Roberta Ravella blends heart and science to help women entrepreneurs discover how alignment becomes action, and how success becomes something you feel, not just something you chase.