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Why I Just Hired a Coach for Something I Could Figure Out Myself

20 min · 16. juni 2026
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If you're someone who typically skips straight to "I can figure this out myself," this episode is for you. I just hired a macros coach, and it's not because I didn't know what to do. I've had years of experience and know a lot about nutrition. I hired a coach anyway, and in this episode I breaks down exactly why, and how that decision reflects the way I approach every area of my life. I'm a firm believer that capable and optimal are not the same thing. We'll talk through the mindset shift that changed how I think about getting help, and why the women who seem like they have it all figured out are usually working with someone behind the scenes. Episode Highlights: * The health journey that led me to hire a macros coach * Why being capable of something doesn't make you the best person to do it * The sports coach analogy that reframes how we think about getting help as adults * The way I utilize coaches in lots of different area of my life * The one question that replaced "Can I do this myself?" * Why we cheer other people on for hiring coaches but judge ourselves for it Connect with Lauren: · Instagram: @itslaurenmora [https://www.instagram.com/itslaurenmora] · Website itslaurenmora.com [https://itslaurenmora.com/]

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