Stop Taking On People’s Projections

Stop Taking On People’s Projections

Kaila’s Keys: Their struggle is not your sentence. Class Notes: In this video, I’m talking to two groups of people. First, the people who know they didn’t do anything wrong. You asked a simple question, made a simple request, or showed up normally, and suddenly someone else’s anger got thrown in your direction. This is where you have to pause and ask yourself, does this anger even belong to me? Sometimes people are going through their own lessons, and instead of learning from them, they complain, blame, and project. Second, I’m talking to the people doing the projecting. Pain does not give anybody permission to treat people poorly. Stress, sickness, money problems, heartbreak, and life pressure do not give you a license to become cruel, dismissive, or ungrateful to the people trying to stand beside you. This is a reminder that you are responsible for your own energy. You do not have to become someone’s punching bag just because they are struggling. And if someone keeps using their situation as an excuse to mistreat you, it may be time to pause, create distance, or leave the relationship altogether. Short Story: There was a person standing in front of someone else’s storm, trying to figure out why they were getting wet. They kept asking themselves, What did I do wrong? Did I say something wrong? Did I ask for too much? But the storm was never theirs. It belonged to the person in front of them, the one who was hurting, frustrated, tired, and angry at a life they had not yet learned from. Instead of sitting with the lesson, they threw the weather onto everyone nearby. And one day, the person getting soaked finally stepped back and said, I can care about you without carrying what belongs to you. That was the moment the lesson changed. Because compassion does not mean self-abandonment. And someone else’s pain does not give them permission to make you bleed.

Muscle Testing for Empaths: Is This Feeling Even Yours?

Before you react, pause and ask: is this mine? If you’re an empath, sensitive, or someone who absorbs other people’s energy, this one is for you. I’m sharing how muscle testing helped me pause after a tense conversation and realize the anger I felt did not actually belong to me. Sometimes what feels like anxiety, anger, or emotional overwhelm is really someone else’s energy being projected onto you. Before you react, check in with yourself, ask better questions, and learn how to tell the difference between your emotions and what you picked up from somebody else. Emotional regulation starts with knowing what is yours and what is not.

How to Muscle Test: A Beginner’s Guide to Talking to Your Body

In this video, I’m walking you through how I muscle test and how I use it to communicate with my body, my intuition, and my spirit squad. I show you two simple finger methods, explain how to find your yes and no, and remind you why practice, patience, and responsibility matter. This is not medical advice and it is not about forcing answers. It is about learning how your body responds, starting with simple questions, and building trust with yourself one step at a time.

Help others but focus on yourself

You can support people without surrendering your whole life. I’m talking to the people who are tired, exhausted, frustrated, and still trying to carry everybody else’s life while their own is sitting there waiting on them. At some point, you have to understand that you are in charge of your life, your time, your peace, your boundaries, and your mission. Helping people is beautiful, but help has an expiration date. You are not here to move everybody else’s mountains while abandoning yourself. Focus on your growth, your healing, your assignment, and the life you came here to build. Stay up and stay blessed. Deuces.

Give People What They Actually Need

I used to think being a good mother, partner, or friend meant giving people the version of love I would have wanted. But I had to learn that real love pays attention. My children taught me that each person needs something different from me, and if I want the relationship to grow, I have to listen to who they actually are. This conversation is about giving people what they asked for, not what makes us feel useful. It is about communicating when our needs change, helping the people who love us adjust, and understanding that love still requires effort, attention, and balance. Stay up and stay blessed. Deuces.