Episode 57: The Lovesick Man

Episode 57: The Lovesick Man

“ The issue here isn't sex. The issue here is objectification. So that can take place in a sexual context, but it can also take place in other contexts. So this potentially gives us the opening to say in a case where you have a disease that you're going to die where the cure would require the treating of another person as an object, that is not permitted. That's a much larger category. ” - Dan Libenson Welcome to The Oral Talmud, our weekly deep dive chevruta study partnership, discovering how voices of the Talmud from 1500 years ago can help us rethink Judaism today.  This week’s conversation begins with a lovesick man, a woman he barely knows, and a rabbinic ruling that seems almost impossible to understand. The doctors insist the man will die unless he has the woman. The rabbis refuse. They refuse when sex is proposed. They refuse when the doctors suggest she merely stand before him. They even refuse when all that’s required is a conversation from behind a fence. Again and again, they choose to let him die. What unfolds is far larger than an ancient argument about desire or modesty. We discover a hidden crack inside the rabbinic system itself: a moment that’s in conflict with a principle we thought we had established: saving a life trumps everything. But here, saving a life is not the highest value. The conversation moves from misogyny and objectification to feminism, queer liberation, systemic injustice, and the possibility that every tradition contains the tools needed to remake itself. If the rabbis could add new values to Torah, what values might we be called to add today? This week’s text: Sanhedrin 75a Find an edited transcript and full show notes (references and further reading) on The Oral Talmud webpage [https://www.judaismunbound.com/oraltalmud] for this episode! Access the Sefaria Source Sheet to explore key Talmud texts [https://voices.sefaria.org/sheets/326263?lang=bi] and find the original video of our discussion. The Oral Talmud is a co-production of Judaism Unbound [https://www.judaismunbound.com/] and SVARA: A Traditionally Radical Yeshiva [http://svara.org/]. If you’re enjoying this podcast, please help us keep both fabulous Jewish organizations going with a one-time or monthly tax-deductible donation at oraltalmud.com [http://oraltalmud.com/donate]. You can find a donate button on the top right corner of the website.

Episode 56: Children of Prophets

“ There's no question in my mind that retelling, reshaping the contours of the Jewish story is what you do. That's the most Jewish thing of all Jewish things.” - Benay Lappe Welcome to The Oral Talmud, our weekly deep dive chevruta study partnership, discovering how voices of the Talmud from 1500 years ago can help us rethink Judaism today.  This episode begins with a surprisingly modern question: are we discovering the truth, or are we making it? We begin with myth, storytelling, and the uneasy feeling that every generation reshapes Judaism even while claiming to preserve it. The rabbis may have left us only a few scattered hints, but those hints point toward a dangerous possibility: perhaps the people themselves carry the wisdom needed to guide the future. By the end, our conversation gets to an even more radical place. Hillel forgets the law, the experts lose their certainty, and ordinary Jews become “children of prophets.” The future, the Talmud suggests, does not arrive through leaders protecting the past. It arrives through leaders humble enough to notice what the people are already becoming. In a moment when authority feels fragile and communities are changing faster than institutions can respond, this ancient story asks a startling question: what if the people already know what God wants? This week’s text: Pesachim 66a Find an edited transcript and full show notes (references and further reading) on The Oral Talmud webpage [https://www.judaismunbound.com/oraltalmud] for this episode! Access the Sefaria Source Sheet to explore key Talmud texts [https://voices.sefaria.org/sheets/326424?lang=bi] and find the original video of our discussion. The Oral Talmud is a co-production of Judaism Unbound [https://www.judaismunbound.com/] and SVARA: A Traditionally Radical Yeshiva [http://svara.org/]. If you’re enjoying this podcast, please help us keep both fabulous Jewish organizations going with a one-time or monthly tax-deductible donation at oraltalmud.com [http://oraltalmud.com/donate]. You can find a donate button on the top right corner of the website.

