022: What to Consider When Sober Curious
This episode is for the woman who isn’t at rock bottom,
isn’t out of control,
and isn’t even sure she has a problem…
…but feels a quiet nudge that something about her relationship with alcohol no longer feels aligned.
I recorded this episode because of my own lived experience with alcohol—and because I kept noticing how many other women were quietly questioning theirs too. This episode is airing around the Christmas–New Year period, when conversations about Dry January and sobriety tend to surface, but what I share here goes much deeper than a 30-day challenge.
This is not an anti-alcohol lecture. I’m not here to tell you to stop drinking or to shame you for enjoying a glass of wine. I’m here to help you understand what alcohol may be doing for you—emotionally and biochemically—so you can make choices from awareness instead of white-knuckling or self-judgment.
🎧 IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN:
* Why most women who struggle with alcohol don’t fit the stereotype of “alcoholic”
* The emotional reasons women reach for alcohol: overwhelm, loneliness, exhaustion, and disconnection
* How alcohol functions as emotional relief, stimulation, dissociation, or numbing
* Why craving alcohol is often a signal, not a flaw
* The difference between emotional craving and biochemical craving
* How alcohol damages the gut microbiome and drives anxiety, low mood, and blood sugar swings
* The key nutrients depleted by alcohol: B vitamins, vitamin C, magnesium, and healthy fats
* Why burnout and adrenal depletion make alcohol especially tempting in the evening
* The four brain pathways alcohol temporarily manipulates: GABA, dopamine, endorphins, and serotonin
* Why white-knuckling sobriety rarely works
* What actually helps when you’re stepping away from alcohol
* What to expect emotionally and physically when you stop drinking
* Why symptoms coming up doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong
⏱️ TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 Introduction to The Real Remedy
00:28 Personal Struggles with Alcohol
01:08 Curiosity About Alcohol and Dry January
01:35 Emotional and Physical Aspects of Alcohol Cravings
05:45 Biochemistry of Craving Alcohol
12:59 Physical Health and Alcohol
18:12 Brain Pathways and Alcohol Desire
24:48 Challenges and Tips for Quitting Alcohol
26:52 Conclusion and Support Resources
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🔗 FROM THIS EPISODE:
014: Will Vitamin D help your winter blues https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/014-will-vitamin-d-help-your-winter-blues/id1831109345?i=1000735370573 [https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/014-will-vitamin-d-help-your-winter-blues/id1831109345?i=1000735370573]
018: Your Exhaustion Isn’t From Doing Too Much… It's From One Thing You’re Not Doing Part 1 https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/018-your-exhaustion-isnt-from-doing-too-much-its-from/id1831109345?i=1000739478890 [https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/018-your-exhaustion-isnt-from-doing-too-much-its-from/id1831109345?i=1000739478890]
019: Your Exhaustion Isn’t From Doing Too Much… It's From One Thing You’re Not Doing Part 2 https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/019-your-exhaustion-isnt-from-doing-too-much-its-from/id1831109345?i=1000740622804 [https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/019-your-exhaustion-isnt-from-doing-too-much-its-from/id1831109345?i=1000740622804]
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