The Soul'd Out Show with Chris & Tam

Relationship Goals + Reality: The Truth Behind #RelationshipGoals

Everybody loves the phrase “relationship goals”…but what are we really comparing ourselves to? In this episode, Chris and Tam have a real conversation about social media, relationships, perception, pressure, and the difference between what looks good online and what actually works in real life. Because the truth is, most people only post the highlights. They don’t post the disagreements, hard conversations, stress, sacrifices, growth, or the everyday work it takes to build a healthy relationship. In this episode, we discuss: • What “relationship goals” really means • Social media vs. real life relationships • Why people compare their relationships to others online • The pressure to look happy and successful publicly • What healthy relationships actually require behind the scenes • Defining your own relationship goals and values In this week's He Said / She Said, Chris and Tam discuss: "Should you share your side of a breakup publicly… or keep it private?" Is sharing your story healing or just seeking sympathy and attention? ______ Follow Chris and Tam on Instagram @SouldOutExperience. Make sure you subscribe and share this podcast with others!

DISC + Love: Understanding How We’re Wired to Love, Lead, and Communicate

Everybody says communication is the key to a healthy relationship…but what if the real issue is that you and your partner are wired completely differently? In this episode, we’re breaking down DISC in a real, relatable way, and showing how personality styles impact the way we communicate, handle conflict, make decisions, and show up for each other in love and in business. We’re sharing our actual DISC results and what they revealed about us, where we naturally align, where we clash, and how understanding each other’s wiring has changed the way we communicate and connect. Because the truth is…it’s not always about what’s being said. It’s also about how it’s being received. In this episode, we discuss: * How different DISC styles show up in relationships * What you’ve had to learn about each other to communicate and connect more effectively * How understanding each other’s style has improved your patience, communication, and expectations * The shift from taking things personally to understanding how your partner is wired In this week's He Said / She Said, Chris and Tam discuss: "Are Relationships Hard Work?" Are we overcomplicating relationships or are we unequally yoked? ______ Chris and Tamara are both certified John Maxwell speakers, trainers and coaches. If you and your partner or executive board/team are interested in learning DISC can help you learn and improve your communication, contact Chris Hill to schedule a time to discuss. Chris Hill, Your Intentional Leadership Coach Chris@H2UnlimitedLLC.com www.H2UnlimitedLLC.com ______ Follow Chris and Tam on Instagram @SouldOutExperience. Make sure you subscribe and share this podcast with others!

Fired + Moving Forward: When Losing Your Job Forces You to Re-evaluate Your life, Purpose, and What's Next

What happens when the job you thought was secure… suddenly isn’t? In this episode, we’re having a real conversation about getting fired, navigating career transitions, and what it looks like when life forces you to stop, reflect, and figure out what’s next. Chris and Tam share personal experiences about losing a job, what it felt like in the moment, the emotions no one really talks about, and how it can impact confidence, identity, and direction. From shock and frustration to clarity and purpose, this episode isn’t just about losing a job, it's about finding alignment. They talk about how they supported each other through that season, the conversations that mattered, and how that transition ultimately pushed them deeper into their business, purpose and new opportunities. Because sometimes…what feels like a setback is actually a setup. In this episode, we discuss: * The emotional reality of getting fired * How career loss impacts identity and confidence * Navigating uncertainty and the fear of “what’s next” * Supporting your partner through transition * How setbacks can lead to clarity, purpose, and new direction In this week's He Said / She Said, Chris and Tam discuss: "Do men and women prioritize their careers the same way, or differently?" Is your career part of who you are… or just what you do? ______ Follow Chris and Tam on Instagram @SouldOutExperience. Make sure you subscribe and share this podcast with others!

Stress + Support: How Couples Show Up For Each Other

Life gets heavy sometimes. Work pressures, family responsibilities, business demands, and everyday challenges can all show up at once. In this episode, Chris and Tam talk about what it really looks like to support each other when life is life-ing, without trying to fix everything or carry the weight alone. And why understanding how your partner experiences pressure can make a big difference in how you show up for each other. You’ll hear real talk about: • How each of them reacts under pressure • How stress in one area spills into others across life, love, and business • Knowing when to lean in, and when to give space • Learning how to support without always trying to fix things In this week's He Said / She Said, Chris and Tam discuss: "Should your partner be your only source of emotional support?" Does having a support system outside the relationship strengthen or hurt a relationship? ______ **SPECIAL NOTE**Listen to the end of the episode to hear the "Song for Chill." that Tam wrote for Chris. ______ Follow Chris and Tam on Instagram @SouldOutExperience. Make sure you subscribe and share this podcast with others!

Money + Mindset: How Beliefs About Money, Roles, and Responsibility Shape Relationships

Money conversations can bring up a lot: beliefs, expectations, pressure, and sometimes even tension. In this episode, Chris and Tam dive into how our upbringing, values, and personal experiences shape the way we think about money and responsibility in relationships. From traditional roles to modern partnerships, they explore how mindset often matters more than income and why alignment around money is one of the most important foundations in life, love and business. The conversation touches on how financial expectations evolve over time and why healthy conversations about money build trust, respect, and long-term partnership. You’ll hear real talk about: • How upbringing shapes expectations around roles and responsibility • Roles and expectations around money • How do modern relationships redefine roles • How financial conversations influence trust and respect in a relationship In this week's He Said / She Said, Chris and Tam discuss: "Should the man pay for everything in a relationship?" Is paying about money or values? ______ Follow Chris and Tam on Instagram @SouldOutExperience. Make sure you subscribe and share this podcast with others!