Episode 55: The Wisdom of Crowds

“The rabbis ultimately see us being the Rabbi Akiva character, that everyone is an innovator, an upgrader, a potentially radical rewriter. That's the story that they're telling over and over and over and over in the Talmud. That's the message that they're trying to tell one another, to empower one another.” - Benay Lappe Welcome to The Oral Talmud, our weekly deep dive chevruta study partnership, discovering how voices of the Talmud from 1500 years ago can help us rethink Judaism today.  What happens when the people start changing Judaism before the rabbis are ready? This episode begins with a tiny legal question about the blessing over water and the width of an eruv beam, but it quickly explodes into something far bigger: who actually shapes Jewish law: the authorities at the top or the ordinary Jews already living differently? As Benay and Dan unpack the rabbinic principle of puk chazi, which translates as “go out and see what the people are doing,” the conversation turns radical. The rabbis aren’t just tolerating the behavior of everyday people. In some cases, they’re treating it as revelation. Which means the future of Judaism may not emerge first from rabbinic rulings or institutions, but from the people already stretching, resisting, and quietly remaking the tradition from below. This week’s text: Eruvin 14b Find an edited transcript and full show notes (references and further reading) on The Oral Talmud webpage [https://www.judaismunbound.com/oraltalmud] for this episode! Access the Sefaria Source Sheet to explore key Talmud texts [https://voices.sefaria.org/sheets/322244?lang=bi] and find the original video of our discussion. The Oral Talmud is a co-production of Judaism Unbound [https://www.judaismunbound.com/] and SVARA: A Traditionally Radical Yeshiva [http://svara.org/]. If you’re enjoying this podcast, please help us keep both fabulous Jewish organizations going with a one-time or monthly tax-deductible donation at oraltalmud.com [http://oraltalmud.com/donate]. You can find a donate button on the top right corner of the website.

Episode 54: Who Owns Torah?

“ People who learn the tradition own that tradition and therefore can do with it what an owner can do with what an owner owns. If you own your house, you can knock down walls, you can build an extra story, completely change it. You can knock down the whole thing.” - Benay Lappe Welcome to The Oral Talmud, our weekly deep dive chevruta study partnership, discovering how voices of the Talmud from 1500 years ago can help us rethink Judaism today.  Who owns tradition? God? The rabbis? Your teachers? Or you? This episode begins with a strange Talmudic argument about whether rabbis can “give up” the honor owed to them. But underneath that legal debate is a far more explosive question: who actually has authority over Torah once it enters human hands? As Benay and Dan trace the argument deeper, the text starts to crack open. A verse from Psalms gets reread in real time. A rabbi changes his mind mid-argument. And suddenly the rabbis seem to be saying something breathtaking: Torah begins as God’s Torah, but through study, struggle, and deep internalization, it becomes yours. Not to preserve behind glass. To wrestle with. To reshape. Maybe even to save. This week’s text: Kiddushin 32a Find an edited transcript and full show notes (references and further reading) on The Oral Talmud webpage [https://www.judaismunbound.com/oraltalmud] for this episode! Access the Sefaria Source Sheet to explore key Talmud texts [https://voices.sefaria.org/sheets/318067?lang=bi] and find the original video of our discussion. The Oral Talmud is a co-production of Judaism Unbound [https://www.judaismunbound.com/] and SVARA: A Traditionally Radical Yeshiva [http://svara.org/]. If you’re enjoying this podcast, please help us keep both fabulous Jewish organizations going with a one-time or monthly tax-deductible donation at oraltalmud.com [http://oraltalmud.com/donate]. You can find a donate button on the top right corner of the website.

Episode 53: What's the Point?

“You’re really wasting your time, you’re doing the wrong thing if you think that your job is to receive the tradition, protect it, preserve it, and hand it off exactly as you got it.” - Benay Lappe Welcome to The Oral Talmud, our weekly deep dive chevruta study partnership, discovering how voices of the Talmud from 1500 years ago can help us rethink Judaism today.  What if the point of tradition isn’t preserving it, but changing it? This episode begins with an obscure Talmudic line just three words long: “agra, de shmata, svara” or “The reward for tradition: svara,” and spirals into a radical argument about what Judaism is actually trying to produce. Not perfect obedience. Not perfect memory. But people capable of moral courage, intuition, and transformation. Along the way, Benay and Dan unpack a series of strange rabbinic aphorisms about weddings, funerals, fasting, and study, each one overturning what you thought the “point” was. The real reward for learning might not be knowledge. The real reward for mourning might not be comfort. And the real reward for engaging tradition might not be preserving it exactly as you received it… but bringing your full self to it so completely that the tradition itself changes in your hands. This week’s text: Berakhot 6b Find an edited transcript and full show notes (references and further reading) on The Oral Talmud webpage [https://www.judaismunbound.com/oraltalmud] for this episode! Access the Sefaria Source Sheet to explore key Talmud texts [https://voices.sefaria.org/sheets/318118?lang=bi] and find the original video of our discussion. The Oral Talmud is a co-production of Judaism Unbound [https://www.judaismunbound.com/] and SVARA: A Traditionally Radical Yeshiva [http://svara.org/]. If you’re enjoying this podcast, please help us keep both fabulous Jewish organizations going with a one-time or monthly tax-deductible donation at oraltalmud.com [http://oraltalmud.com/donate]. You can find a donate button on the top right corner of the website.