Controlling behaviours

Life updates | Interview with a client #4 (skinny Santa)

Jessica mentions some surprising life updates including that she now has a boyfriend and her instagram account got suspended.  Then she sits down to interview another of her clients who she affectionately dubs "skinny Santa" due to his tendency to bring many presents to his bookings.  Skinny Santa explains what it was like going to see an escort after many years of no sexual contact or intimacy.

Stalker update | Interview with a client #3 (farmer guy)

Jessica shares an update on her stalker situation and then sits down for a chat with one of her clients.  Her client shares his experience as a first time user of the service as an older gentleman, following a very traditional upbringing into adulthood where sex was considered a taboo topic.

Controlling behaviours

In this episode, Jessica breaks down a list with real-life examples of some of the controlling behaviours that may be exhibited by clients of sex workers.  She explains how these behaviours can escalate or repeat, leading to the "straw that breaks the camel's back" and the negative fallout that the escort needs to consider when cutting off a client.

Clients hate when sex workers do this!

Jessica shares some brutal truths about the practices and habits of some sex workers that clients hate.  These include a lack of preparation and professionalism - e.g. forgetting necessary supplies to work - through to fake photos.

Sex workers are marginalised

Jessica explains how the celebrity and influencer status afforded to some sex workers risks the marginalisation of sex workers being believed and actioned upon.  If some sex workers are being flown first class around the world, invited onto commercial television stations, offered book deals, etc, it's really hard to convince the general public that sex workers are often being treated prejudicially and face significant struggles.