The Matter Mentality Podcast

The Role of Coaching in Closing the Gap | Special Guest Feature Coach Kav

Coach Kav is a 6x Olympic Coach whose work extends far beyond the platform of elite sport. Known for his ability to develop high performers under pressure, Kav has spent years refining the systems, standards, and leadership principles that shape world-class athletes, while also translating those same principles into business, leadership, and organisational performance. In this episode with Ben, the conversation explored the role coaching plays across every stage of an individual’s development, particularly in young athletes, where guidance, structure, and environment can dramatically influence not only performance, but identity, confidence, and long-term direction. Kav shared insights into the responsibility coaches carry in helping close the gap between potential and execution, not simply through technical knowledge, but through leadership, communication, accountability, and the creation of systems that allow people to rise to higher standards. Drawing from decades of experience at the Olympic level, the discussion also unpacked how high-performance athletic principles directly apply to business environments. Topics ranged from culture building and leadership under pressure, through to decision making, team alignment, consistency, and the importance of developing resilient individuals capable of operating at a high level across long periods of time. Rather than viewing sport and business as separate worlds, Kav’s philosophy highlights the overlap between elite performance, personal development, and leadership, reinforcing the idea that the foundations of success are often built through coaching environments that demand responsibility, adaptability, and continual growth.

The Art of Coaching Isn’t Programming | Phil Gerard on Behaviour, Standards and Real Coaching

This episode breaks down what coaching actually is, and where most people get it wrong. We’re joined by Phil Gerard, Head Coach of Altered HP and part of the PreScript Nutrition team, to unpack the difference between writing training programs and actually coaching a human being. The conversation moves beyond sets and reps and into the full scope of what a coach is responsible for. Environment, behaviour, psychology, and the standards a client lives by across their entire day. We talk through the shift from coaching “buckets” to coaching individuals, why over-standardisation is failing people, and how real progress is built through competence, not pressure. This is a conversation for coaches who want to do the job properly, and for athletes who want to understand what good coaching should actually feel like.

The Missing Link in Coaching | Featuring Chris “Tex” McQuilkin

What if the biggest gap in modern coaching isn’t programming, knowledge, or intensity; but leadership? In this conversation, Ben sits down with Chris “Tex” McQuilkin from Captains & Coaches to unpack the missing link in athlete development: social-emotional leadership. This episode goes beyond sets, reps, and performance metrics, diving into the role coaches play in shaping not just athletes, but humans. Tex shares how personal tragedy became the catalyst for his work, leading him to explore how coaches can better guide athletes through adversity, build resilience, and create lasting impact beyond sport. They break down the difference between IQ and EQ in coaching, and why technical knowledge alone is no longer enough. From understanding athlete psychology, to managing communication under pressure, to recognising when someone is operating from stress versus logic, this is the layer most coaches overlook. You’ll also hear practical frameworks that can be applied immediately, including the five pillars of social-emotional leadership, the “3 H’s” for building deeper connection, and how language, tone, timing, and delivery can shape an athlete’s identity far more than we realise. This isn’t about creating better performers; it’s about creating better people, and understanding that the best coaches are often the last line of defence in that process. If you coach, lead, or influence others in any capacity, this conversation will challenge how you think about impact, responsibility, and what success actually means. Because in the end, it’s not medals or milestones that define a coach’s legacy, it’s the relationships that last long after the work is done.

Culture Isn’t an Accident: How Great Gyms Are Built with Special Guest CJ Appenzeller

Most gym cultures start as a byproduct of the founder being present every day. Standards, values, and expectations are lived out in real time. But as a coaching business grows, culture can’t rely on proximity anymore. It has to be translated into systems, language, and leadership that the entire team can carry forward. In this episode, Ben breaks down with CJ Appenzeller, the founder of ATS Strength and owner of multiple Brick & Mortar Gyms, what it actually takes to scale a coaching business without losing the mission that built it. Topics covered include: • Why core values must be taught through behaviour, not taught through slogans • How systems create consistency while still allowing coaches to bring their own style • The role of decentralised leadership in building stronger teams • Why strong training environments function as a “third place” community outside of home and work • The importance of understanding business metrics, operations, and leadership as you grow • Why great leaders focus on developing people while they’re part of the organisation If you're a coach, gym owner, or building a team in the fitness industry, this episode unpacks the realities of scaling culture, leadership, and community.

How Building Your Body Rebuilds Your Life | Guest Feature Brandon Dacruz

In this episode of the Matter Mentality Podcast, Ben sits down with a friend, accredited nutritionist, and physique coach, Brandon DaCruz, for a raw conversation on adversity, identity, and what real transformation actually requires. Brendan is an online nutrition coach, internationally published fitness model, national-level NPC competitor, and a professional who has worked with thousands of clients across body composition, performance, and health. But his path into coaching began long before the accolades, rooted in personal struggle, family loss, and a relentless pursuit of health after developing Relative Energy Deficiency in Sport (RED-S) as a young athlete. Together, they explore how hardship shapes purpose, why physique development can be a catalyst for broader life change, and why most people fail to sustain results despite knowing what to do. Key themes in this episode include: • How shared adversity creates real connection and understanding • Brendan’s early health struggles, dieting history, and injuries • The influence of witnessing chronic illness in his family • His health-centric coaching model: “A healthy body is a responsive body.” • Why proactive health beats reactive medicine • Coaching high performers who sacrificed health for success • Physique development as a conduit for psychological and life transformation • Why New Year’s resolutions fail without identity change • Action vs. motivation, and what actually builds momentum • Why getting lean isn’t the hard part… keeping it is. This episode goes beyond training and nutrition into the deeper drivers of performance: identity, responsibility, and long-term self-development. If you’re serious about sustainable results, high performance, and building a body that supports your life rather than consumes it, this conversation will resonate.